Long Distance Relationship
By Dee
@ayahmdee13 (199)
Pasig, Philippines
August 9, 2016 6:25am CST
I am in a long distance relationship. We've been together for more than a year but this year we will meet for the first time. This is my second time in this kind of relationship the first one wasn't a success because of his true personality. I know that a lot of people don't believe about this LDR because they think that it's not worth it. There are more negative sides than positive if you are in this kind of relationship.
I started blogging about LDR because of my situation and I am happy that I met a lot friends that has the same situation and their stories inspired me a lot. Are you in a relationship? What do you think about long distance relationship?
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
9 Aug 16
I have never been in a long distance relationship but my daughter has and it worked out really well. They met on a dating site, dated for a year but because he lived quite a long way away she couldn't see him that often. This week they move into their first house together after being together for nearly 3 years. It does work out for some people.
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
9 Aug 16
@ayahmdee13 I guess it won't always work but if two people care enough to want to be together then it can.
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@ayahmdee13 (199)
• Pasig, Philippines
9 Aug 16
@sprite1950 wow! three years it good but well there are times that it won't work right? being apart can sometimes be deceiving.. hahaha
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@ayahmdee13 (199)
• Pasig, Philippines
9 Aug 16
@sprite1950 yes.. you are right.. and they have to know each other very well too
@excellent10 (360)
• Israel
9 Aug 16
I'm also in a relationship it remotely.
But I am most happy that because it's the right someone for me if there
Love respect and appreciation between the couple then equal to endure the distance ..
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@ayahmdee13 (199)
• Pasig, Philippines
9 Aug 16
@excellent10 wow.. really that's nice to hear.. :)
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@velvet53 (22528)
• Palisade, Colorado
17 Aug 16
@ayahmdee13 Life goes on and I am sure some day I will be with someone
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@ayahmdee13 (199)
• Pasig, Philippines
16 Aug 16
aww that's bad to hear..but it's fine.. thank u :)
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@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
9 Aug 16
I cannot say LDR is not good, but though there are happy ending with kind of plot but many turn out be a disaster.
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@Raj7779 (3657)
• Canada
10 Aug 16
@ayahmdee13 now I am in close distance relationship and I like it very much because we are able to talk face to face.
We can not feel good in long distance relationship than close distance
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@ayahmdee13 (199)
• Pasig, Philippines
10 Aug 16
@Raj7779 aww that's sweet that's great to hear.. yes you are right there are things that you can't do if you're in long distance.,..
@ayahmdee13 (199)
• Pasig, Philippines
9 Aug 16
oh... sorry to hear that there are LDR that are not successful and others stick to close distance relationship.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
9 Aug 16
Whether it's long distance or not, a relationship will work when it's meant to be. Good luck on your love.
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@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
9 Aug 16
In a long distance relationship,the two partners ought to be committed for it to work.Then trust is important in such a relationship and don't have any reservations that may make your partner doubt if the relationship is worth his or her time.
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@ayahmdee13 (199)
• Pasig, Philippines
9 Aug 16
@waflay you are right? but what if he/she suddenly stop the communication. no warning at all.
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@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
9 Aug 16
@ayahmdee13 At times you have to look for a red flag like for a case where one partner just goes silent and this definitely means something is looming.Then you need to ask yourself if you are really in a healthy relationship.You may weigh your options to know whether the relationship is worthwhile
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@ayahmdee13 (199)
• Pasig, Philippines
9 Aug 16
@waflay yes you are correct but we can't blame others for believing them they just like/love them.
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@ayahmdee13 (199)
• Pasig, Philippines
10 Aug 16
@skysnap my first was not good.. but i am happy that now is great.. :)
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@LeaPea2417 (36460)
• Toccoa, Georgia
9 Aug 16
I do think in certain situations, it can work. I wish you the best with yours.
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@shivamani10 (11038)
• Hyderabad, India
9 Aug 16
Do not believe our Doctors and researchers. They are totally hopeless. If one researcher gives one of analysis of a product another researchers give quite opposite. They are all thrash.
@rina110383 (24495)
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10 Aug 16
I'm not in a relationship.
If both parties are willing to exert effort, then a long distance relationship will work.
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@ayahmdee13 (199)
• Pasig, Philippines
10 Aug 16
@rina110383 yes effort is important to especially if your miles apart :)
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
14 Aug 16
Im widowed and not into any more romanc e at 89,Some people do well in these and some
come a c ropper too/
