Children in Restaurants

Danville, California
March 21, 2016 2:00pm CST
Went out for dinner on Saturday evening at the Country Inn near my place. This woman had a kid that just kept on screaming, and running around the place. And she just kind of sat there, and did nothing. Just because you're not annoyed by the shrieking of your child, and your child ruins your dinner, doesn't mean that my meal should be ruined too. Here's a hint, if you child is screaming, and yelling for more than a minute, take your child out of the restaurant, find out what’s going on, and control him or just don't go out to eat. Not all of us find a screaming, and annoying child a pleasant dining experience. Children are frequently a nightmare for anyone as customer or to people having to work in a restaurant, because a significant number of parents appear to have no desire to actually corral their kids. This isn’t to say all kids in restaurants are terrible, or that all parents are bad at taking their children to restaurants. Many parents are excellent at this with well-behaved kids. Similarly, restaurants should (and, it’s worth noting, mostly do) have infinite sympathy for parents who are actively trying to corral their kids. Many of us are parents ourselves, and even more understand the fact that sometimes, it doesn’t matter what a parent does—their kid is just going to be a dick. It happens. But in the other hand there are people so self-absorbed that they think they have a right to take their kids anywhere and let them do anything, regardless of whether they disturb or bother other people or if the business in question would rather just not accept their money. Think about the fact that many of them genuinely believe that if they are not allowed to do so, it as an issue of discrimination. Think about the fact that these people exist! So for all you parents out there, if you can't control your kids, don't take them out. Or if you have to take them out, just because your time is ruined doesn't give you the right to ruin my time too. If anyone else has stories of annoying kids ruining meals for you, now is the time to RANT, I like to see if this is starting to become an annoying trend now.
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@CodryP (21)
• Bucharest, Romania
22 Mar 16
And some people thought smoking is disturbing in restaurants.
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@maezee (41997)
• United States
21 Mar 16
Love it! People in the service industry are busy enough and they certainly dont get paid enough to babysit as well.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
21 Mar 16
It is and I have been know to say something to the parent about the little brat not behaving. Get them up and take them outside and either spank them or sit them out there and never take them into a restaurant again.
@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
22 Mar 16
Its about to get much worse. There is a new style of parenting making the rounds and it basically involves rewarding for bad behavior or completely ignoring it. Many parents these days care more about sucking up to to their kids and being their "bff" instead of doing their jobs. In the future, they will be looking at their children through prison bars. I'm sure it'll be the proudest day of their lives.
• Calgary, Alberta
21 Mar 16
This is the reason why I am not a father yet. I do want to be a father but I dont think I am mentally ready yet. I need to earn more patience and discipline to be good enough to be a dad.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
21 Mar 16
I cannot stand to see a child acting out and the parent doing nothing anywhere! It annoys the life out of me because it's not that hard to handle children-if done in the correct manner. My children know if we go anywhere they better not embarrass me. If they do they know there will be consequences their not going to like when we go home. I am always complimented on how well my children behave-at church, when we go out to eat, or anywhere else.
@marlina (154165)
• Canada
21 Mar 16
Obviously, parents who can not control their kids in public should be kicked out.