Worst breakup experience????

@Stessia (197)
Abuja, Nigeria
December 8, 2016 8:11am CST
I was with my guy for the weekend. We visited so many fun places, went shopping, to the movies... We literary enjoyed ourselves. I was feeling on top of the world. I kept uploading pictures of our moments together on social media. To me, I have found "the guy". He was my one and only " boo". That weekend, we frolicked in every available corner of his house, even at the back of his car seat. I was perplexed by his sudden insatiable appetite for sex for he wasn't so randy.. He dropped me off at the park early on Monday morning and just held me in a tight hug for more than 30 minutes. We just relaxed and listen to each others heartbeat. When we finally separated from the hug, I rode the bus home with smiles on my face reliving our moments together.,.... Later that evening... My boyfriend called me... My heart started fluttering with love when I saw the call... "Hello baby".. I answered... AND HE BROKE MY HEART!!!... HE BROKE UP WITH ME... His reason is that his ex was pregnant for him and he only found out the previous week..... That was when I started adding up the puzzle pieces abt his behavior that weekend.... Have you ever had such "out of the blue" heartbreaking experience?... If yes, share yours here.
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@Tina30219 (25822)
• Onaway, Michigan
8 Dec
Mine was heartbreaking ended in divorce. I will make it short version He brought another woman into our home az part of his band said she will sleep on couch til she can get her own place so I was nice and said ok big mistake next thing I know he stops coming to bed and sleeps downstairs in his chair and taking walks with her holding hands all the time telling me he was not. Then one day I went out and took a walk and came home and he left me got an apartment with the woman took my kids and left. They both said they had to much to lose if they came back to Michigan with me. So I havd not seen my kids in 4 years. Not my choice no money to send them back home with if they came and saw me.
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@Stessia (197)
• Abuja, Nigeria
8 Dec
He is a cheat and undeserving of you. You are well rid of him. Men easily get distracted and confused. But stealing away with your kids?.. That's too bad of them
@Tina30219 (25822)
• Onaway, Michigan
8 Dec
@Stessia Yep he is a pig. He will get his soon enough.
@Stessia (197)
• Abuja, Nigeria
8 Dec
@Tina30219 ... Yes ooo.. Sometimes I pray 'soon enough ' will be today or tomorrow...
@dragon54u (31298)
• United States
8 Dec
What a selfish, cowardly person he is!! You are well rid of him!! He couldn't have told you this without getting one last piece of the pie, so to speak? He made it worse for you by doing this. I hope you never meet someone like this again. Best of luck in the future.
@Stessia (197)
• Abuja, Nigeria
8 Dec
@dragon54u, that's the most painful part. That last weekend was him having the last piece of my pie... He planned the whole weekend as a sendoff party for me and as a treat for him... I didn't think i could get over him but heck!, he is just a butterfly in my past..
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@Paige32 (1603)
31 Jul
@Stessia I'm glad you were able to move on. Some men can be mean. He definitely will get his attention and I hope he doesn't cry "evil forces" when he does.
• Preston, England
9 Dec
wow, that is so horrible of him as he obviously knew he was making you happy just to set you up for the bombshell news - so sorry
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@Stessia (197)
• Abuja, Nigeria
10 Dec
Exactly, at that moment...I felt like jumping into the lagoon... I felt so stupid, used and manipulated.
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• Preston, England
11 Dec
@Stessia pushing him in the lagoon would be better - you are better off away from him - I feel sorry for his ex who now may feel obliged to take him back in and have him look after their child - they are tuck with him but you are free
@Stessia (197)
• Abuja, Nigeria
11 Dec
@arthurchappell ... Looking back now, I wonder what it is I saw in him... ?.… maybe that's what happens over the years...
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@LoriAMoore (9743)
• United States
8 Dec
That's quite a dramatic and descriptive post you've written.
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@Stessia (197)
• Abuja, Nigeria
8 Dec
@LoriAMoore, thanks dearie.. I just want you guys to get the clear picture....so you can imagine how I felt then..
@Stessia (197)
• Abuja, Nigeria
9 Dec
Whose got a more heartbreaking experience to share?
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@Paige32 (1603)
31 Jul
OMG! That must have been painful. I'm sorry you had to go through that. My heartbreak story was equally painful. We dated for three years and broke up due to cultural differences. I'm married now to a wonderful guy but I still feel the pain each time I think back know.