~When Was Your First?~

Valdosta, Georgia
August 22, 2017 7:07am CST
I thought this would be fun since it has my curiousity peaked now so here it goes. I had my first "school boyfriend" at 12 years old. What I mean by school boyfriend is we didn't go out on dates, we spent time together at school only and our parents had no idea. They didn't want us kids dating until we were 17. Anyway, how old were you when you had your first "school boyfriend/girlfriend" or "church boyfriend/girlfriend"? Image source: pixabay
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@Tina30219 (81384)
• Onaway, Michigan
22 Aug 17
I was about 16 I believe. My story is rather funny about my first boyfriend when I met him and we exchanged number and he called me and my mom talked to him because she answered the phone she dated his dad when she was younger we both got a laugh out of that.
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@pitstop (12969)
• India
22 Aug 17
Woah! Did that freak you out?
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@Tina30219 (81384)
• Onaway, Michigan
22 Aug 17
@pitstop Yeah it sure did.
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@Happy2BeMe (98795)
• Canada
22 Aug 17
Cool story
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@Happy2BeMe (98795)
• Canada
22 Aug 17
I had crushes but my first real boyfriend was when I was 14. I was heartbroken when he spread rumors around the school about him and I which weren't true. I never talked to him again until a few years back when we reconnected on FB. The first thing he did was apologize for all those years ago. I thought that was sweet. He was my first love so he will always have a special place in my heart.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
22 Aug 17
@Happy2beme Oh, that was very sweet of him to apologize! Thanks for sharing with me. =)
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@Happy2BeMe (98795)
• Canada
23 Aug 17
@LovingMyBabies you are welcome
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@LeaPea2417 (36189)
• Toccoa, Georgia
22 Aug 17
My first real crush was when I was 12. But, it was only a crush. I never dated him. My first real boyfriend was in College. After, I broke up with him is when I started dating my husband (who I met at the same College).
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• Valdosta, Georgia
22 Aug 17
@Leapea2417 Yeah my first real boyfriend that my parents knew about was at 17. That's awesome that you and your husband met in college, how sweet. =)
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@LeaPea2417 (36189)
• Toccoa, Georgia
23 Aug 17
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@Juliaacv (48250)
• Canada
22 Aug 17
I was a tom-boy and totally oblivious to guys until I entered high school. There was a guy in grade 9 that flirted with me, and I'd blush so red. We dated in our last year of high school.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
22 Aug 17
@Juliaacv Lol, aw that's cute. =)
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@Juliaacv (48250)
• Canada
24 Aug 17
@TheHorse I didn't date him until after my tomboy stage. And then I just played hard to get, amazing how fun that was.
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@TheHorse (202882)
• Walnut Creek, California
23 Aug 17
That's sweet! Did you get to hold hands and stuff? I liked tomboys!
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@TheHorse (202882)
• Walnut Creek, California
22 Aug 17
Well, I was kind of a trollop in 5th grade. I think I went bowling with both Lisa and Laurie. My dad drove. I think I actually held hands with Sally at Summer Camp after 6th Grade. But then I hit a bit of a drought.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
23 Aug 17
@Thehorse You were busy for a little while there. Lol
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@TheHorse (202882)
• Walnut Creek, California
23 Aug 17
@LovingMyBabies The Jr. High years were rough. I got a lof of peck type kisses in spin-the-bottle, but Maryanne fell for Chris and Judy moved to Cincinnati.
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• Bournemouth, England
23 Aug 17
@TheHorse Your response puts me in mind of a sort of youth version of Dion's 'The Wanderer'. Sadly I went to an all-boys' school so (thankfully) no action at all there.
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@ilocosboy (45161)
• Philippines
22 Aug 17
My first crush was when I was in third year... or fourth year. It was a crush that never come into reality, he he.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
22 Aug 17
@ilocosboy Yeah, that seems to be the normal age I think. Thanks for sharing. =)
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@ilocosboy (45161)
• Philippines
22 Aug 17
@LovingMyBabies don't mention it, I had a little memory and its just made me happy.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
22 Aug 17
@ilocosboy Good I'm glad! =)
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@m_audrey6788 (58487)
• Germany
22 Aug 17
Hmmm..I started admiring someone during my college years but not in a relationship thing..just simply admiring his smartness as being so active in class, the way he dressed up neatly and totally cool smile..
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• Germany
22 Aug 17
@LovingMyBabies ..Yes..My life was not so good during college, struggling to finish schooling while having some extra work
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• Valdosta, Georgia
22 Aug 17
@m_audrey6788 Wow, you never liked anyone or dated before college? That's very rare!
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@1hopefulman (45125)
• Canada
22 Aug 17
My parents were never concerned with my having girlfriends but I was a pretty responsible person. I didn't look for trouble. I always had friends that were girls with whom II hung around, even before I was 10. I always liked girls.
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@1hopefulman (45125)
• Canada
22 Aug 17
@LovingMyBabies That's so true!
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• Valdosta, Georgia
22 Aug 17
@1hopefulman That's good that you were responsible. =) I think most parents worry more with their girls.
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@andriaperry (116876)
• Anniston, Alabama
22 Aug 17
Like you I hung out with the neighborhood kids, the parents knew each other and watched all of us. Plus when you have a family five kids, you are always around boys and girls, it was just the normal.
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@jobelbojel (34707)
• Philippines
22 Aug 17
First crush was when I was in high school. Second was in college.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
22 Aug 17
@jobelbojel Wow, you were much older than most people.
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@jstory07 (133476)
• Roseburg, Oregon
23 Aug 17
I think I was in Jr High. He was the love of my life and we were best friends.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
23 Aug 17
@jstory07 Oh that's so sweet!
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@TheHorse (202882)
• Walnut Creek, California
23 Aug 17
Did you stay in touch down the road?
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@sol_cee (38224)
• Philippines
22 Aug 17
I'm a late bloomer. Uni days perhaps?
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• Valdosta, Georgia
22 Aug 17
@sol_cee I'm sorry what is uni days?
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• Valdosta, Georgia
22 Aug 17
@sol_cee Oh okay gotcha! =)
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@sol_cee (38224)
• Philippines
22 Aug 17
@LovingMyBabies university days I mean. :)
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• Eugene, Oregon
22 Aug 17
I was about twelve too, junior high. I think we danced together once.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
23 Aug 17
@JamesHxstatic Aw that is too cute! =)
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@TheHorse (202882)
• Walnut Creek, California
23 Aug 17
I remember how awkward dancing was in those days. At least for me.
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• Eugene, Oregon
23 Aug 17
@TheHorse Oh yes, pure terror.
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@Courtlynn (67002)
• United States
22 Aug 17
I was around 13. Though, I did go and see him maybe three times outside of school. But most we did was hold hands and kiss on lips a few times. Oh.. then I "dated" him again once or twice at 14.. but we went to different high schools, so only saw him at my schools friday nights football games. Then had another "school boyfriend" when I was pregnant at 15.. as a kid in my homeroom liked me already, and got mad when I said I had a boyfriend, then when I got pregnant and my ex left me, the kid got mad and said he'd be daddy but we never hung out outside of school Teens I tell ya
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• Valdosta, Georgia
22 Aug 17
@Courtlynn That's around the normal age from what I have seen. Lol, maybe the homeroom kid would have been your best option! I know, teens are silly but hey that's when we learn a lot about ourselves.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
22 Aug 17
@Courtlynn Oh nevermind then.
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@Courtlynn (67002)
• United States
22 Aug 17
@LovingMyBabies he was also trying to get with his ex at one point too. Plus was kinda weird. But liked the thought of him wanting to be together even though i was preg by someone else .. til he was doing it for that
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@FayeHazel (40250)
• United States
22 Aug 17
Oh that's a tough one... I had a boy I liked when I was 8 or 9. I had boys that I played with when I was a pre-teen but they were just friends, I played with their sisters, too. My first "date" if you want to call it that was when I was 19.
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• Philippines
22 Aug 17
College I think, but we didn't last long. She's now married with a kid.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
22 Aug 17
@Letranknight2015 Wow, you waited a long time!
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@JESSY3236 (18663)
• United States
22 Aug 17
I had my first crush in Kindergarten. But my first after-school boyfriend was when I nine at a daycare, but we didn't go on dates.. Then at age 10 my first boyfriend, but we didn't go on dates.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
22 Aug 17
@JESSY3236 Yeah I had the same kind of things when I was young, not real dating but school relationships.
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@andriaperry (116876)
• Anniston, Alabama
22 Aug 17
13 and we did bring them home and we did stay in the company of parents. His name was Jeff.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
22 Aug 17
@andriaperry Aw. =) My parents didn't want to hear the word boy from us girls. Not until we were 17, so I had to just have boyfriends in school and leave it there.
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@Dena91 (15706)
• United States
22 Aug 17
My first crush I was 15 and we met at church.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
22 Aug 17
@Dena91 Aw! I think that's around the normal age.
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@Edsamacos (557)
• Philippines
22 Aug 17
I had first crush in grade school and now I searching her on Facebook but I can't find her profile. Maybe she doesn't have Facebook and decided not to create one.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
22 Aug 17
@Edsamacos Yeah not everyone is on FB so maybe she isn't. I'm sorry.
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@weevee18 (2067)
• Philippines
22 Aug 17
I was 15 and same with you my parents didn't know ???? He's my churchmate back then
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• Valdosta, Georgia
22 Aug 17
@weevee18 Aw, that's good. =)
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