I Told Dennis To Marry Me To Become NZ Resident Before He Leaves Forever
@cacay1 (83223)
Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
April 23, 2017 6:58am CST
It was seriously told to him through email to marry me hehehehe
to become a resident in new Zealand for he no longer replies my messages .He finally replied me telling to have a Skype with him shortly this day.
We did chat shortly this day almost 10 minutes and I was so brave to follow up my proposal . His reply was, " Sorry sweetie, I am dying and I can no longer make you happy, sick!
. I told him to defend my defeat, I was only teasing you,LOL.
I plan not to anymore go there to take care of him, no use at all.He does not know the real definition of companionship. I hope I am right in my decision, anyway, I am happy being single and free.
Thanks and have a nice Sunday with the Lord and your loves of life.
Image of Cornwall Park , Auckland, NZ my personal shot
to become a resident in new Zealand for he no longer replies my messages .He finally replied me telling to have a Skype with him shortly this day.
We did chat shortly this day almost 10 minutes and I was so brave to follow up my proposal . His reply was, " Sorry sweetie, I am dying and I can no longer make you happy, sick!. I told him to defend my defeat, I was only teasing you,LOL.
I plan not to anymore go there to take care of him, no use at all.He does not know the real definition of companionship. I hope I am right in my decision, anyway, I am happy being single and free.
Thanks and have a nice Sunday with the Lord and your loves of life.
Image of Cornwall Park , Auckland, NZ my personal shot19 people like this
18 responses
@allknowing (130066)
• India
23 Apr 17
He could have obliged you. No harm and do not give up. Who cares for him there?
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 Apr 17
@allknowing their government mandates tgeir social workers to visit every sick patient at least 3 times a week to clean his house, cook some foods, and drive him to shopping mall for his consumption.
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
23 Apr 17
@cacay1 That is some help. But does he live alone?
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 Apr 17
@allknowing Yes he lives alone for many years .
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
23 Apr 17
You have tried and he has continued to push you away. You have no choice but to move on. So sorry.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Apr 17
@Happy2BeMe That is right. I am not a martyr to continue sacrificing without something in return.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
25 Apr 17
@Happy2BeMe Thank you friend. All I need from him is to support become a resident there. It is hard for there are so many requirements to apply as NZ resident.Better if there is marriage to happen for after few months the wife can become a resident, so sad story of my life years put to waste.
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@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
23 Apr 17
Hope everything works out well for you. Things may not end up as you planned but you will receive the result that you worked for and deserve.
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@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
25 Apr 17
@cacay1 you tried and made an offer.
He declined. You just have to live with his decision.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Apr 17
@allen0187 , I hope, and my decision not to go is final for it will be useless to file leave of absence just to take care of him. My income in Philippines might be put to nothing.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
25 Apr 17
@allen0187 , Yes true, they are not like us , they always have a decision final.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
24 Apr 17
you mean to say, you are not leaving for NZ anymore? so you will stick to your work as a professor here, again?
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Apr 17
@ridingbet, yes friend because of many reasons that I have resolved. Plus until this day, he does not download his sponsorship form, so hard to gamble and I might just be crying there of loneliness.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
25 Apr 17
@ridingbet You are right friend,plus I noticed when we chat his voice is down as if his PD is getting worse.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
24 Apr 17
@cacay1 that is true. maybe he does not want that he leave you in sorrow.
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@manasamanu (3746)
• Bangalore, India
23 Apr 17
You are right if he does not want to marry you then no point in meeting him but since it is his last days he might want you to stay with him.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
25 Apr 17
@manasamanu That word fits him yes rude and selfish. He does not care for me.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Apr 17
@manasamanu , I won't go for him for he is so hesitant to send his sponsorship form. He must sponsor me so the NZ embassy can grant his request to take care him for some months.
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@manasamanu (3746)
• Bangalore, India
24 Apr 17
@cacay1 He must be very rude then, you better stay alone rather than indulging yourself with him.
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
23 Apr 17
Relationships are complicated and success depends on many factors. Glad you are happy being single and free! 
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
24 Apr 17
@cacay1 Yes, there are a lot of advantages and a few disadvantages. Though, I don't plan of being single for eternity. I am just waiting for the next world to see what happens.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
25 Apr 17
@1hopefulman I am happy with my single life lots of freedom, no opposition.
I am happy with my single life lots of freedom, no opposition.1 person likes this
@silvermist (19702)
• India
23 Apr 17
@cacay1 I think he could have married you.If not then you need not go there any more.
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@silvermist (19702)
• India
26 Apr 17
@cacay1 Taking help and solace from you all these years and not willing to help you shows his selfishness.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
26 Apr 17
@silvermist That is true, he is also greedy of his money considering the millions he has in his bank. He told me will share his wealth and it is his son who would send it to me through my bank . I do not know if it will be honored by his son when he is gone and he cannot see what his son is doing.
@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 Apr 17
@silvermist yes my friend, I might lost my dignity and morale as a professor taking someone for nothing just for the sake of love? He has a son he must be the one to take care of him. Dennis is so selfish. We been in a relationship for many years but he has no courage to help me become a citizen there. My work visa before expired naturally for it was not transferred to the new visa. He lacks support because of his sickness. It should have been before when he was well.He is a businessman yet never had he bought some material things for me . My cousin and many friend prospered in their foreigner boyfriends/ husband and now living happily. In short, I am not lucky in love.
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@kevinakash (2084)
• Sri Lanka
23 Apr 17
hope you will enjoy your life with this new change
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
24 Apr 17
@kevinakash , gradually I may achieve my full freedom and total peace. At least I have decided and it's final. Thank you friend.
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@antonbunot (11091)
• Calgary, Alberta
24 Apr 17
Well, if he loves you, even if he could no longer make you happy (Hehehe, I don't know what he really means he could not make you happy . . I am just guessing what is in my mind.), he should marry you. But how could he marry you when you are in PI while he is in NZ?! Can a priest or judge officiate a marriage thru Skype?
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You make my dear my friend.It can be thru Facebook
But it is nice to hear that you are strong and moving forward. 
@luisadannointed (4171)
• Philippines
23 Apr 17
I hope that you will still have great days with him. God bless you and may God fill your heart with whatever you really need.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 Apr 17
@luisadannointed it seems great days are fading.
@Hate2Iron (15730)
• Canada
23 Apr 17
what a sad story... I hope that things improve for him!!
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