Feeling hurt

@carebear29 (28647)
Wausau, Wisconsin
November 7, 2016 1:37am CST
So I was pretty hurt about what my husband said on Facebook and the responses he got from his family there. I am really hurt by it still and even been crying on and off. We have been fighting a lot and he posted on Facebook he wasn't happy and no one better stop him from being on his warpath. Well, needless to say his one aunt who knows nothing about me talked a lot of crap about me. She stated that all I do is use my husband for money and do nothing for him... I broke down and confronted him about it. Sadly, he didn't stand up to his family or back me up, he put me down. I just do't know anymore and ready to just say screw it and move on. But I am trying to hold myself together for the sake of my son....more to come...yes his whole family hates me!
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@magallon (18119)
• Philippines
7 Nov 16
That is being immature... Why he has to post something about your marriage in Facebook. What does he really wants?
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@carebear29 (28647)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
8 Nov 16
Yes it is
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@magallon (18119)
• Philippines
8 Nov 16
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• Jacksonville, Florida
7 Nov 16
They all hate you because he doesn't provide a united front between y'all to them. When someone in my husband's family says something wrong about me he will jump to my defense quick and I have started to do the same with my family for him. Y'all are just putting off what's going to happen. Your marriage is over and one of you should leave. Your son is going to think this is normal to have a relationship like yours...How sad.
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@carebear29 (28647)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
8 Nov 16
I agree. we are trying to work things out
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@chiwasaki (4661)
• Philippines
7 Nov 16
This is sad but please know that we are here for you. You are a beautiful person. You can make it through this storm.
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@carebear29 (28647)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
8 Nov 16
Thanks
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• United States
7 Nov 16
If all is true about your husband & you - why are you both going thru so much torture? It's repetitive, change should happen. Hope it all works out
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@carebear29 (28647)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
8 Nov 16
I hope so too
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@annierose (18021)
• Philippines
7 Nov 16
I am sorry to hear about this. I do not know the real situation but I hope your husband and you will be able to find a solution to the problem. Keep on praying for God to give you enough wisdom and strength in this kind of trial. As long as you know that you are not doing anything bad, you will be on the right track.
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@carebear29 (28647)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
8 Nov 16
I hope he grows up
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@Jenning (2022)
• Nigeria
7 Nov 16
Just take it easy, and just do your stuff. Consider all they have said as their opinion. Even people called JESUS CHRIST John the Baptist, some called HIM Elijah, some called HIM Jeremiah. You see? they are just people's opinion of you, that's not you. So don't take it to heart. Smile Baby
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@carebear29 (28647)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
8 Nov 16
Yes I know thanks
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@Jenning (2022)
• Nigeria
8 Nov 16
@carebear29 Ya. It's well.
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@sugartoes (42673)
• Greencastle, Indiana
7 Nov 16
that's not right or fare to you that just goes to show how the relationship REALLY is you don't deserve that & you don't deserve to be treated that way from him or THEM.
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@carebear29 (28647)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
8 Nov 16
Thanks
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@Happy2BeMe (74936)
• Canada
7 Nov 16
Sorry you are feeling hurt Nikki. It is not right for him to be talking about your relationship on FB and his family should not be trashing you. You have a son that they need to be thinking about. I think the time has come for you guys to start making decisions about your future. Life is too short to be anything but happy.
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@carebear29 (28647)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
8 Nov 16
Nope
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@AkoPinay (10101)
• Philippines
7 Nov 16
Based on your previous posts I understand why they hated you. In the Philippines you would be hated by the whole "COUNTRY" by not loving your husband. Sorry
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@carebear29 (28647)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
8 Nov 16
Lol thank you
• Ponce De Leon, Florida
7 Nov 16
Why don't you just leave? Clearly being there is doing more damage than good.
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@carebear29 (28647)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
8 Nov 16
I am really thinking about it
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@skysnap (18039)
7 Nov 16
sometimes we have to take a break from all of this.
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@carebear29 (28647)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
8 Nov 16
Yep
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@Jackalyn (6857)
• Oxford, England
7 Nov 16
That is really horrid that they are using Facebook like that. Your husband needs to grow up and address things in an adult manner.
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@carebear29 (28647)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
8 Nov 16
Yes it is
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@Hatley (164485)
• Garden Grove, California
9 Nov 16
wow thats awful you have got to get out of that marriage as neither of you are happy and its not going to do anything good for your son
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@carebear29 (28647)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
9 Nov 16
We are trying to work things out for now
• Jacksonville, Florida
17 Nov 16
So sorry.