Rumours Of My Demise Are Greatly Exaggerated!!

@WorDazza (15833)
Manchester, England
May 26, 2016 8:15am CST
It was with great consternation I noted that my last meaningful (is anything I do ever really meaningful?) contribution to myLot was 13 days ago. It doesn't seem that long. But, when life throws up challenges that can't be ignored, time can indeed grip you slyly in its spell (thanks Moz!). That makes the reason for my absence sound rather more dramatic than it actually was. Stuff needed to be dealt with. Nothing major nor life-threatening but very time consuming. Upon noticing the length of my absence from here I was initially worried that during my sabbatical I never once felt an irresistible urge to log in. No withdrawal symptoms. Did this mean I'd fallen out of love with the place? Of course not! Like any good relationship it is much better being involved because you want to be, not because you need to be! Although that doesn't always mean you can be! Hope you've all been keeping well.
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@Drosophila (16573)
• Ireland
26 May 16
lol I thought you cacked it :D
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@WorDazza (15833)
• Manchester, England
26 May 16
Nice to know you were so cut up!!
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@Drosophila (16573)
• Ireland
26 May 16
@WorDazza i was convinced... hugo finally took control..
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@WorDazza (15833)
• Manchester, England
26 May 16
@Drosophila How do you know this isn't Hugo??
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28 May 16
I have an on and off "relationship" with Mylot eversince I became a member here for several reasons. We even temporarily "divorced" for sometime when Mylot stopped giving "finacial support" but still like a bird I always come back to my nest and thats Mylot.
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@vandana7 (99013)
• India
30 May 16
@WorDazza ..Distance makes heart grows fonder..(said by somebody not me). Prove that right or wrong...but at least prove something.
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29 May 16
@WorDazza Oh yes.
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@WorDazza (15833)
• Manchester, England
29 May 16
More of a trial separation than a divorce really
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@rebelann (111311)
• El Paso, Texas
26 May 16
It's spring ..... ok, it is here anyway ..... so lottsa folks gonna end up trippin through the real world instead of cybering, I can't wait til they all come back with their stories. Life is grand, isn't it.
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@rebelann (111311)
• El Paso, Texas
27 May 16
I am so jealous @WorDazza too bad you can't send some of that rain to me so I don't have to water the plants
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@WorDazza (15833)
• Manchester, England
27 May 16
@rebelann I'm wondering if we could modify the wind turbines we have on the North West coast of England and use them as huge fans to blow the clouds across the Atlantic!!!
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@WorDazza (15833)
• Manchester, England
26 May 16
Try telling the weather in the UK that it's spring!! We have a Bank Holiday weekend coming up so rain is par for the course!!!
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@koopharper (7502)
• Canada
26 May 16
You're still doing better than I am. I was AWOL for several months.
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@WorDazza (15833)
• Manchester, England
26 May 16
I hope the MPs didn't catch you
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@Inlemay (17714)
• South Africa
26 May 16
we missed you, but we are glad the things that needed dealing with are now dealt with.
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@vandana7 (99013)
• India
8 Jun 16
@WorDazza Did I really read that? I guess I did.
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@Inlemay (17714)
• South Africa
27 May 16
@WorDazza ha ha ha - we are a nice bunch
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@WorDazza (15833)
• Manchester, England
27 May 16
I missed everyone here too! I must be getting old. I'm becoming far too sentimental!!!
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@JudyEv (326354)
• Rockingham, Australia
26 May 16
Welcome back - again! Another week and I'll be gone again for a few days. But eventually I'll be back again too. You can only do what you can do. :)
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@WorDazza (15833)
• Manchester, England
26 May 16
That is very true. By the time I got some free time every day all I was capable of doing was sleeping!! Now that's something I really can do!!
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@dodo19 (47121)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
26 May 16
Sometimes things just happen and keeps away from doing things that we'd like to do, whether it be spending time on my lot, or whatever else we enjoy. I hope you've alright.
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@WorDazza (15833)
• Manchester, England
26 May 16
I am, and have been , really good thanks. Just stupidly busy with real world stuff.
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@vandana7 (99013)
• India
30 May 16
So how sozzled are you after consuming that much of time..
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@WorDazza (15833)
• Manchester, England
30 May 16
If I could get drunk on time then, at my age, I'd be absolutely legless.
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@LadyDuck (459627)
• Switzerland
31 May 16
I came to your profile because I had not seen notifications of discussions posted by you from a pretty long time. I missed this one, but I also was not around for several days. Real life was calling.
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@LadyDuck (459627)
• Switzerland
31 May 16
@WorDazza This is so true, a very annoying thing.
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@WorDazza (15833)
• Manchester, England
31 May 16
Real life can be a very time consuming business. We'd all be so much better off without it!!
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@Fleura (29236)
• United Kingdom
26 May 16
Good to see you back, we missed you!
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@Fleura (29236)
• United Kingdom
26 May 16
@WorDazza Glad we help brighten your day!
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@WorDazza (15833)
• Manchester, England
26 May 16
@Fleura I said it was therapy. Didn't say anything about it brightening my day
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@WorDazza (15833)
• Manchester, England
26 May 16
This is what I've missed. A good ego massage! But seriously. Thanks for the welcome back. Not sure how much time I'm going to get over the next few weeks but I feel I need to make the effort. It's actually quite therapeutic this place!!
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• United States
26 May 16
Life does get in the way sometimes, but I figure this is often a good thing. I know that people also go off for unpleasant reasons, illness, etc., but I would rather think they are out having fun.
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@WorDazza (15833)
• Manchester, England
26 May 16
Well I wasn't having fun but it wasn't anything detrimental to my well-being either. I have learned one or two life lessons over the past couple of weeks which I feel have put me in a much better position for the future.
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@WorDazza (15833)
• Manchester, England
27 May 16
@ElizabethWallace It didn't feel fabulous at the time when I was bogged down with stuff I had to sort out. But hindsight does cast a different light on events. There can be a world of difference between learning things and putting them into effect. I'm an expert in procrastination. I know I should do something but it can always wait, or so I think. Don't fall into the same trap I usually do. Carpe Diem as they (used to) say!!
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• United States
26 May 16
@WorDazza That's fabulous. I learned a few things too. Now I just have to put them into effect.
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@JESSY3236 (19008)
• United States
31 May 16
I missed one day last week and one day this week. But I'm back too.
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@WorDazza (15833)
• Manchester, England
31 May 16
I've been so busy lately I wish I could only miss a day here and there. I'm in control of things now (as in control as I'll ever be!!) so should hopefully be around a bit more.
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• United Kingdom
28 May 16
I haven't been here for months and had so few withdrawal symptoms that I, erm, forgot MyLot existed - must try harder!
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@WorDazza (15833)
• Manchester, England
29 May 16
Blimey! A blast from the past. Nice to see you have rediscovered the place!!
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@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
26 May 16
Real life and reality is not the online world. They take precedence.
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@WorDazza (15833)
• Manchester, England
26 May 16
Indeed. Unfortunately the line between them is becoming increasingly blurred to some.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
26 May 16
I'm glad to see you back, Dazza. You're right - there is absolutely no obligation to be here. If real life intervenes, so be it.
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@WorDazza (15833)
• Manchester, England
27 May 16
This is why I never apologise for not being around!! Besides, you probably all could do with a break from me every now and again!!!
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@MALUSE (69409)
• Germany
9 Jun 16
Absence makes the heart grow fonder! Maybe you like myLot even better now?
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@WorDazza (15833)
• Manchester, England
9 Jun 16
Conversely, out of sight, out of mind! But in this case it's definitely absence makes the heart grow fonder!!
@boiboing (13153)
• Northampton, England
27 May 16
I find that once I take a break it's REALLY hard to motivate myself to start again. I'm glad you managed to.
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@WorDazza (15833)
• Manchester, England
27 May 16
Yeah, it was a bit like that. Still struggling to come up with anything worthy of a discussion but I'm ticking over just reading and commenting.
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@Poppylicious (11133)
27 May 16
Completely agree with the last few sentences of this post. Plus, it's nice to see you. Has it really been two weeks? It seems so much longer. :)
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@WorDazza (15833)
• Manchester, England
27 May 16
It only seemed shorter to me because I'm suffering from older person's time compression syndrome!!
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