Sept 23- Two kids = Trouble
By peachpurple
@peachpurple (13884)
Malaysia
September 23, 2017 8:17am CST
I just cannot imagine if I had 3 or 4 kids of my own, I think I would become crazy!
My two kids age gap are not close either, 10 years apart and yet they still squabble, quarrel over petty things.
It is difficult to satisfy both of them desires because if I give something to the older child, the younger child will fight over it. If I give in to both, I will become broke. If I break it into halves, neither is satisfy, each of them wants the whole thing. The older one gives in to her sibling but the young chap doesn't appreciate it. He wanted everything.
Two kids are giving me headache and trouble. I just cannot imagine having 3 kids whereby everyday would be arguments and screaming at each other..
How many kids do you have?
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@peachpurple (13884)
• Malaysia
23 Sep 17
isn't he lonely? to fight with his own toys? my son told me that he wished to have a younger brother to fight with!
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@just4him (306532)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
23 Sep 17
@peachpurple I'm a great grandma now. I have five grandchildren 24-14, and two great grandchildren 3 and 4. My children are 44, 42, 39.
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@peachpurple (13884)
• Malaysia
2 Oct 17
@just4him wow, your oldest is my age, you married young ?
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@peachpurple (13884)
• Malaysia
23 Sep 17
how close are their age gaps? So you are a granny now? How many grand kids?
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@informationshelter (111)
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24 Sep 17
I think that's normal, because the younger one feels safe close to the elder one, and that causes overreaction sometimes. At least the elder kid accepts it without complaining. That's something.
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@peachpurple (13884)
• Malaysia
24 Sep 17
I think so too, the older one always wanted to protect the younger ones because she felt the responsibilities, but sometimes both acted like kids
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@peachpurple (13884)
• Malaysia
2 Oct 17
Close age gap is not a big problem, they can rotate well
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@peachpurple (13884)
• Malaysia
23 Sep 17
actually it is the younger one who bullies the older one.
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@Kosgey (1707)
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23 Sep 17
@peachpurple thats being disrespectfull I think you should warn him to obey the elder one.
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