Staying Positive Is Hard!
@BACONSTRIPSXXX (14351)
West Haven, Connecticut
September 12, 2017 1:38pm CST
As a husband and father of three staying positive is very important. Even though im the bread winner I conside my beloved wife to be the stronger one and most imnportant in our family of five.
Im human and I have good days and bad days but in the end I have to pick and chose what to stress and be mad about which is alot easier said than done. I can always count on my wife to cheer me up and help me pull through and stay positive.
Im trying my best to deal with all the pressure, bills, the kids school, and supporting my family wihout letting it affect my happiness...
Any advice would be appreciated!
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@LeaPea2417 (36527)
• Toccoa, Georgia
17 Sep 17
I admire you staying positive in all you do for your family. Another thing, are you and your family ok? I am pretty sure I heard that Hurricane Irma went by your area where you live. I hope you all didn't have any damage to your home.
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@BACONSTRIPSXXX (14351)
• West Haven, Connecticut
18 Dec 17
Yeah the hurricane didnt affect us much compared to the damages in puerto rico
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@LeaPea2417 (36527)
• Toccoa, Georgia
18 Dec 17
@BACONSTRIPSXXX Thank goodness, it didn't affect you all badly. I had been worried about you & your family. It is so good to see you back here 
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@BACONSTRIPSXXX (14351)
• West Haven, Connecticut
19 Dec 17
@LeaPea2417 Yeah luckily I was alone and not with my family etc
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Dec 17
My advice would be watch Todd White on youtube! He's an amazing man of God and he's helped me to look at life very differently...
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@BACONSTRIPSXXX (14351)
• West Haven, Connecticut
19 Dec 17
Im actually a fan of Todd White myself, my favorite quote by him is Jesus takes what is broken and makes it beautiful. Its called grace! He is a legend of God in my eyes
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
20 Dec 17
@BACONSTRIPSXXX That's awesome!! Yes I love his sermons! =)
@shaggin (71671)
• United States
18 Dec 17
@BACONSTRIPSXXX Oh I am so sorry to hear that! Glad you are better. Many people wondered where you went.
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@BACONSTRIPSXXX (14351)
• West Haven, Connecticut
18 Dec 17
Yeah I was invloced in a bad car accident but im back now and well thanks!
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@BACONSTRIPSXXX (14351)
• West Haven, Connecticut
19 Dec 17
@shaggin thats good to hear, I guess I had been missed after all
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@BACONSTRIPSXXX (14351)
• West Haven, Connecticut
12 Sep 17
I agree and im happy, but im always putting everyone first and myself last and its just draining sometimes
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@rebelann (111310)
• El Paso, Texas
12 Sep 17
Don't worry @BACONSTRIPSXXX you know your wife and kids put you first, that should help a little.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
21 Sep 17
Just have a plan and stick to it, when you plan ahead you get fewer surprises and of course prayer is a big help
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@BACONSTRIPSXXX (14351)
• West Haven, Connecticut
18 Dec 17
I agree someitmes I overplan things too lol
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@BACONSTRIPSXXX (14351)
• West Haven, Connecticut
19 Dec 17
@enlightenedpsych2 That makes sense lol Merry Christmas to you too Erica!
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@BACONSTRIPSXXX (14351)
• West Haven, Connecticut
18 Dec 17
Yeah she is my best support and happy place
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@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
14 Sep 17
Your'e already doing a great job being a father and a bread winner. That's already something to be proud of and it's normal to feel bad sometimes. We have our down moments. You are very lucky to have your wife with you to give you moral support. YOu're lucky you don't have a wife who only knows how to spend money and not save.
It's nice to see you back here again.
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@carebear29 (31962)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
13 Sep 17
its hard to be positive nowadays
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@RasmaSandra (73802)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
12 Sep 17
I know that at times it can be hard. You have a lot to consider. Here is a link. Perhaps this can help you some.
Here are four steps for you to effect positive change. These positive parenting tips will help guide you and to strengthen your relationship with your child.
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@teamfreak16 (43419)
• Denver, Colorado
12 Sep 17
Geez, that's a lot of juggling. Keep it up!
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@dave121495 (1296)
• Philippines
19 Jul 18
Just always see the good things even if it's hard to see.
