~I Tried To Stay Silent...~
By Jennifer
@LovingMyBabies (85127)
Valdosta, Georgia
November 20, 2016 4:16pm CST
I'm happy for the people that vent elsewhere or don't need to vent at all... That is NOT me, sorry. If you don't believe what I write or just plain don't like it feel free to move onto the next post. This is my way of getting things off my chest and I need it...
Now...for those of you that do care and want to let me vent. It's not going to be much longer with the "guest" here. Last night she was annoyed with our kids because they were giggling and she couldn't sleep over it apparently. She stomped off to the room after saying she's going to freeze in the room to sleep because she's sick of this crap. 
Today she asks my oldest daughter if I'm on the computer while in my room. Is that ANY of her business? No. I do NOT need a babysitter, I am a grown adult with 4 children of my own, almost 5 kids...
My kids put their shoes either by the back door when they come in or by the front door. My oldest daughter left her shoes by the back door. The "guest" says your going to get sick for not wearing shoes outside. My daughter said I was wearing them but I left them by the back door where they belong. She said "Oh". 
Again...none of her business.
Oh yeah and last night we had pasta for dinner and she says I don't eat pasta or chicken...
Your living in the WRONG house then because that's 80% of what we eat here...
Okay, sorry had to let it all out. I have been holding it in but I couldn't do it any longer...
Today she asks my oldest daughter if I'm on the computer while in my room. Is that ANY of her business? No. I do NOT need a babysitter, I am a grown adult with 4 children of my own, almost 5 kids...
My kids put their shoes either by the back door when they come in or by the front door. My oldest daughter left her shoes by the back door. The "guest" says your going to get sick for not wearing shoes outside. My daughter said I was wearing them but I left them by the back door where they belong. She said "Oh". Again...none of her business.
Oh yeah and last night we had pasta for dinner and she says I don't eat pasta or chicken... Your living in the WRONG house then because that's 80% of what we eat here...
Okay, sorry had to let it all out. I have been holding it in but I couldn't do it any longer...26 people like this
29 responses
@Happy2BeMe (99386)
• Canada
20 Nov 16
I had glad you have a place where you know you can vent and that people care and are concerned about you and your family. What business is it of hers if you are on your computer? Or where the kids leave their shoes? She really needs to go. It would be better for all of you of she didn't move to the new place with you.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
20 Nov 16
@Happy2beme Yeah not everyone likes the posts of mine but it is what it is... I can't let one person stop what I need to say.
Neither of those things are her business which really annoys me. I just want her to mind her business and be nice to everyone here-why is that SO hard? Gosh!
My husband is hitting his breaking point with her so I already know it won't be much longer now.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
20 Nov 16
@Happy2BeMe Oh she will make us the bad guys that's for sure. I don't care though, my husband doesn't talk to his other family members anyway that shes going to lie to...
I do have so many amazing friends here and I'm so grateful for all of you! =)
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@Happy2BeMe (99386)
• Canada
20 Nov 16
@LovingMyBabies I can see why he would be. She does have it coming but I suppose she will blame it on all of you when it happens. She seems to think nothing is ever her fault.
Ya don't worry too much about what one person says. You have far too many people on here who care an out you and your family.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
20 Nov 16
@marlina Oh she is leaving, he's had enough. It's just a matter of when she will be going...
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
20 Nov 16
@marlina Yeah once he explodes there is no going back for him...
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@marlina (154165)
• Canada
20 Nov 16
@LovingMyBabies That's good that your husband reached his quota.
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@celticeagle (159927)
• Boise, Idaho
20 Nov 16
I feel the same way. I had to quick getting counseling due to finances so have this forum to vent in is great. You will have to have a party after she leaves. So sorry you have to go through this. As long as your kids know this isn't normal, nor is it forever. She might get something for Christmas in her stocking. Some coal!
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@celticeagle (159927)
• Boise, Idaho
21 Nov 16
@LovingMyBabies .....So sad she has to be this way. Her choice though. Many older folks would enjoy having the children around. Glad you are able to cope until D-day.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
20 Nov 16
@celticeagle We will be so happy when this is over with, we just might party it up! Lol.
Oh I talk to my kids all the time and let them know this too shall pass.
I think coal is the only thing she will get! Lol
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
20 Nov 16
@Madshadi THANK YOU!! She puts her nose into everything that has nothing to do with her! It drives me insane!
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
20 Nov 16
@Madshadi I don't think it will be much longer at this point...
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@Madshadi (8841)
• Brussels, Belgium
20 Nov 16
@LovingMyBabies I hope she is not staying for long
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
20 Nov 16
@MALUSE 
That is too funny and I honestly wouldn't have thought to do it. Lol. It is my husband's aunt though so I do try to be respectful to her.
That is too funny and I honestly wouldn't have thought to do it. Lol. It is my husband's aunt though so I do try to be respectful to her.
@yukimori (10143)
• United States
21 Nov 16
@LovingMyBabies And she sees it as you being a doormat to wipe her feet on. Respect goes both ways, hon.
@MALUSE (69390)
• Germany
21 Nov 16
@LovingMyBabies Never mind whose aunt it is. Such a list may come handy in an argument one day.
Your plight reminds me of the situation in a Turkish family we know. In their case, it was the husband's mother who made life hell for the wife. I may write about them. It's too much for a comment box.
@fishtiger58 (29823)
• Momence, Illinois
20 Nov 16
I hope for everyone's sanity she finds somewhere else to live soon.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
20 Nov 16
@fishtiger58 One way or another it's not going to last much longer. My husband can only be pushed so far...Once he explodes it's over.
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@fishtiger58 (29823)
• Momence, Illinois
20 Nov 16
@LovingMyBabies Well then I will hope for sooner rather than later.
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@marsha32 (6631)
• United States
20 Nov 16
May I ask who the "guest" is? It sounds like the person doesn't appreciate staying with you.
I vent here quite often, like I did today again over church issues.
Our house guest is my mother, who should have gone back to her house months ago. She won't leave. I love her, and I am grateful to still have her around, but it's maddening how she is always trying to be in everyone else's business, then keeps talking to me about it...or asking questions that I don't have an answer to, or care.
Or, the fact that she doesn't respect the fact that I am attempting to earn online and expects me to just jump if she needs to take 50 cents to the bank, or go to the store for a box of Jello etc.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
21 Nov 16
@marsha32 Its my husbands aunt that's here. She complains about everything, tells our kids what to do, she can't stand our kids, she's not nice to anyone, and she never minds her own business!
We have had more than enough...
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@xstitcher (30538)
• Petaluma, California
20 Nov 16
That would be hard. How long does the "guest" have to stay?
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
20 Nov 16
@xstitcher Well she's saving up for a move out of state but my husband is going to make her go sooner.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
20 Nov 16
@Juliaacv Yes she is causing some tension and issues.
Thank you. =)
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
20 Nov 16
@amadeo Yeah my husband and I are losing it with her. We have tried to be patient with her but it's becoming harder and harder lately with how she's acting...
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
20 Nov 16
@KristenH Thank you. It hasn't been easy...
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@KristenH (33363)
• Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio
21 Nov 16
@LovingMyBabies My pleasure. You deserve to have a stress-free visit with the guest/. You've had a bumpy fall and a rough year so far.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
21 Nov 16
I knew things would get worst, I figured you would have already found her a place to live, near by so HUBBY could stop and check in on her. Two women cannot live in the same house, it just doesnt work.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
21 Nov 16
@andriaperry She cannot afford anywhere else and we cannot afford to get her a place either.
I am a very laid back person and usually don't have an issue living with other women-but not when they complain and boss my children around every day.
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@yukimori (10143)
• United States
21 Nov 16
@LovingMyBabies Even if you could afford it, you shouldn't pay for it. She's an adult. She can figure something out for herself.
@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
21 Nov 16
@LovingMyBabies don`t think there is not somewhere for her, this will continue till you blow up. Start looking around, do it online! Ask other elderly people. She does get S.S doesnt she?
@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
20 Nov 16
@Njchicaa Yeah I'm trying, it's easier to do after venting here first.
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@AutumnSnow (4584)
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20 Nov 16
Oh that would not go very far at all with me. It's one thing to help someone out but then when they start doing stuff like that nope. I guess that's why I couldnt put up with anyone living with us like that. Hope your day gets better and she'll be gone soon.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
20 Nov 16
@AutumnSnow Yeah it is driving me insane. I'm going crazy and so is my husband. Leave me and my children ALONE-we are doing her a favor-not the other way around! Ugh. Sorry I'm super frustrated at this point...
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@Shellyann36 (11385)
• United States
21 Nov 16
I am not quite sure who your guest is but it sounds stressful. I had a friend stay with us for a while (much to my husbands dismay) and it ended badly. I hope you are able to get this person on out the door.
@Butchcass4 (5895)
• United States
21 Nov 16
Hope you can work out your differences. May there be God's peace in your heart and home. 
@Gita17112016 (3611)
• Trinidad And Tobago
21 Nov 16
I see what you mean. Yo do need a little space. Sometimes you just need to let things out or it becomes too bottle up. Unhealthy.You know keeping a journal is also beneficial...but you are already on myLot...probably same difference lol.Right?
@Mycanvas (108)
• India
21 Nov 16
Venting surely releases mental pressure. Its always better to liberate yourself from accumulated bursts of thoughts. Best remedy is to keep mentioning her for her wrong doings so that you feel free. You own your own mind, she can not seed it with her crazy tasks.Therefore show your retaliations for her unlikely things by mentioning & objecting her. Believe it, you shall definitely feel light & free.
