I Want To Strangle Him to Death!
By wiLLmaH
@wiLLmaH (8801)
Singapore, Singapore
September 20, 2016 12:47am CST
My brother is on neck deep on debt. He owes me a thousands of money and he caused my sister to cut off almost all her credit cards (he get some stuffs in account of that). He also owes my sister for almost half a million in cash.
Now, there is a 3-day Millionaire Mind Intensive program here in Singapore that was given away free. I bought an airline ticket for him. That I am hoping that it will change his perspective about money.. That his mindset in expenditures will shift from spender to savers/investor.
After one day of attending, he told me that he already know everything in seminar!
I want to strangle him to death and shout out at him that if he really knew what is in seminar, he will not hiding to his creditors. That he should have paid me and my sister. I immediately bought him a ticket back to Manila.
The nerveeee!!! He have the audacity to tell me that he will just stay at our home and rest for a while as he is lack of sleep! If he is not only 14 years older than me! He already received not-so-good words from me.
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. I hate this. If he does not manage to get out of debts, just strangle him
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@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
20 Sep 16
Ha ha, maybe you should impose some belt tightening, if he asked try to turn around off him, maybe you give all he wants that's why he is like that.
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@Letranknight2015 (51554)
• Philippines
20 Sep 16
@wiLLmaH HOLY CRAP he's married?:! with kids, Hit him with a hammer to have his brain FIX!
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@Letranknight2015 (51554)
• Philippines
20 Sep 16
I think you should just let go of this brother of yours, I'm glad you gave him a ticket back to the Philippines. How could a person like that owe so much money. What a waste of money and ticket to even bring him there, I don't think he will ever change if he's older than you. Unless all of you sibling could cut communication with him altogether, let's see if he will learn or not.
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@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
20 Sep 16
@wiLLmaH wow! i would gladly take his place! where is your other brother who was with him?
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@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
20 Sep 16
@hereandthere My eldest brother finished the seminar and he is very glad that I let him attend that. 
He told me that he learned a lot and he is ready to face our next venture. :)
He told me that he learned a lot and he is ready to face our next venture. :)2 people like this
@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
20 Sep 16
You're still a thoughtful sister, Ms. WiLLmah. Despite what your brother has done, you still managed to spend for his plane fare to Singapore just to attend the seminar. I hope your brother wakes up to his senses and act accordingly before it's too late.
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I believe on him that he can escape this kind of problem but it seems he himself is enjoying the issues on his life. Ano ba yan! Sobbing in here! You are making me cry po!@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
21 Sep 16
@sunrisefan I will take on that! Everyboday gave up on him in his mistake of handling money. He owes my father, me, my sister, 2 of our cousins and even my godmother in our wedding.
I hope...someday...
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
21 Sep 16
@wiLLmaH Never underestimate the power of prayer, so pray thay your brother will change for the better. Sometimes, the little acts that we do today would somehow touch the heart and mind of the person to whom we did something good for. Who knows? Your brother will ponder on that effrot of yours to have him attend the seminar. Even the hardest of stones will somehow have some hole with the continuous drop of water on it.
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@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
23 Mar 17
Now I know why are parents treats him differently.
When I visited Manila last Feb, my father told me that he is complaining about me and explaining himself why I sent him home immediately. He thought our father will go for him, but it the other way happened. He was scolded by our father.
I am not happy that he was admonished. I felt sad, to think that he is so immature in doing such act.
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
20 Sep 16
Truth is he is living way beyond what he is earning and you are right telling him that he does not know anything. I'm sorry for your brother hope he gets out of debt.
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
21 Sep 16
@wiLLmaH that's the problem with credit card debt, it keeps increasing because of interest, i would suppose your sister gave him a supplemental card?
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@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
21 Sep 16
@louievill they have their own cards. Yes with "s". And he stopped using it when he cannot pay it even. That is why he asked my sister to borrow her card.
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@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
20 Sep 16
i can't imagine owing anyone that much money for a long time and not doing anything about it.. if he has a family, how is he supporting them?
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@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
20 Sep 16
@wiLLmaH did he need a new car? is it a high-end car? i hope the lumber business is still in business.
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@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
20 Sep 16
@hereandthere It is still in business. If it will close down, he will be cursed by my parents. haha!
I do not know. Haha! It is hard to explain his life. hahaha!
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@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
20 Sep 16
@hereandthere A big NO is an answer! I am not that stupid like my older sister. hahaha!
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@KnehKnah (3584)
• Philippines
20 Sep 16
Money matters. This is usually the big reason why even the best of friends split ways!
I hope your brother will realize how big his financial atraso to you, especially to your other sis. Or maybe he will not because he knows mahal ninyo siya, to the max?
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@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
21 Sep 16
@wiLLmaH i can't believe he said that. why does he feel that way? did he help your parents in raising the rest of his siblings that's why now he feels they should help him in return when he needs money?
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@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
21 Sep 16
@hereandthere No he don't. His EGO is bigger than Philippines i think..
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@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
21 Sep 16
Actually, the real thing here is I want him to wake up on the craziness he is in right now. I want him to change. I told myself that 110,000Php is enough for me.
He has even the guts to tell a story when our cousin is asking for payment and he replied "Dapat nga lumuhod kayo sa harap ko para bayaran ko kayo" (you should kneel in front of me for me to pay you). Not thinking that he owes me money too!
Damn! 
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@teresatrotter (4073)
• Jacksonville, Florida
20 Sep 16
Your sister must be rich to be able to give him one and a half million dollars. Still you brother needs to get some help for hurting your family like that...
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@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
26 Sep 16
@teresatrotter Haha! She is very good in business and saving money :)
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@teresatrotter (4073)
• Jacksonville, Florida
23 Sep 16
@wiLLmaH - Wow... Would she like to adopt anyone? Like maybe me? LOL
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@infatuatedbby (94921)
• United States
26 Oct 16
Wow he owes you all a lot of money.. You still love him to pay for his flights.
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@infatuatedbby (94921)
• United States
26 Oct 16
@wiLLmaH I am sorry to hear this. It is hard to change someone who is damaged already from their bad habits.
@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
6 Oct 16
I understand where you are coming from. It is really more than annoying.
@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
21 Sep 16
@hereandthere My father told me that he will not lend him money again. Because until now he is not yet paid., tsk tsk tsk!
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@jazzyindian (492)
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20 Sep 16
it's very difficult to handle relationships when money is included..
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