Faking It

@DianneN (247216)
United States
January 4, 2017 8:33am CST
I'm not a complainer nor a whiner, but I have a nasty head cold and feel weak. I've been ill since the night before New Year's Eve. Today I have to fake being well. I must pull myself together and gather my strength. Our sister-in-law expects us to pick her up from the airport and take her out to dinner as we do every year. Have you had to drag yourself out of a sickbed to carry on with your day?
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@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
4 Jan 17
Just about every work day. Seriously, I staggered through many a work day feeling awful.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
4 Jan 17
Now that is really sad! Was it because of your job?
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@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
4 Jan 17
@DianneN No. Days of sore throats, colds,
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
4 Jan 17
@JohnRoberts That's awful! I know that feeling, too.
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@Happy2BeMe (99386)
• Canada
4 Jan 17
Yes I do it all the time at work. I remember last winter I had a flu that lasted 3 weeks. I took 2 days off and I had to work the right of the time while I was so sick. It was not fun at all.Enjoy your time with your sister-in-law and I hope you feel better soon.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
4 Jan 17
That must have been awful. When I'm that ill, all I want to do is curl up in bed and sleep. Thank you. I still feel like garbage.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
4 Jan 17
@Happy2BeMe All ready to leave for the airport. I'm all shaky feeling.
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@Happy2BeMe (99386)
• Canada
4 Jan 17
@DianneN no fun to have to entertain when you are not well
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• Pamplona, Spain
4 Jan 17
Meant to say that that is a lovely photo of you both.
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• Pamplona, Spain
5 Jan 17
@DianneN Well anyway you both look great even if you were feeling ill. I have had to fake it today too as there is a tummy bug going round and I have had a bit of that but have not complained as I had to go to the Shops as its the Three Kings Day tomorrow and all is closed its a National Holiday you see.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
5 Jan 17
Thank you. You are very sweet. I was feeling very sick in that photo. That's me friend, not my sister in law.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
5 Jan 17
@lovinangelsinstead21 I hope yours is just a 24 hour bug. Those are so nasty and aggravating. At least you completed your shopping. Have a good holiday and feel much better!
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• United States
4 Jan 17
Oh yes I've dragged myself out a few times for planned schedules. I hope by faking it you do actually get better when you pick up your sister in law and have dinner :)
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• United States
4 Jan 17
@DianneN Hehe I hope it works out! Have a lovely dinner tonight!
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
4 Jan 17
@infatuatedbby Thank you!
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
4 Jan 17
That may be the kick in the pants I need. Lol! Thanks.
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@moffittjc (118778)
• Gainesville, Florida
7 Jan 17
Every time I get sick, I have to find a way to drag myself into work and function throughout the day. I could take sick days, but for every day I miss work, it takes me three days to catch up. It's much easier on me long-term to suck it up and go to work sick than to miss a day and try to play catch-up. Hope you feel better soon!
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@moffittjc (118778)
• Gainesville, Florida
7 Jan 17
@DianneN It's very rare that I ever get so sick that I can't function. But, like you said, when I get that bad, I feel like I'm on my deathbed. In those rare cases, I will take time off from work. But, thankfully, it doesn't happen often.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
9 Jan 17
@moffittjc Men usually seem healthier to me and don't get ill as often as women, so it seems to me.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
7 Jan 17
When I'm sick, I'm sick, and usually in bed on antibiotics, sleeping away the day. I couldn't go to school like that. Sure, the work piled up, but I didn't care enough to let it get the best of me. I had pretty good subs, too. Thank you! I'm feeling 99% better today.
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@just4him (308408)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
6 Jan 17
I hope you feel better soon. I thought today was going to be that for me. I was achy from head to foot, but I'm doing okay now and will be back in the pool tomorrow.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
6 Jan 17
@just4him That's good. All I have to do here is go outside. It is more humid tonight.. Just take care of yourself!
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
6 Jan 17
I'm glad to hear you didn't get sick. I feel a lot better now, thank goodness. Just a bit stuffy.
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@just4him (308408)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
6 Jan 17
@DianneN Hopefully I've taken care of the stuffy part. When I was doing laundry today the gal who works there mentioned a humidifier. Just having a teapot on the stove is putting moisture in the air so I hope that keeps me unplugged tonight and not so dry going forward. I'm glad you're feeling better.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
5 Jan 17
If i were in your place , i won't fake it . I will just ask to be excused and just stay in bed to rest . But anyway , is that the picture of you and your sister-in-law during the dinner ? Your smile showed you are not well , my friend . Anyway , at least , you were able to still pull yourself that smile and go out for dinner , my friend . I hope by now you are okay already .
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
6 Jan 17
@DianneN I am happy to know you are almost 95% better now . A little more rest and you will be completely okay .
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
5 Jan 17
That was a friend, and you are right. I was feeling just awful then. I couldn't wait to crawl into bed. I felt better once I got out of the house and feel 95% better today. Thank you!
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
6 Jan 17
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@rebelann (111411)
• El Paso, Texas
4 Jan 17
Oh how awful, I'm so glad I did not need to worry about saving face while I was ill.
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@rebelann (111411)
• El Paso, Texas
4 Jan 17
Your so very welcome @DianneN I'm glad the concoction helped
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
4 Jan 17
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
4 Jan 17
Thanks again for your hot toddy recipe. I'm less ill than I would have been.
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@silvermist (19702)
• India
6 Jan 17
@DianneN Yes,sometimes,I did have to do that.Hope you get better and feel yourself again.
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@silvermist (19702)
• India
7 Jan 17
@DianneN Yes,you have to ,with so many things to attend to.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
7 Jan 17
@silvermist Starting today, I won't be on too much.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
6 Jan 17
Thank you. I think I will be my old self in a few days.
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@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
4 Jan 17
that's pretty much the story of my life .. faking being well ... I have fibromyalgia which I managed to ignore for nearly 20 years now .. We women, are very good at faking when it comes to our health ... Lovely photo you have there!
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@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
6 Jan 17
@DianneN ahahah!.. I am on of the millions of queens of faking it .. and yes indeed, fibro is like having a tooth constantly aching but no dentist would dare pull it .. very depressing at times...
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
6 Jan 17
@epiffanie I'm so sorry that you have it, but you seem like a real trooper to me.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
5 Jan 17
I've known several people with fibromyalgia. They told me it is very painful and annoying. You must be the queen of faking!
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@LadyDuck (460237)
• Switzerland
4 Jan 17
I had to do this several time and I know how much it is painful. I am sorry Dianne.
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@LadyDuck (460237)
• Switzerland
5 Jan 17
@DianneN I know it's horrible. I have done this so many times when we had to drive around the clients of my husband and bring them to dinner somewhere in Monte-Carlo.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
4 Jan 17
Thanks for understanding. My husband feels badly for me. I'm resting up until I have to shower and get ready.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
5 Jan 17
@LadyDuck I don't know how you managed to eat dinner, even in beautiful Monte Carlo! Would you believe I felt better once I got out of the house? But by the time we got home, I was exhausted. I felt a lot better today, but overdid it, so now I'm resting.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
4 Jan 17
I'm sorry to hear this Dianne, I hope you recover soon. Before Christmas I was more ill than I'd been for years, but had to carry on. We do, don't we?
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
5 Jan 17
@DianneN Yes, mine was the flu. Glad you are feeling better now Dianne.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
5 Jan 17
@jaboUK The flu is awful! Hope you've made a full recovery.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
5 Jan 17
I'm sorry to hear you were so ill. Was it the flu? IWhen I'm ill, I'm good for nothing. After bedrest, a hot toddy, and meds, I feel a lot better now. I was lucky in that I only had a bad head cold.
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@CoolPeace (1566)
• Miami, Florida
5 Jan 17
I know when you get mid way of being well from the cold or days in being in the house and then coming outside when it is sunny makes you feel better.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
5 Jan 17
Definitely! It was a beautiful evening and today a perfect day!
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
5 Jan 17
@CoolPeace It seems like summer to me here. It beats freezing in Connecticut!
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@CoolPeace (1566)
• Miami, Florida
5 Jan 17
@DianneN. We are heading into the summer and spring.
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• Delhi, India
5 Jan 17
I think every single one of us faces such kind of situations. But one should know how to tackle such scenarios, for instance in your case if your sister in law is expecting you to pick her up from airport, just tell her that you aren't well and you won't be able to pick her up. Instead arrange a cab or Taxi for her. Why am telling you that is, no matter how hard you try to fake, in front of your family, faking wont last longer, as families knows us inside out.
@DianneN (247216)
• United States
5 Jan 17
I fessed up to her that I was ill, and she was, too! However, we both felt better after dinner. Thanks for your good advice.
@DianneN (247216)
• United States
6 Jan 17
@thephenomenalone Thanks so much!!!
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• Delhi, India
6 Jan 17
@DianneN Good to hear that! I wish both of you a superspeedy recovery! Cheers!
@dodo19 (47133)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
6 Jan 17
I'm sorry that you haven't been feeling well. It's not easy when you have to get out of bed, when you're sick. It's not something that I like doing, but I still have kids to take care of and take to daycare and such. As a mom, you don't get sick days. Even when you're sick. I can relate.
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@dodo19 (47133)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
6 Jan 17
@DianneN I'm glad to hear that you're feeling better. And I agree with you. Moms don't sick days. None of the moms I know seem to.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
6 Jan 17
Thank you! I feel much better today. Moms never get sick days!!!!
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• Pamplona, Spain
4 Jan 17
Quite often I hae to do that too. Thing is I have never even managed to get to bed but sit around moping feeling miserable to go with it. More than once I have had to do just that carry on and soldier on like nothing has happened plus listen to the other complain of silly things.
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• Pamplona, Spain
4 Jan 17
@DianneN It is but when I feel really bad I go to bed as soon as I can. I make sure to that.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
5 Jan 17
@lovinangelsinstead21 I always wind up in bed. Our bodies need rest to heal.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
4 Jan 17
It's awful to try to soldier on when you feel awful, but even worse when you have to listen to pure nonsense.
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@much2say (53942)
• Los Angeles, California
4 Jan 17
Oh no - you have to entertain on top of being sick! Well I hope that being out and about actually makes things better (sometimes it makes me feel better). Having young kids - and with Hubby out for work from early til late, I have to hold the fort no matter what . . . we rarely cancel any of their activities over "me" . . . I just keep on going because I have to .
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@much2say (53942)
• Los Angeles, California
10 Jan 17
@DianneN I'm glad that getting out of the house actually made you feel better! I think we literally have to pretend we are well . . . so maybe we're just tricking our bodies into actually becoming well . It is difficult to be sick when you're a mom, but that's why women are so super !
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
5 Jan 17
You were right! Getting out of the house made me feel much better. Today, I am 95% better and getting ready to go to the airport to get my brother and his wife. It is soooo difficult being a mom when you're sick.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
10 Jan 17
@much2say Yes, we are super and you are a super mom!
@LeaPea2417 (36578)
• Toccoa, Georgia
5 Jan 17
I hope it is not something serious like pneumonia. Back when my younger son was 5, I had a sickness that would not let go of me. After a week of a fever and feeling like crap and starting to get a cough, (while taking care of my kids and the house), my husband said I should go to the doctor. I did and she determined I had Walking Pneumonia. I was put on an Antibiotic and could hardly get out of bed. So, even though you have to be there for your relatives, just try to take it easy. I hope it is not a cold that could lead to something worse.
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@LeaPea2417 (36578)
• Toccoa, Georgia
5 Jan 17
@DianneN Your welcome, glad you are feeling a little better.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
5 Jan 17
@LeaPea2417 Thank you. Tomorrow morning my brother, his wife, and dog are arriving, so off to the airport we go again and dinner out again. I'm certainly not cooking.
@DWDavis (25807)
• Pikeville, North Carolina
5 Jan 17
I hope you're feeling better, and that you were able to enjoy your time with your SIL. Because of the arcane way our district requires us to find our own substitutes when we call in sick, there have been many mornings I've decided it would just be easier to push through the day than spend the morning making phone calls looking for a sub.
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@DWDavis (25807)
• Pikeville, North Carolina
5 Jan 17
@DianneN You wouldn't believe what we have to do now. After we call our sub, we have to go online and fill out a request for that sub in one program. The program then sends the sub a notification that they have to answer whether or not the accept the job. Once they accept, we have to go into a different program and request the sick day, and include the name of our sub. Then we're supposed to e-mail a sub plan to our team leader for them to give the sub when they get there, because our emergency sub plans are only supposed to be used if we are incapacitated and cannot find our own sub and write plans for them. It is just easier to go into work sick.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
5 Jan 17
@DWDavis OMG! I can't even imagine doing all that when ill with a fever, flu, etc. I think I'd rather go to school, too, and be good for nothing all day. Who knows? The students may all get sick and stay home, so I could curl up in a ball on my desk and sleep.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
5 Jan 17
Thanks, I'm feeling a lot better since getting up and out. Taking it easy now. They instituted the same ridiculous way to get subs the year after I retired. That was reason enough for me to retire!
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@Inlemay (17713)
• South Africa
7 Jan 17
Oh I have to do that more often than I wish - My hubby maintains that a woman is never sick (nor allowed to be) slightly chauvinist
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@Inlemay (17713)
• South Africa
8 Jan 17
@DianneN you are blessed
@DianneN (247216)
• United States
7 Jan 17
Really? My husband has always been so kind to me. He doesn't like to see me sick.
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