Positive traits in you.

@dpk262006 (55768)
Delhi, India
April 6, 2017 5:39am CST
Hello everyone! We all feel that we know many things about around us. However, have you ever introspected how much do you know about yourself? Do you know about your positive traits and do you openly talk about it? I would like you to tell about your positive traits and would like you to highlight which is your major positive trait. I would mention one positive trait about myself i.e. I care for others.
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@JudyEv (103357)
• Bunbury, Australia
6 Apr
Some days I can't think of anything that is very positive about me. I'd like to think I was generous to others and I can keep secrets. Keeping secrets may not seem important but I never, ever divulge anything that has been said to me in confidence.
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@dpk262006 (55768)
• Delhi, India
6 Apr
You said it all even without directly saying it. How is it possible that you just cannot think about positive trait in you? When we could see so many positive traits in you, hopefully you could also see some positive traits in you. Being generous to others is one of the biggest positive traits because many are misers in this cruel world, not in terms of money but even in expressing themselves. Keeping secret could also be counted as a positive trait because women are not known for keeping secrets (I am talking in Indian context).
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• Gurgaon, India
6 Apr
That's a great quality, many people lack
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@JudyEv (103357)
• Bunbury, Australia
6 Apr
@dpk262006 Thanks for the kind words but sometimes my mind goes over and over the stupid or unkind things that I've said and done in the past to the exclusion of anything good. But mostly I manage to think about other things. Regarding secrets I know women are supposed to be gossips but I have always believed that keeping a confidence is very important.
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@LadyDuck (125955)
• Switzerland
6 Apr
I was almost saying I can find nothing specific to say until I have read the comment of @JudyEv. I am the same for what concern secrets. I never divulge something that has been told to me in confidence, not even to my husband.
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@JudyEv (103357)
• Bunbury, Australia
6 Apr
It can be hard to come up with positive things when you're put on the spot. And I think it is important not to betray someone's trust.
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@dpk262006 (55768)
• Delhi, India
7 Apr
@LadyDuck To keep secrets of others is one of the special traits. This way others could trust you and confide in you.
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@dpk262006 (55768)
• Delhi, India
7 Apr
@JudyEv Yes, I fully agree with you that if someone has shared a secret with you, we should not betray his trust.
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@Shavkat (49630)
• Philippines
6 Apr
I always need to be optimistic in everything. I don't limit myself in doing things.
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@dpk262006 (55768)
• Delhi, India
6 Apr
It is a very good positive trait that you look at the positive side and you remain optimistic in whatever you attempt.
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@Shavkat (49630)
• Philippines
6 Apr
@dpk262006 I think it is better to be positive always than having negative thoughts.
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@dpk262006 (55768)
• Delhi, India
6 Apr
@Shavkat I fully agree with you that it is always better to be positive. I wonder what makes some of the mylotters shy here to say about their positive traits. Look at the answer of @HAPPSINGH
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• United States
6 Apr
I am: honest trustworthy reliable organized
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@dpk262006 (55768)
• Delhi, India
7 Apr
To remain honest, trustworthy, reliable are the top most positive traits. If you are organized that is like cherry on the cake. Your near and dear ones would be lucky to have you with them.
• United States
7 Apr
@dpk262006 Thank you very much!
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@dpk262006 (55768)
• Delhi, India
8 Apr
@AbbyGreenhill My pleasure. Have a great weekend.
@megatron777 (3815)
• Guam
6 Apr
That's good positive traits.
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@dpk262006 (55768)
• Delhi, India
6 Apr
Thanks but I have requested you to come out with your positive traits.
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• Guam
10 Apr
@dpk262006 I do my best especially when I'm being challenged to do so.
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@dpk262006 (55768)
• Delhi, India
10 Apr
@megatron777 It is great on your part. Keep it up.
@Morleyhunt (17087)
• Canada
6 Apr
I like to think I and an encourager, but sometimes I I don't feel I am a positive influence.
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@dpk262006 (55768)
• Delhi, India
6 Apr
To encourage and motivate others is one of the biggest positive trait. It hardly matter how much your encouragement influence others, it is for them to decide.
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@Bodyandbrain (13817)
• Gurgaon, India
6 Apr
I can mention few positive traits for which people appreciate me -confidence, honesty, positive attitude, sensibility
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• Gurgaon, India
6 Apr
@HAPPSINGH thanks my friend, here your positive traits comes out that you appreciate others with all your heart.
• Gurgaon, India
6 Apr
@HAPPSINGH that's better no heart no heart breaks
• Gurgaon, India
6 Apr
@HAPPSINGH yes that's right I hope I would not have heart because no heart no pain
@ShifaLk (7311)
• India
8 Apr
Great ! that same trait is in me too tht i do care but sometimes it's too much so my best friend taught me that we should take care of ourselves too, then we can help/care for others. I like that. N I'm honest too :)
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@dpk262006 (55768)
• Delhi, India
8 Apr
To care about others and to be an honest person are two top most positive traits. I agree with you that while caring for others, we should not ignore ourselves.
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@ShifaLk (7311)
• India
9 Apr
@dpk262006 oh yeah. N thanks
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@dpk262006 (55768)
• Delhi, India
9 Apr
@ShifaLk You are most welcome. Have a great weekend.
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@SIMPLYD (75759)
• Philippines
7 Apr
I really don't know if my obvious trait being so vocal is a positive trait or not. Another is my being a strong woman, in a sense that when I have a problem, i solve it myself and don't ever ask the help of others. Though, when I cannot solve it anymore, I ask the help of other people like my parents or my husband.
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@dpk262006 (55768)
• Delhi, India
7 Apr
If you consider yourself vocal, do you intend to say that you don't mind or shy away from voicing your opinion? If it is so, it is a good trait. It is one of the best traits that you are a strong woman and if you do not get nervous, when you come across any problem. Hats of to you for your fighting spirit.
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@SIMPLYD (75759)
• Philippines
7 Apr
@dpk262006 I am a vocal person. But I always discern when and to whom I can be vocal with. It is just that, I know how to put on a happy face despite me crying inside most of the times. That's why I can say, I am a strong woman too.
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@dpk262006 (55768)
• Delhi, India
7 Apr
@SIMPLYD It means you are vocal on selective basis. It is wonderful that even if you feel upset you put up a brave front. It is one of the finest positive traits.
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@ragikutty (2462)
• Kerala, India
6 Apr
I also care about others. I try to help others as well. There is something I gained myself in my character very few years back. Which is to think from someone else's point of view before judging them. I never used to do that before.
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@dpk262006 (55768)
• Delhi, India
7 Apr
It is really great on your part that you are not only a caring person but you do not shy away to help others. If you could put yourself in another person's shoes, there is nothing like it. It is one of the best traits and it is not found in everyone. It is called empathy.
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@ragikutty (2462)
• Kerala, India
7 Apr
@dpk262006 thanks a lot. But helping others isn't always a good thing. Majority of times I have ended up in trouble by those whom I have stood by in the past. And about putting yourself in someone else's shoes always help you from regrets later. Evenif it might not help solve present issues you might not regret hating a person who was never at fault.
@ragikutty (2462)
• Kerala, India
7 Apr
@dpk262006 thanks a lot. But helping others isn't always a good thing. Majority of times I have ended up in trouble by those whom I have stood by in the past. And about putting yourself in someone else's shoes always help you from regrets later. Evenif it might not help solve present issues you might not regret hating a person who was never at fault.
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• Shimla, India
8 Apr
I just try to support poor people or sometimes to everyone. I just try to motivate them.
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@dpk262006 (55768)
• Delhi, India
8 Apr
Helping needy people and to motivate and encourage someone could be counted as two of the best positive traits.
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• Shimla, India
8 Apr
@dpk262006 Thank you sir!
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@dpk262006 (55768)
• Delhi, India
8 Apr
@sunnysingh16388 You are most welcome dear.
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@Kandae11 (28997)
7 Apr
I am very loyal.
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@dpk262006 (55768)
• Delhi, India
7 Apr
It is a one of the finest of traits but I would like you to elaborate on it. Are you loyal to everyone or you are loyal to a chosen one.
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@Kandae11 (28997)
7 Apr
@dpk262006 I would never cheat on someone I love.
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@dpk262006 (55768)
• Delhi, India
7 Apr
@Kandae11 It is a great quality and wonderful trait that you won't cheat under any circumstances a person, whom you love dearly. Hats off to you.
@much2say (36257)
• United States
6 Apr
We know you are a caring person ! I do know my positive traits, but I tend to be modest and do not talk about it openly (unless I am on myLot of course). I let my actions speak for itself. But as you are asking, I will say my most positive trait is being a good listener (but you and I have already discussed this as it can also have its downsides).
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@dpk262006 (55768)
• Delhi, India
7 Apr
Thanks for acknowledging that I am a caring person. I will agree with you that you are modest and you do not brag about anything. If one is modest like you, it is one of the most wonderful traits, in my view. Yes, I know and I am sure that you are a very good listener and you listen with intent and let others allow to vent out (as one of the mylotters [ Gita ] has mentioned that there could be a flip side also to a positive trait and that sounds correct.
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@much2say (36257)
• United States
7 Apr
@dpk262006 Is it still being modest to say I am modest ? I guess there is a flip side to everything. A strong trait can also be a weakness . . . and visa versa.
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@dpk262006 (55768)
• Delhi, India
8 Apr
@much2say I don't feel there is nothing immodest if you say that you are modest. And moreover here you know whom you are saying to about your modesty i.e. me. Yes, our positive traits could be counted as our weakness also. However, I am of the opinion that inspite of 'weakness' aspect, we are not going to leave our positive traits.
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@Corbin5 (84766)
• United States
6 Apr
Determined. I do not give up easily at all!
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@dpk262006 (55768)
• Delhi, India
7 Apr
It is great to hear that you have one of best traits that you do not give up easily. Do you remain determined in each and every area or there are some specific fields?
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@Corbin5 (84766)
• United States
7 Apr
@dpk262006 I am determined to succeed in all endeavors. No matter the challenge, I will not give up.
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@dpk262006 (55768)
• Delhi, India
9 Apr
@Corbin5 It is great on your part that you are very determined in each and every area and you don't give up easily.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
6 Apr
I love helping others and I am a good listener. =)
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@dpk262006 (55768)
• Delhi, India
7 Apr
It is one of the best traits to be able to help others and to be a good listener. Now a days there is dearth of such person, who come forward to help others. Everyone is too busy now a days and no one has time to listen to other person, everyone wants to speak only.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
8 Apr
@dpk262006 One of the reasons I love Mylot so much is because it's the one place I am actually heard. Since I'm always the listener offline I don't have anyone to listen to me...except on Mylot. =) My husband and I love helping others and we do that often. We know how it feels to need help, everyone needs it sometimes.
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@dpk262006 (55768)
• Delhi, India
9 Apr
@LovingMyBabies I understand your point that mylot is one of the best places for you to share anything about you because otherwise you don't find a patient listener to listen to you in real life. I have observed that you share most of your important happenings through your discussions on mylot. You get a large number of responses too. It is good to hear that you and your husband love to help others, in whatever way it is possible. Helping others in their hour of need is one of the best positive traits.
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@ridingbet (38927)
• Philippines
6 Apr
i am compassionate, trustworthy, caring, honest and a good friend.
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@dpk262006 (55768)
• Delhi, India
7 Apr
You are bundle of all the finest of traits and I am sure that your near and dear ones would be lucky to have you with them.
@ridingbet (38927)
• Philippines
7 Apr
@dpk262006 well, i have the character traits of a Scorpio and a pig. hahaha!
My kid brother made a status post in his Face Book wall, 'Scorpio na, Dragon pa'. He was born under the sign of Scorpio (November) and under the Dragon from the...
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@dpk262006 (55768)
• Delhi, India
7 Apr
@ridingbet Thanks.
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• Japan
7 Apr
I am very consistent and get things done.
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@dpk262006 (55768)
• Delhi, India
7 Apr
I love those who are consistent in their approach. These kinds of people are honest and always reliable. You have one of the wonderful positive traits in you.
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• Trinidad And Tobago
7 Apr
My positive traits are also my weaknesses too. It irritates the hell out of me. For example I am honor bound ...so it is easy to manipulate me. I will respond in a particular way all the time...because I answer to a higher Force. Sadly, it makes me predictable. I don't like that about me.
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@dpk262006 (55768)
• Delhi, India
7 Apr
I think by mentioning honor bound, you mean to say that you always keep your promise. Is not it? I feel that there is nothing wrong in keeping one's promise, rather it makes one more reliable and trustworthy. I don't think that you should treat this positive trait of yours as your weakness.
@celticeagle (114283)
• Boise, Idaho
6 Apr
If I don't know myself pretty well by my 65th year I am not going to I am thinking. My positive traits? I am loyal, honest, funny and a she-devil when it comes to taking care of my kids.
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@dpk262006 (55768)
• Delhi, India
7 Apr
Yes, by this age you would have come to know about your positive traits and traits which keep you going. It sounds wonderful to know that you are not only loyal, but you are honest also and you love humor. I feel as far as caring one's kids is concerned, every mother is very particular about her kids and this trait would be found in most of the mothers. Nonetheless, it is an appreciable traits and your kids would be proud of you.
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@allknowing (56644)
• India
6 Apr
I think I am just and will support anyone who is on the right side no matter what the consequences.
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@dpk262006 (55768)
• Delhi, India
6 Apr
It means you believe in supporting a genuine person, it is one of the best traits. Many shy away to back up a genuine person.
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@allknowing (56644)
• India
6 Apr
@dpk262006 You are right about most staying neutral which is not a good trait.
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@dpk262006 (55768)
• Delhi, India
7 Apr
@allknowing I also try to support the genuine person, although sometimes I regret it if things turn out otherwise than expected.