Can someone fall in LOVE with two person at same time??

@vandana7 (99009)

• India

15 Dec 16

Great reply Maluse...loved it...

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@vandana7 (99009)

• India

15 Dec 16

@hangover123456 ... Well there is no restriction on converting and then marrying both...PROVIDED THOSE TWO AGREE TO MARRY YOU..

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• New Delhi, India

14 Dec 16

Yes in India, we can only have one wife, but still....I need to sort it out

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sneha lodha

@snehalo (91)

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14 Dec 16

You can't fall in love with both.. One of them is Love, the one you care for. Just try to stay out of contact with both of them for one month. You can unfollow both of them on Facebook while staying friends. That way, they won't be aware about anything. You can say you are busy for one month. You will get your answer within 1 week with this step. You can always follow both of them back.

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• New Delhi, India

14 Dec 16

will try.......hope this will help

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@GooglePlus (3807)

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16 Dec 16

@snehalo Just try to stay out of contact with both of them for one month. I am not sure if it is going to work. It is how most of break ups happens

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@GooglePlus (3807)

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17 Dec 16

@hangover123456 No! @snehalo And what you are going to tell her ? I need space from you ?

Well you know how a person reacts when a regular person stop talking with her/him for a day? Just put yourself in a situation and you will come up with many questions in your mind. Now you are going to stop talking with your close friend/girlfriend or boyfriend ( one with whom you share everything,) I don't think she will let it go like this. She will try to contact him everyday

@DaddyEvil (137142)

• United States

16 Dec 16

Hmmm.... I can tell you a very quick cure for your problem, if you want it?

TELL both young ladies about the other one... I guarantee you will not have this problem for long! Both of them will dump you like yesterday's bath water! Problem solved!

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@DaddyEvil (137142)

• United States

16 Dec 16

@hangover123456 LOL! Yes, that does change the face of this issue, doesn't it?

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@GooglePlus (3807)

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16 Dec 16

@DaddyEvil That was funny, though I am against it. You know if anyone of those girls has it seriously (I mean has real feelings for him, and thinking of getting married with him ) then that would be a real problem. Girls are emotional and will not take too long for getting into depression

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• New Delhi, India

16 Dec 16

well nice advise...but the issue is they both know about each other....so u can understand the issue now....lol

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INDIAN WOMAN

@hema7213 (3517)

• India

14 Dec 16

well, You should choose that girl with which you share your bad experiences......with whom you feel that she knows you better than yourself......with whom you share your dreams, your family matters......And In the end, you can't choose both of them.........

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Manisha

@ms1864 (6886)

• Bangalore, India

15 Dec 16

yes..that happens too...but you know deep inside that you like one more than the other.

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Manisha

@ms1864 (6886)

• Bangalore, India

15 Dec 16

oh..you shouldn't take my advice on this...i gave up on both.

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• New Delhi, India

15 Dec 16

Have you ever been in this kind of situation, if yes....what did you do?

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• New Delhi, India

15 Dec 16

@ms1864 Ha ha ha ha ha....yep that's also a way to solve this thing.....hope u are settled now in your life

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Kandase

@Kandae11 (53698)

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14 Dec 16

Keeping both of them certainly won't give you peace of mind. You have to choose - there must be some extra quality you can find in one of them to help with your decision.

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• New Delhi, India

14 Dec 16

Believe me I tried....and only time when I am happy....when they both were with me.....If I try to leave one I started feel depresed

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hora_fugit

@hora_fugit (5862)

• India

16 Dec 16

I don't think you have ever fallen in love with anyone.... because that's not what you described here.

• New Delhi, India

16 Dec 16

then its infatuation or fear of losing according to you?

maezee

@maezee (41997)

• United States

14 Dec 16

I think it is possible, you are proof of that! I do think to be fair to the ladies you need to pick one.

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• New Delhi, India

14 Dec 16

don't know how to

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Michelle

@infatuatedbby (94921)

• United States

14 Dec 16

... Do they know? You're basically 'cheating' then.

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Michelle

@infatuatedbby (94921)

• United States

14 Dec 16

@hangover123456 They 'were' friends, thats harsh though. I hope you decide one which is the one for you...

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• New Delhi, India

14 Dec 16

well sort of.....and they were friends....and its a problem for me also....not very simple

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• New Delhi, India

14 Dec 16

@infatuatedbby trying....have you ever been in this kind of situation??

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Jennifer

@LovingMyBabies (85127)

• Valdosta, Georgia

14 Dec 16

I think it's possible, in different ways to love two people at the same time. You have to follow your heart on who is the right one for you.

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• New Delhi, India

15 Dec 16

Thanks for the advice

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The Horse

@TheHorse (206818)

• Walnut Creek, California

15 Dec 16

I'm with @vandana7. You can like two individuals. But if you're in love, it's a different thing.

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@vandana7 (99009)

• India

15 Dec 16

That said, can immense liking progress to love?

I have seen something like that happening...when one feels too guilty about a person whom he likes immensely. Kinda...if this person marries one of the two here, he would feel guilty about the other and spend more time thinking about the other person...eventually falling out of love with one, and falling in love with the other...strange things happen...its still god's world.

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@vandana7 (99009)

• India

15 Dec 16

@hangover123456 .. Try taking a break ... from both at once...you would realize whether you can live without them or not...generally ...distance helps to clear the mind.

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• New Delhi, India

15 Dec 16

@vandana7 that makes it even more difficult

.....but yes thats one possibility and can make life more difficult

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Jenning

@Jenning (2016)

• Nigeria

16 Dec 16

You are left now to take a decision.

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@GooglePlus (3807)

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16 Dec 16

Answer this question - What makes you love both of them ?

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@GooglePlus (3807)

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17 Dec 16

@hangover123456 That's a best excuse you have given. You know what is the current ratio of men to women ? 1000 :933 And your attitude going to make the calculation of 68 to die alone instead of 67

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@GooglePlus (3807)

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17 Dec 16

@hangover123456 I am fine

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• New Delhi, India

16 Dec 16

i think i i am emotionally attached to both, and yes its there nature and care and personalty that i think i love most, and even if i try to leave one and focus on other, it makes me feel guilty and sad.....so i guss its more feelings than just words

haripriya

@Hari101 (1123)

• Chennai, India

16 Dec 16

I don't think it is possible to be in love with two persons at the same time because we all wait for that special someone who will always be there for you when you need the most. So, it is better you decide whom you are loving deeply. If you are not able to decide it is better to tell the truth at least so that they won't get hurt badly or else it will be a big problem if they find out the truth.

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