Almost a Meltdown

@Morleyhunt (21745)
Canada
December 28, 2015 6:58pm CST
At the moment, I might be considered emotionally fragile. So much has happened in a short period of time. There is a lot of stress in my life, although things are settling down. The last month on a scale of one to ten, with one being virtually no stress and ten as a high, I have averaged about a twelve. Christmas morning was a quiet, relaxing start. I made stuffing and started the bird in my brand new roaster oven pan. We headed for church. Enjoyed the message, the singing, the fellowship and the drive home. Walking in the door, I sniffed....not good....the turkey smells a bit overdone (burnt). Everything else for the meal was started and we went to open gifts.i returned to the kitchen to start the vegetables. Back in the living room I joined a game and quickly became absorbed. Hmmm, what's that smell....oh no, the vegetables. You guessed it. Burnt. At this point I was close to becoming distraught. I excused myself to attend the meal. Moved the burnt veggies to another room (I'll deal with them later!) Selected another pan and a different vegetable. Took the turkey out of the pan to see what I could salvage. There was enough to serve everyone, phew! Now to make some gravy, as the salvaged meat did seem a little dry. At this point my husband came into the kitchen to see if he could help. My mini meltdown began. I told him the dinner was ruined, I didn't have enough hands, and no he couldn't help. (Pity party?) He finished setting the table, called everyone in to sit and asked a blessing on the meal. I, meanwhile, pulled myself together, and with quivering chin sat down to eat. It may not have been the meal I wanted to serve, but it actually was not too bad. Everyone enjoyed the meal and the chance to spend time together. Thank you @Platespinner for your help and understanding. Also thank you to my husband for knowing when to just give me a hug and do what needed doing.
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@shellyjaneo (1081)
• United Kingdom
29 Dec 15
That's what Christmas is all about, stress and burt food and the Mother/Wife having a meltdown. Well that's what it was like growing up for me lol x
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@Morleyhunt (21745)
• Canada
29 Dec 15
I'm not prone to meltdowns, but since my mother passed away a month ago, I have been living on adrenaline. Eventually a crash will come.
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• United Kingdom
29 Dec 15
@Morleyhunt Oh no I am so sorry for your loss. I think it is common to keep so busy after a bereavement that you don't actually process it until months later and inevitably you will crash but you will get through it x
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@fishtiger58 (29823)
• Momence, Illinois
29 Dec 15
Sometimes things happen. Sounds like it wasn't as bad as you thought. Glad you had a nice time after your meltdown.
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@Morleyhunt (21745)
• Canada
29 Dec 15
The destruction of the food was probably as bad as I thought, but some adjustments were made and it worked out regardless of my inept food preparation.
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@fishtiger58 (29823)
• Momence, Illinois
29 Dec 15
@Morleyhunt Don't be so hard on yourself, it happens.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
29 Dec 15
see you need not hav e stresses as family is family and th e love and conversation and the gathering together have overcome any f food imperfections.
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@Morleyhunt (21745)
• Canada
29 Dec 15
We have all (in our separate households) been stressed to the maximum by circumstances beyond our control. We also were prepared to make allowances and be tolerant.
@vickyrose (2235)
• Cooma, Australia
29 Dec 15
All's well that ends well. I had a Christmas like that. I wasn't good at cooking turkeys so I just cook ham now and visit a friend who prepared turkey as they always give me their left overs. Have a wonderful New Year!
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@Morleyhunt (21745)
• Canada
29 Dec 15
Usually my turkey is perfect. This year was just off, Christmas was not anticipated the way we normally do.
@JudyEv (326602)
• Rockingham, Australia
29 Dec 15
When we've put so much effort into something, it can seem like the end of the earth when it all goes wrong. I'm sorry you're so stressed. I'm sure your family were there for the fellowship at least as much as for the meal.
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@Morleyhunt (21745)
• Canada
29 Dec 15
It was more the lead up, than the actual burnt food that caused the mini meltdown. There are too many changes that I am processing. A meltdown of some sort is inevitable. Pity the person who finally triggers it.
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@paigea (35823)
• Canada
29 Dec 15
It should be all about the time together. The rest is just gravy.
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@Morleyhunt (21745)
• Canada
29 Dec 15
I knew that. My guests also were aware of the stresses I was working with. They are experiencing their own stress. We tried to make our few days together as laid back as possible.
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