Borrowing Money From Friends???

United States
May 26, 2017 3:57pm CST
Borrowing Money From Friends Mark Twain said: “The holy passion of friendship is of so sweet and steady and loyal and enduring a nature that it will last through a whole lifetime, if not asked to lend money.” What do you think? Do you have friends that you would be comfortable with lending them some money when things get tight? Or do you have friends that you would borrow money from? I have done both in my lifetime and in each case it worked out just fine. I paid the money back quickly and my friend never thought any less of me. It was a one-time situation that was very unusual. I have also loaned money to more than one friend with no bad repercussions. They were trustworthy and paid me back right away. Sometimes, something comes up suddenly and the bank is closed or checks won’t suffice. It has to be cash. Now, of course, we have ATM machines, but back in my day, that service was not available. A person should think long and hard about allowing money to become something that would ruin your friendship with someone. A lot depends on the AMOUNT of money also. Small amounts of money are easier to loan than say hundreds of dollars. And, of course, it all depends on a person’s current financial situation. IF you don’t have money to spare, you have to say “no.” It’s that simple. And the bottom line is, of course: If your friend pays you back quickly, you are more likely to lend that person money again. If they never make any effort to pay you back. Well, don’t get burned twice.
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@PatZAnthony (14752)
• Charlotte, North Carolina
26 May 17
If a friend needed money for a reason that made sense to us and we were in the position to give it, we would. One thing we have learned is it is better to give only what you can afford to lose, in case the friend will not be able to pay it back.
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• United States
27 May 17
Yes, good points, for certain. Borrowing or lending money to or from a friend is a delicate situation, that can have all sorts of outcomes.
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@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
27 May 17
Not really a good idea. I can give friends financial assistance and not expect them to pay me back. However, it is different when a 'friend in need' asks for some money and say he/she will return it. That hardly ever happens.
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@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
27 May 17
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• United States
27 May 17
There are all sorts of different situations that involve borrowing money from a friend. I can see that from the different responses. It's just interesting to discuss, because everyone does have their individual outlook on the subject. That's what makes it interesting to me.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
26 May 17
I have a m otto never a borrower or lender be so I stick to it as I live on'limted funds 'here in the retirement cetnter.
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• United States
27 May 17
Another good rule to live by. Again @UncleJoe can probably tell us where that motto came from. "Never a borrower or a lender be." I will say one thing. Credit cards have made borrowers out of a lot of people. I read recently that the average credit card debt is over $10,000. Some people OWE credit cards much more than that. I don't have a credit card and I don't owe any credit card company. If I want to purchase something, I pay cash.
• United States
27 May 17
@UncleJoe Well all right then. Now we know. Thanks.
@marguicha (215428)
• Chile
16 Aug 17
I don´t remember having the need for money. But I have lent money to my children and to my best friends
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• United States
16 Aug 17
It's a good thing that you have never needed to borrow money.
@UmiNoor (4483)
• Malaysia
26 May 17
I'm glad that I had never been in a situation that I need to borrow money from a friend. I normally just asked from my parents or sisters. But that was a long time ago when I had the need to.
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• United States
27 May 17
Yes, it is always a good idea to ask family first, I guess.
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
26 May 17
I have always helped my friends out, whether by lending them money, buying them what they need, or just giving them the money without them needing to pay back. But never more than $20. I have also borrowed $20, from one person, and although it has taken me a long time to pay back, i have finally paid back half. Would have done it months ago but every time we got the spare money. We would have car trouble and need to use it. She understood though, and isnt worried about me not paying her. Which is nice.
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• United States
27 May 17
"A friend in need is a friend indeed." I've heard that said before. @UncleJoe probably knows who said it. I'm just not sure of exactly what it means. Any suggestions?
@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
27 May 17
@IreneVincent no idea. But have heard it alot. Lol
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