Sending pictures in bed with her boyfriend
@ricki_911 (21625)
Toronto, Ontario
September 26, 2017 6:56pm CST
Maybe, im not seeing it.
This friend who we always messaging on fb sends me pictures of her bf a d her cuddled or making out.
I think shes insecure and desperate. She single parents of 2 kids depends on her ex child support to pay all her bills. This boyfriend shows up on weekends and does his dees then leaves
So i made a comment as one time he said to her you will do for jow but long term i dont see anything for us. Id loose his number and be see yea.
So now she keeps sending me these pictures. Hes nothing to look at and to me is immature.
Im thinking shes doing it because if her own insecurities and shes always claiming she doesnt need a man ans shes i dependent. Diffence shes not shes dependent on her ex for paying her bills thats not i dependence.
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@Essjayd (1568)
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27 Sep 17
@ricki_911 If someone said that
to me they'd be out the door in 2 seconds
flat!! It really sounds like he's just using her
as a one night stand on repeat!!!
@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
27 Sep 17
@Essjayd sadly thats what it seems. She will make a fuss and he will buy he dinner. But in months of basically she claims dating he claims hes busy at work. I go noone is too busy after work, or even jist makibg plans or showing up when your at work with coffee. She claims shes independent and not desperate but i truely think she is.
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@Essjayd (1568)
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27 Sep 17
@ricki_911 I agree with you
she does sound like she's desperate
and trying to validate a rubbish relationship!
Lol sending you the pics is like saying
look how in love we are!!! Not sure if she's
trying to convince you or herself!!!
@infatuatedbby (95001)
• United States
27 Sep 17
I would feel uncomfortable being sent those photos and that is their own problem, not yours. Definitely she feels insecure.
@infatuatedbby (95001)
• United States
27 Sep 17
@ricki_911 Not negative but if she wants everyone to see post it on her wall NOT personally to you via instant messaged where you and her are the only ones who can view the photos.
@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
27 Sep 17
Exactly. Its not as if zhes posting them on her wall. She keeps sending pictures to ny messaging. With a message he likea cuddling as shes stickinf her to gue down his throat. I find its immature and nasty. But when i said something she goes your always so negative.
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@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
27 Sep 17
@infatuatedbby i dont understand her reasoning. I think shes just insecure and wants any attention. She is dependent and has 2 kids shes always trying to getbapproval. But i think since i told her how i view his behaviour shes just sticking in my face whichbis sad.
@Blondie2222 (28611)
• United States
27 Sep 17
Sounds like he is just using her and she's too blind to see it. She also sounds insecure also. I know some people that post pictures of them with their boyfriends alot and kissing etc it does get annoying. I know you appreciate your man but you don't have to post every day.
@Blondie2222 (28611)
• United States
28 Sep 17
@ricki_911 hmm one day she will know. I post pics of me and my boyfriend once every few months not every day. I just like updated pics of us together for memories if were doing something special
@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
27 Sep 17
Thats how i see it. If they do post those i te d to feel they are insecure and jealous. Its like i need to brag andnpost so everyone knows. I have other things than just a relationship. She tries to say she does but she is very dependent and deaperate
@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
27 Sep 17
No! Ive told her this. I ssid it seems like ypu need validation meaning your unhappy
