I have an insecure friend... Is it time to end the friendship?

March 9, 2017 8:07am CST
I dont know if I can still consider her as my friend.. I notice when I have some projects going on, she will be nowhere to support me. She will not even "Like" my post on social media.. I know its not a responsibility to "like" someone's post, but it's really odd how she never like any of my post. Or tag me.. Coz she alwys "like" our other friends post... Is it time to end this "so-called friendship?
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katrine
@carexing25 (1818)
• Philippines
9 Mar 17
I'm not convinced that she's insecure by not hitting the thumbs up.. I don't know.. there could be some misinterpretation or something
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Slayer08
@slayer08 (2377)
• Philippines
9 Mar 17
Yeah, I agree. I mean, so what if she doesn't like your posts? Should she be liking them? Maybe she really doesn't like your posts. Not enough reason to leave her behind.. have ypu ever thought that maybe you're the one who's feeling insecure? :)
Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
9 Mar 17
I feel you. I also have that kind of friend. And what I did, I unfollowed them and worst I unfriended them.
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Sanjeev
@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
9 Mar 17
May be she is angry with you on some issue. You need to talk to her to get thing cleared before ending your friendship.
ImGracie
@graciemac (77)
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9 Mar 17
I dont know if that is possible..She always try to compete with me even though I just do my own things
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DJ
@Daljinder (23233)
• Bangalore, India
9 Mar 17
Excuse me! But what kind of logic is that?
ImGracie
@graciemac (77)
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9 Mar 17
It is just one sample how things are with us... Like she never invite me in any of her occassions or events... I just feel bad that it is so obvious how insecure she is on the social media
Brittany Risner
@BritKnee (16)
• Cleveland, Texas
9 Mar 17
To me it does not sound like she is necessarily insecure , but again does not sound like much of a friend. Not liking someones post shouldn't make you a bad friend either though. Friends are supposed to be there for each other not only when its convenient for them. I would let her know how you feel and maybe tell her its time to step up if she is serious about being friends that friendship is a two way street.
Evy ballu
@Evy2626 (1)
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10 Mar 17
yes ... if you are in doubt then do no doubt with doubing :)
dragon54u
@dragon54u (31636)
• United States
9 Mar 17
Do you support her and help her when she needs it and she does nothing for you? If so, she's a user and you should shed her like a bad habit. Users just drain you and give nothing back.
Sky
@skysnap (20154)
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9 Mar 17
i guess sometimes you have to end friendship with insecure people.
The Invisible Man
@TheInvisibleMan (17603)
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9 Mar 17
I think you're in the wrong way about friendship means.
Punit Vashishtha
@punit7724 (101)
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9 Mar 17
@JustBhem what if she is really misunderstands him about any situation maybe. I have this kinda problem too and there is never a good advice for this kinda problem. @graciemac
Carrie Deane
@truthmatterz (1)
• United States
9 Mar 17
Ask her if things are alright with you'll. Don't assume and lose a friendship over it. If she says things are alright then let her know that it bothers you when she leaves you out of things.
Shingirai
@Shingy (1)
• Chitungwiza, Zimbabwe
9 Mar 17
I think you should end this relationship of yours because she doesn't care about you or anything that you do. Face it, pal, move on it's over