Making Different Meals

United Kingdom
July 13, 2017 2:37pm CST
I've always been one to make the same meal for everyone at home. While I wouldn't mind, say, cooking a couple of sausages for one and burgers for another, I would mostly make the same meal and expect everyone to eat it. There are a few reasons for this. One is because it's a lot of time and effort (and dish washing) to make separate meals for every person in the family. It's also the way I was brought up and, I think, my ex being so ridiculously fussy made me more determined that my children wouldn't be! I wouldn't mind occasionally doing something different but, generally, going out for a meal was when everyone could choose what they wanted (although I did do my best to make a point of having everyone's favourites at least once a week). D, Midi, and Mini are all good when it comes to food. Mini is the most fussy but he's getting much better at trying different things and he's starting to enjoy more. Well, today, I realised that I am cooking different meals for each of us more often. There are only two of us most the time these days so I don't mind so much. It's not as if I'm cooking four different things. I still prefer to have the same thing, though. It's more a matter of time nowadays. Mini and I hardly seem to be home for five minutes before it's time to be somewhere else! So we do have a lot of quick and easy foods but I do make a point of making proper meals as often as possible, and I've started doing that more when we're at D's as well as when he is here. Not that the quick and easy stuff isn't 'proper' food but I'm sure you know what I mean. Saying that, some of the simplest meals can be very good. Anyway, even though I've always preferred for everyone to have the same while at home and still do that whenever possible and practical, I have noticed myself getting into the habit of doing different things for Mini and myself. So, do you cook for your family? Do you prefer to give them all the same meal or are you happy to make different things for everyone?
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• Preston, England
14 Jul 17
being on my own I only have me to cook for which is usually just microwaved food
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• United Kingdom
15 Jul 17
Being on your own, I understand not everyone feels it's worth the effort to cook a meal. Microwave food isn't great but it's easy!
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• Preston, England
15 Jul 17
@pumpkinjam it does the job expected of it
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
13 Jul 17
Growing up, the only thing my mom really cooked seperate was mac n cheese, tacos, and pork chops. As I loved Velvetta mac n cheese but my brother only liked kraft mac n cheese.. and then her and my brother liked pork chops and I didn't, and my brother ate tacos but neither my mom or i did.. so I'd have my velvetta mac n cheese when they had it. Same with my mom and i when he had tacos. But for some of us, as we get older our taste in food changes. Sometimes it makes us eat more things we never used to, while other times it makes us eat less of what we did use to.. Like for us.. I use to barely eat turkey and as stated above, never ate tacos. But now I want turkey more than just on Thanksgiving, and I eat tacos almost every time they're made for my brother. And my brother use to eat roast beef and smoked shoulder picnic (ham) alot growing up, but now will hardly touch them. Anyways.. I do most of the cooking. And we do both, meals we all eat, and seperate meals. As my mom and I are both picky and don't eat everything my brother likes. And he doesn't like to have the same thing over and over. Lol.
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• United Kingdom
13 Jul 17
I've found I like things I never used to. I enjoy a lot of foods. Growing up, we had what we were given but we never had any 'foreign' food. If people are picky so their meals are limited, it's understandable that someone who isn't so fussy wouldn't want the same things so I can see why you would have separate meals sometimes.
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
13 Jul 17
@pumpkinjam the meals aren't really limited, my brother just likes 50+ other things that we don't like. Lol so alot of the time hes home for lunch or dinner, we make seperate meals. Or when we get take out, he'll go to a place we wont eat from so we have to make a second trip so we can eat too. Lol not a problem for us. We've gotten used to it.
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@marlina (154166)
• Canada
14 Jul 17
I was brought up the same way as you were. Everyone ate the same meal. And I practice this here also.
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@shikharava (1838)
13 Jul 17
Ima terrible cook, so I don't have to worry about that. When I'm with my younger bruda, he's the one to prepare the meals and I'm the one to make the arrangements. That's one big benefit of having a younger bruda, I must say.
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• United Kingdom
13 Jul 17
Both of my sons can cook but the eldest doesn't live with us now, and I just don't think to ask the youngest to cook! I'd get him to do it more often but then we'd probably end up with chicken nuggets and beans as our staple diet!
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13 Jul 17