Picking Anne up in an hour
@JamesHxstatic (29242)
Eugene, Oregon
July 5, 2017 7:59pm CST
Let's see, I vacuumed, watered all the hanging plants (every day), got rid of the dead flowers she had put in vases last week, have some pasta ready to cook when we get back and greens ready for a salad.
While she will appreciate all this, she would be glad to be home if I had done nothing. She was with her sister for five days now since the motorcycle accident that killed her sister's husband. I am sure that was so stressful for all involved.
Her sister has a son and daughter nearby with grand kids for her to be with too. I know that grieving is a long process and I hope that Jenny makes it through all right. I suggested some kind of grieving support group for her to attend. I hope that happens.
It will be good to have Anne back home.
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@jillybean1222 (6408)
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6 Jul 17
I'm sure she will appreciate all that you've done. And I'm sure you have missed Anne immensely. Again, i'm sorry for the sad situation.
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@JamesHxstatic (29242)
• Eugene, Oregon
6 Jul 17
Thanks, Jill. I hope that her sister does okay with all this. Anne altered a dress for her sis to wear to the celebration of life.
@JamesHxstatic (29242)
• Eugene, Oregon
29 Nov 17
Well, thanks @Hannihar! We try to take care of each other.
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@Hannihar (129481)
• Israel
30 Nov 17
@JamesHxstatic
You are so welcome James and I love your posts about you and Anne.
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@melindataylor22 (959)
• Waltham, Massachusetts
6 Jul 17
I am sorry for the loss in the family and am glad that she has a support system with you and hopefully others.
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@melindataylor22 (959)
• Waltham, Massachusetts
6 Jul 17
@JamesHxstatic You are welcome.
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@JamesHxstatic (29242)
• Eugene, Oregon
6 Jul 17
With her grown children there and many friends, she should be okay. Thank you!
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@JamesHxstatic (29242)
• Eugene, Oregon
6 Jul 17
She is quite happy. We have been out this morning tending flowers and she is taking a bouquet to a new neighbor.
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@LadyDuck (458230)
• Switzerland
7 Jul 17
@JamesHxstatic It's a kind gesture to welcome the new neighbor. She is surely happy to be at home.
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@teamfreak16 (43421)
• Denver, Colorado
6 Jul 17
Hope she had a good trip, even under those circumstances.
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@JamesHxstatic (29242)
• Eugene, Oregon
7 Jul 17
It was stressful, but her sister appreciated her being there.
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@changjiangzhibin89 (16533)
• China
6 Jul 17
Anne would be glad to see what you have done,she must have be mentally and physically exhausted in the last five days.
@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
6 Jul 17
i'm glad her children and grandchildren are nearby. anne will probably be calling her or her children periodically to know how they're doing.
@PatZAnthony (14752)
• Charlotte, North Carolina
6 Jul 17
It is a terrible thing for anyone to deal with. No one every really gets over something as terrible as that, do they?
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@JudyEv (325854)
• Rockingham, Australia
9 Jul 17
I'm sure Anne will be pleased to be home too. I think support groups in cases like this could be very supportive.
