What do you do when you like someone?
@BigMoney25 (1286)
Philippines
January 17, 2016 6:27pm CST
I want to ask for advice since I am always seeing this girl at the office and I'm thinking of a way to approach her or something. We have been at the elevator at the same time thrice already and still haven't talked to her I mean I don't know how to start. Do you know a way I can approach this girl without her feeling like awkward or without me looking like I am feeling close to her? Thank you and happy mylotting! Let's all get paid people!
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@Mike197602 (15487)
• United Kingdom
18 Jan 16
just go up to her and ask if she wants to go out for a drink or dinner.
The upfront approach always works better than some contrived thing.
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@Mike197602 (15487)
• United Kingdom
18 Jan 16
as you don't appear to work directly with her and you don't know her as such if you get the knock back it won't be too bad.
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@BigMoney25 (1286)
• Philippines
18 Jan 16
@Mike197602 I feel like it's a bit too straightforward though. do you have any more ways? I really want to know her more.
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@Mike197602 (15487)
• United Kingdom
18 Jan 16
@JolietJake seems to be a load of bacon topics around tonight.
I just finished 12 rashers in 4 rolls
lovely
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@purplealabaster (22094)
• United States
18 Jan 16
You could always go with the obvious approach ... smile at her and say "hi". If she smiles and answers back, then you can try to start a quick, casual conversation.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
18 Jan 16
@BigMoney25 - If she does not respond positively, then you should not disturb or interact with her further. Better to move ahead and look for someone else.
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@purplealabaster (22094)
• United States
18 Jan 16
@BigMoney25 If she doesn't smile and say "hi" back, then I would have to agree with @dpk262006. However, if she does smile but does not say "hi", then I would just try again another day, because maybe she didn't hear you or was preoccupied with something and didn't realize you spoke until it was too late.
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@BigMoney25 (1286)
• Philippines
18 Jan 16
What if she doesnt say hi back :(( @purplealabaster
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
18 Jan 16
You need to start a conversation by saying Hello and ask a subsequent question e.g. "In which department do you work?" If she replies positively, then you could tell about yourself or may ask further question, as the case may be.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
18 Jan 16
@BigMoney25 - While interacting with anyone first believe in yourself and talk to the other person with conviction. All the best.
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@BigMoney25 (1286)
• Philippines
18 Jan 16
I like the sound of this idea my friend. Must try this one. Hope it works!!
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@41CombedaleRoad (5952)
• Greece
18 Jan 16
Girls like a man to be manly and shyness is not an option, so you really need to go for it instead of hope for it. Girls notice when men notice, so she probably already has an inkling. Look straight at her and smile, if she does not smile back say something to make sure of a response.
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@BigMoney25 (1286)
• Philippines
18 Jan 16
Thank you very much for the advice I like taking pieces of advice from people like you because I believe it. Girls like man who have confidence and that's exactly what I'm gonna do tomorrow. Oh and by the way I saw her a while ago again at the office and we had a little long eye contact. Don't know if it's a sign or not, but I will take my chances this time. What do you think? @41Combedale
@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
18 Jan 16
I think it is easy work. You just need to send your smile and see her response. It will open how you will approach her or nothing to do more at all.
@BigMoney25 (1286)
• Philippines
18 Jan 16
How does that work I mean what if she dont even notice that I was already smiling at her? lol dont mind me im just a little nervous but I think Ill give your advice a shot to see what happens. Whats bothering me is that she looks serious almost all the time so Im not sure if she will smile back but still, i will give this a try. Thank you!!!
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@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
19 Jan 16
@BigMoney25 You have to find the best time to send your smile. If you find she looks serious almost all the time. I have second trick to break her concentration. Try to drop something near her foot and say " excuse me,..." while you smile to her and take what you have drop in near her foot. It is impossible she does not reply your smile, at least she will look at you.
We never know if we never try...Good Luck!
@Scindhia (1906)
• India
18 Jan 16
If you are interested in her, even if you don't approach her, she would definitely get the vibes that you are attracted to her. Start a simple conversation and see how it goes. If it is alright, then you can take it forward.
@BigMoney25 (1286)
• Philippines
18 Jan 16
Yeah I will make a move tomorrow it's a now or never situation for me right now so I know that I do not have anything to lose so I'll give it a shot. Thank you!
@Scindhia (1906)
• India
18 Jan 16
If you are interested in her, even if you don't approach her, she would definitely get the vibes that you are attracted to her. Start a simple conversation and see how it goes. If it is alright, then you can take it forward.
@Scindhia (1906)
• India
18 Jan 16
If you are interested in her, even if you don't approach her, she would definitely get the vibes that you are attracted to her. Start a simple conversation and see how it goes. If it is alright, then you can take it forward.
@abhinalstrikr (4111)
• India
18 Jan 16
be true to your feelings and express it as you will never get a second chance to make the first impression.
