One of the.best.

@Lucky15 (37346)
Philippines
May 16, 2016 6:33pm CST
It wa either, i am one the millions unemployed or accept it. When i was asked to look after our father, after our mother died, never said no, for i just quit on.my office job that time. When our father died 3 years after, i look for a job somewhere.near but my age won't let me land one. (Am on my late 20s and companies here don't want me because of it, not liking the system). One of my sister asked me if i am willing to work overseas, and as a domestic helper. With my "ideas" of a helper, i was.hesitant at first, thinking of, being a degree.holder and ends up being one. (Ego) I made a choice, not thinking about what i finished in college. Have to earn for a living and save aome for my future, don't want to depend on my siblings, financially. Well, being a domestic helper was an eye opener. How my fellow Filipinos.worked hard for their family, how they feel being.far.from.family and how their family have become (husband womanizing, their children missed.school due to not so good friends). I thought they only happens in the movies. But it was not. Their struggle is REAL. It was one memorable experience even if i just work as one for more than a year.(due to health reason). Would you ever land on a job that you feel you shouldn't be into?
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@JudyEv (326823)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 May 16
I've done that a few times. Some people are really unkind to their paid help - just from what I've read and heard anyway.
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@Lucky15 (37346)
• Philippines
17 May 16
Unkind, treated badly seen a lot. It breaks my.heart when i always saw this indonesian helper at the backdoor elevator before, she got few burns, some scratches and she is carrying a aluminum ladder. Telling me she has to do car wash
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@JudyEv (326823)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 May 16
@Lucky15 And they probably leave their home countries with such high hopes.
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@Lucky15 (37346)
• Philippines
17 May 16
@JudyEv they were. And they have to endure everything
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• United States
17 May 16
As a single mom I had to work jobs I didn't like to put food on the table. Thankfully I was able to find a job I liked but I still remember the tough ones
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@Lucky15 (37346)
• Philippines
17 May 16
The tough.one made us wiser...isn"t it? :)
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@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
16 May 16
The only job that's on my mind that i would never ever want to be is to become a politician! Will I be a domestic helper. I'm not qualified at all. Can't cook, can't clean the house, can't do laundry, can't iron.
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@Lucky15 (37346)
• Philippines
17 May 16
It is just funny as i look back. Has i been prepared to become one? Like i was taught to do chores at a young age. Lol Me too, no.to being a politician, though my clan has been into it for years
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
17 May 16
I've read about your countrymen being taken advantage of and being treated badly. I hope it wasn't too bad for you. What country did you work in?
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@jstory07 (135173)
• Roseburg, Oregon
17 May 16
@Lucky15 That is great that you were treated nice.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
17 May 16
@Lucky15 I remember seeing a TV programme about it, and I think it was HongKong that was featured. Apparently there were a lot of workers who had lost their jobs (mostly through no fault of their own) and couldn't afford the fare home, so they were living on the streets. I'm glad that your employer was kind.
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@Lucky15 (37346)
• Philippines
17 May 16
I am one of the few who were lucky.to have a kind employer in Hong Kong(american family) I met some whose employer will hide their passports. Who never had a day off.and worst are those idonesians--met few who were treated badly
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• United States
17 May 16
some folks do well with workin' abroad, but mostly those who're single'n 've no other obligations. but, bein' domestic help'n some countries sounds to me to be somewhat'f a prison sentence :( so many're takin' advantage'f, abused 'n those back home can't handle the pressure'f 'em bein' gone. i've'd some purty crappy jobs myself though, we do what we can to survive.
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• United States
18 May 16
@Lucky15 jest awful the way some folks treat others :(
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@Lucky15 (37346)
• Philippines
17 May 16
Agree some were.being abused because some would just take it than going home and earn nothing ;(
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@Lucky15 (37346)
• Philippines
18 May 16
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@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
16 May 16
hmmm, yes. if i really and badly needed it. what coursre did you took?
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@Lucky15 (37346)
• Philippines
16 May 16
Accountancy until my third year and made a shift
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@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
17 May 16
@Lucky15 oh why? sayang! xD
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@Lucky15 (37346)
• Philippines
17 May 16
@trivia79 retention grade wasn't met
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
17 May 16
Money and the need of it for survival can definitely play on one's mind. I have never considered any job as lowly. But I have been lucky enough to be into something that I always loved.
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
17 May 16
@Lucky15 Of course, one should follow the rules and the law
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@Lucky15 (37346)
• Philippines
17 May 16
No matter how.low it is as.long.as.it legal right?
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@Lucky15 (37346)
• Philippines
17 May 16
@thesids yep..haha
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
17 May 16
Sadly , that's what happens to some of our fellow kababayan abroad . They get another woman or man . Why is it that in your late 20's yet you don't get hired ? But you have an office experience to show them .
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
18 May 16
@Lucky15 I think that's an exaggeration of the age limit . Here , age limit is 30 or 35 .
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@Lucky15 (37346)
• Philippines
17 May 16
I have one. Yes. Sadly, they don't..i was 26 that time and what they wanted was 25..max age. Haha
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@Lucky15 (37346)
• Philippines
18 May 16
@SIMPLYD yep. Sad but it is. We have few business here and they were picky ;(
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• Philippines
17 May 16
A lot of times, but that was jobs involving my brother as a boss. right now, the only job I take is not so much of a pressure.
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@Lucky15 (37346)
• Philippines
17 May 16
Glad that you have a job that is not.putting you.much pressure
@PainsOnSlate (21854)
• Canada
17 May 16
That sounds very stressful. I have been lucky, the few times I worked out of the house was fine and the money was good but when i started my own business, painting, I was very happy, To sell my products to local store and enjoy staying home.
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• Canada
17 May 16
@Lucky15 I hope you get that chance in your life.
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@Lucky15 (37346)
• Philippines
17 May 16
The best thing is to do things.you love dearly ;)
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@just4him (308825)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 May 16
If I felt I shouldn't be in it, I wouldn't take it. It sounds like it wasn't a good experience for you. I'm sorry.
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@just4him (308825)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 May 16
@Lucky15 It's good then you had the experience.
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@Lucky15 (37346)
• Philippines
17 May 16
It is one of the best. It.opened my eyes. I was this complaining person before.but them.i apprrciate life with the experiemce
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@brokenbee (11090)
• Philippines
17 May 16
I had declined a lot of opportunities, even those that are related to my course. I think it's my being too stubborn that made me decide not to take those. But I don't really think I like the job or I don't want to work with or I don't want to be dictated. Ahahaha Lots of excuses. But of course, if I have no more alternative jobs, I might accept jobs even those that i don't want.
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@Lucky15 (37346)
• Philippines
17 May 16
@brokenbee hahaha. So is boyfriend
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@Lucky15 (37346)
• Philippines
17 May 16
We can not be picky..hahaha
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@brokenbee (11090)
• Philippines
17 May 16
@Lucky15 yup! Hihi
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@magallon (19280)
• Philippines
17 May 16
Being on a job that you feel you shouldn't be into is for me a situation that is hard to accept. I got into a job which I really don't like and I find it so difficult to adjust. I really need to earn money that time for my children so I don't have any choice but to accept it.
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• Philippines
28 Jun 16
I was assigned to do bookkeeping. I had no idea what to do. I'm an engineering graduate and they want me to work on bookkeeping. I didn't stayed long though. Imagine the stress I've been through.
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@Lucky15 (37346)
• Philippines
28 Jun 16
The adjustment must be hard. ;(
@MGjhaud (23251)
• Philippines
17 May 16
late 20s and theyre no longer hiring you? youre making me feel worried.
• United States
17 May 16
I have worked in jobs where I wasn't happy at all. I left a couple and was unemployed for a while. But soon found another.
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@Lucky15 (37346)
• Philippines
17 May 16
Sometimes it is hard to be happy with a.job we have. And we end up quitting. But we all knowthat somewhere, there is a job that is meant for us ;)
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@Yar_Joey (3271)
• Philippines
17 May 16
I did not try working that is not within my profession. Now however I am not practicing and I am at home because I am till not well
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@Lucky15 (37346)
• Philippines
17 May 16
Aww. Hope you get better soon
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@XCasper (18)
18 May 16
Well I have been lucky enough to land on jobs which I have always loved. But have many friends who are always complaining about what they do. but as you said, life is not always fair and the struggle is real. So we just have to work for that 'Dream Job' unless you are not already doing it...
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@Lucky15 (37346)
• Philippines
18 May 16
I didn't complain with what i get into...am lucky to have this.attitude ;)
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