Why being so rude?

@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
June 8, 2017 9:26am CST
In my kind of job, I always get foul words from client's who are having a bad day. Some will tell you bad words as if they know what you've been through. Others will ask you sarcastically as if you've done something wrong with them. When all you did was to inform them about this and that. I thought I'm already done with this thing 5 years ago. And now, it's all coming back to me. Well, this time, I am not the irate agent my co-workers tag me. In short, I change course. Lol. Anyway, rudeness will never get us something. If you think you don't like the offer, then simply just say, you are not interested and hang up.
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
8 Jun 17
I agree. The person on the other end of the phone is just doing their job. I am never rude to anybody that calls. I simply say no thank you or I am not interested and hang up.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
8 Jun 17
Good to hear that from you. Bless you.
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
8 Jun 17
@JustBhem Thank you
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@prashu228 (37526)
• India
8 Jun 17
Yes..we should understand their job too
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• United States
8 Jun 17
Yes sounds like you have learned good skills to deal with the foul mouths.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
8 Jun 17
Well, all I say is I do apologize for most of the time.
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@dragon54u (31636)
• United States
8 Jun 17
Are you talking about tlemarketers? People who call your phone to try to sell you something? I'm sorry but I consider that just as bad as kicking in the door of my house and invading my property. I feel sorry for telemarketers so I have softened a little and now just hang up on them most of the time. I used to yell at them. I tried the job for about a week but felt so bad about interrupting people at dinner, making little old people walk all the way to the phone just to find a seller on the phone, and one elderly person even fell and broke their hip trying to get to the phone to answer my call. (that was before cell phones and wireless phones, of course!) I'm sorry you have to suffer the abuse.
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@dragon54u (31636)
• United States
8 Jun 17
@JustBhem I am now. In my younger days I'm sorry to say that I wasn't so understanding. I actually called someone back a couple years ago and apologized to them. We had a nice conversation and I hope it made her day better.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
8 Jun 17
Well, I do understand them but at least be kind.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
8 Jun 17
@dragon54u I also experienced this one time. I apologized for the words I've said to them. I know that there are just doing their job.
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• United States
8 Jun 17
Some people want to take it out on innocent people. However - I know I've been upset when I get calls not within reasonable time or woke me up and I will say what is on my mind.
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• United States
8 Jun 17
@JustBhem you're welcome
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
8 Jun 17
I see, thanks for sharing.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
9 Jun 17
Some people cannot hold their horse even just for a minute. It seems life always so hard for them.
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@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
10 Jun 17
@JustBhem We can be patient enough to endure the situation. However, we can still express our feelings about it and tried to call their attention.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
10 Jun 17
@Shavkat Exactly.
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
9 Jun 17
I agree, sometimes I cannot blame them.
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@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
8 Jun 17
It's good I'm not kind of costumer, being rude, when someone calls my phone I always talk nice with them though I decline with their offer.
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@prashu228 (37526)
• India
8 Jun 17
Good one
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
8 Jun 17
Exactly, at least be kind to say you are not interested.
@prashu228 (37526)
• India
8 Jun 17
I agree, if we don't like any offers we should just say not interested..no need to be rude
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
8 Jun 17
Thanks.
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9 Jun 17
i really hate it when people are rude. makes me sometimes rude in return... maybe not rude, but i may say something in some situations.... i just think to myself, "why not be nice?"
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
9 Jun 17
Exactly, why not be nice? I mean, if you are giving them nice approach nothing will lose. Instead, you will gain respect from others.
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
9 Jun 17
Tons and tons of patience bhem. You can do it.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
9 Jun 17
I think I need another drum for that. Thanks, Sol.
@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
8 Jun 17
Totally agree.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
8 Jun 17
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