Are you always honest in your comments at myLot?

United States
April 20, 2017 7:13am CST
When you leave a comment on a post are you honest or do you just say what you think the writer wants to hear? Example: I think Ruby is adorable. If I say that in a post I am sure many would respond in kind. However, there are others who couldn't care less about a dog - do those people agree with my statement or be honest? In other words, do you give your true feelings or do you say what is expected? Sometimes it is better to avoid conflict by saying what is expected, just as it is in real life. But this isn't real life.....or is it? One thing most people know about me is that I tell it like it is. How honest are you? (Now be honest!) Photo from Pixabay
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@LadyDuck (142162)
• Switzerland
20 Apr 17
If I cannot be honest I skip the discussion, I do not want to be rude and sometimes I cannot stand what I read.
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• United States
20 Apr 17
There are a lot of things I skip over since I do tell it like it is and I need to calm down LOL!
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@LadyDuck (142162)
• Switzerland
20 Apr 17
@AbbyGreenhill LOL, sometimes I also need to calm down. There are times that I am tempted to write what I think.
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@JudyEv (116165)
• Bunbury, Australia
20 Apr 17
I skip some discussions too.
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@JolietJake (48655)
• Olney, Illinois
20 Apr 17
I often curb my tongue and just say what people want to hear
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@Happy2BeMe (72127)
• Canada
20 Apr 17
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• United States
20 Apr 17
Wait, I must need glasses....I thought you said you curb your tongue - you must have said you curb your dog...but wait - you don't have a dog....
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@JohnRoberts (49547)
• Los Angeles, California
20 Apr 17
I curb my tongue also. I didn't in the beginning and well, hostility ensued so I reigned in. If we didn't curb our tongues here, all out vicious verbal warfare would rule the day.
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@Mike197602 (13366)
• Worcester, England
20 Apr 17
I'm either honest or I don't say anything. There are some on here that post discussions that drive me mad...I don't respond to them anymore
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• Philippines
20 Apr 17
i just mumble at the screen
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• United States
20 Apr 17
I agree with that..I can't let some words in cyberspace get my goat up! I rather ignore and move on.
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@JudyEv (116165)
• Bunbury, Australia
20 Apr 17
@hereandthere I love that - mumble at the screen!
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@Happy2BeMe (72127)
• Canada
20 Apr 17
I am honest with my responses. If I don't feel that I can be then I just scroll on by and say nothing.
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• United States
20 Apr 17
That's a good way to do it. Then laugh to yourself, or shake your head LOL!
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@Happy2BeMe (72127)
• Canada
20 Apr 17
@AbbyGreenhill Ya I spend a lot of time shaking my head and biting my tongue!! lol
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• United States
20 Apr 17
@Happy2BeMe I bet many of us do at times.
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@Asylum (48288)
• Manchester, England
20 Apr 17
I have always given honest comments when the comment has been a serious one. As you may be aware I also make silly or jovial comments at times, in which case I simply say whatever I find appropriate as opposed to what I really believe.
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• United States
20 Apr 17
I like your silly/jovial comments and I don't even mind the ones where you pick on me.
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@Asylum (48288)
• Manchester, England
20 Apr 17
@AbbyGreenhill Oh but I would never pick on you, just other people.
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• United States
20 Apr 17
@Asylum OK, I appreciate that LOL!!!!
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@Tampa_girl7 (24371)
• United States
20 Apr 17
I must admit that I try to not make waves and try to be kind , but I wouldn't outright lie either.
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• United States
20 Apr 17
If you lie your nose will grow!
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@silvermist (18353)
• India
21 Apr 17
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• India
21 Apr 17
That's too sweet of you.
@Corbin5 (96612)
• United States
20 Apr 17
MyLot is real life to me, and for my own sanity, I avoid conflict at all costs. I skip a lot of posts to avoid conflict.
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• United States
20 Apr 17
My husband is the avoider here at this house.
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@Jackalyn (6616)
• Oxford, England
20 Apr 17
I say what is on my mind. My life is so full of the unlikely that the truth is often stranger than a lie anyway.
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• United States
20 Apr 17
LOL, I'll have to remember that!
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@JudyEv (116165)
• Bunbury, Australia
20 Apr 17
Rather than upset someone I might water down my opinion or I'd move on without commenting. I might try to be non-committal. I don't tell lies. And I honestly love Ruby!
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• United States
20 Apr 17
LOL, you made my top list saying that!
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@TheHorse (60658)
• Pleasant Hill, California
21 Apr 17
@AbbyGreenhill Ruby is sooooooo cute! Who's Ruby? Kidding.
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• United States
21 Apr 17
@TheHorse how do you do a raspberry on here?!
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@suripunj (704)
• New Delhi, India
20 Apr 17
i think i am honest in responding.
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• United States
20 Apr 17
that sounded honest !!
@suripunj (704)
• New Delhi, India
20 Apr 17
@AbbyGreenhill Thanks you approved.
@Courtlynn (65418)
• United States
20 Apr 17
Always honest. Gets me in trouble sometimes as most want people honest. Until theyre the ones they are honest with.
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• United States
20 Apr 17
Unlike our fearless leaders we probably tell the truth more often than not.
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@HazySue (19510)
• United States
20 Apr 17
I am honest in my comments. If I can't be honest I will not say anything.
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• United States
20 Apr 17
So you are honest or you would not have answered this LOL!
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@HazySue (19510)
• United States
21 Apr 17
@AbbyGreenhill I tend to not anything at all if it leads to being rude.
• United States
21 Apr 17
@HazySue Rude and honest are not the same - I can be brutally honest with a friend without being rude.
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@celticeagle (116759)
• Boise, Idaho
20 Apr 17
I do give my true feelings. I feel that fibbing or not being totally truthful is a waste of time and a lot of work. I tell like it is. Altho sometimes I do change my mind on some things from time to time.
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• United States
20 Apr 17
I have left a comment and gone back and deleted once I calmed down LOL!
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@celticeagle (116759)
• Boise, Idaho
21 Apr 17
@AbbyGreenhill ......It's good that we can delete them.
• United States
21 Apr 17
@celticeagle Yes it is, can't do that in real life.
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@CRK109 (14209)
• United States
21 Apr 17
If I can't be honest, I skip the comment and go on to the next discussion.
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• United States
21 Apr 17
That seems to be a popular way.
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@CRK109 (14209)
• United States
21 Apr 17
@AbbyGreenhill Well, I can't be rude to people. It's just not my way. And unless I walk in their shoes, I don't really know how their life is. So I move on and return later with a different discussion where I might have something better to say.
• United States
21 Apr 17
@CRK109 I can be rude when the other person is rude first - and that happens here unfortunately.
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@megatron777 (3781)
• Guam
20 Apr 17
I always make my comment on what I think and feel. You cannot fake it.
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• United States
20 Apr 17
That's true.
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• Guam
23 Apr 17
@AbbyGreenhill Thank you.
@fishtiger58 (30383)
• Momence, Illinois
20 Apr 17
If my comment would be deemed hurtful then I usually don't say it. I am brutally honest but sometimes honesty is not the best policy. So instead of lying I probably won't say anything.
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• United States
20 Apr 17
You're too nice to be mean !!!!
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@fishtiger58 (30383)
• Momence, Illinois
23 Apr 17
@AbbyGreenhill Oh I can be mean, but thanks, but I refuse to get pulled into any mess here at mylot.
@WriterAI (4808)
• Bulgaria
21 Apr 17
Yes, I am always honest in my comments at myLot.
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• United States
21 Apr 17
Thanks for stopping by.
@Marty1 (31423)
• Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania
20 Apr 17
@abbygreenhill I avoided giving a response and focus on another part of the post, or just give it a like and go on with my lotting. I don't like to be dishonest. I am honest when I tell you that Ruby is so sweet looking. Very cute!
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• United States
20 Apr 17
Thanks.. Ruby says thanks !!
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@Morleyhunt (19187)
• Canada
20 Apr 17
I'm not sure why my first response didn't post..I'll try again. I am honest, but may give a Wisjh washy non committal response when I really want to ask them if they are really that stupid... There are many discussions I just move on past. Anything I say will get me into trouble.
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• United States
20 Apr 17
I get my foot stuck in my mouth often!
@Kandae11 (33740)
20 Apr 17
I think carefully before responding - I won't want to get blocked.
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• United States
20 Apr 17
Blocking doesnt bother me - I figure there are other fish in the sea.
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