Poligamy anyone?

I have found that most of the people who support polygamy are male, though not always. I personally think it is a bad idea. A man answering the demands of two wives is bound to shorten his life expectancy. I think it can also cause problems among the children. Rereading your post, it seems to me what your friend was referring to was promiscuity more than polygamy. Even in polygamy, you are in a committed relationship, but with more than one other person. I'd say you friend just wants to be free to fool around.

Polygamy may not be a serious sin, but it would most likely distress the other party in an otherwise monogamous relationship greatly. I agree emphatically with your opinion that it is not worth causing such distress to a loved one for the sake of a passing pleasure.

Muslims practise polygamy ofcourse only men and I still cannot understand how the women are happy about it and stay insane. We have been brought up to believe that monogamy is the right way to live - not that we do not get attracted to other men but since it is there in our mind about monogamy being right that feeling is kept in check.

Same as yours, we are born free and should always be free to decide what is good or wrong for us.

Poligamy is being practice and it's legal for Muslims.

I don't even have one partner much less two!

My views may seem controversial...but I do feel that I would rather men take more wives or even women take more husbands, if they can manage it...it is their personal life...provided the partners too think in the like fashion. There should not be restrictions. If a person wants a single spouse, so be it. If the person wants more so be it provided that the partners are ok.and can accept the previous partners/new partners. The monogamy thing has not really made world a happier place and many crimes have occurred because of it. So why not kill the bait? I would rather we go for this way rather than let human trafficking thrive. I read JJ's views on this, and i agree managing more than one might be difficult proposition...but it is for the partners to decide what they are getting into. My sole objective in saying this is I think it will stop some crimes. I think polygamy can be managed. If it were not so, muslims would have discontinued that. And there are tribes in India to this day where polyandry is prevalent.

I like mahogany, but that is out of fashion too, probably due to cost. Everything seems to be pine these days. Cheap and cheerful, much like myself.

I think it is not acceptable for me. In some case, it is acceptable in certain religion. But then, morality will be the issue once committed adultery.

Personally I am not for it, I am for fidelity.