KNIGHTS IN SHINING ARMOR.

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@Kandae11 (53679)
October 16, 2017 3:19pm CST
Is chivalry dead? When was the last time a man did the following for you: (1) Open a car door for you (2) Pull out your chair in the restaurant and see you seated before seating himself. (3) No empty seat available on the bus or subway? a man gets up and offers you his. (4) You are having a hard time changing your car tire on the road and a man comes to your assistance - even though he is dressed in an expensive looking business suit. (5) you are waiting in a long line to purchase tickets or something else - a man closer to the front of the line beckons to you and gives up his space. (6) A stranger is very rude to you and your gallant companion calls him out, or engages him in battle (of words preferably) I could go on, but I am trying to avoid a lengthy post. Have you met a Knight in shining armor recently?
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@LadyDuck (458230)
• Switzerland
17 Oct 17
My husband opens the car door for me all the time. In the restaurant the waiter pull out the chair for me, my husband waits to sit until I am seated, he does the same at home. He is my knight in shining armor.
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@LadyDuck (458230)
• Switzerland
17 Oct 17
@Kandae11 Several European men are doing this, no more all unfortunately.
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@Kandae11 (53679)
17 Oct 17
Wonderful! That is very nice to see.
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
16 Oct 17
My fiance will definitely do No. 6. He will not stand for anybody disrespecting me. He does most of the above. We both allow people in line ahead of us at the grocery store if they only have a few items. I take the city transit bus quite often and I do see men get up and give a woman their seat. The other day I was putting air in my tire and a man came over to offer help. I thanked him but old him I had it.in do see men pulling the chair out for them women at restaurants.
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@Kandae11 (53679)
16 Oct 17
I have received those courtesies - but not all the time. Some men behave the complete opposite.
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
17 Oct 17
@Kandae11 yes they do, I have met more then a few of those not so good men.
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
16 Oct 17
Yes, but I don't have a horse! Aren't some of the things you mention unwanted in this day and age unless you are on a date or know the person?
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
16 Oct 17
@Kandae11 Could be! How about a second-hand bicycle?
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@Kandae11 (53679)
16 Oct 17
@1hopefulman If you ride it with authority and shoulders squared - then no problem.
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@Kandae11 (53679)
16 Oct 17
I don't know - things have changed, maybe I read too many novels about lords and ladies of old. if you don't have a horse - then a motorbike or a nice car will do.
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@Jackalyn (7559)
• Oxford, England
16 Oct 17
Yes. Sigh. Bring back the gentle men!
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@Kandae11 (53679)
16 Oct 17
They are still around - somewhere.
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@DianneN (246905)
• United States
19 Oct 17
My husband and sons are extremely chivalrous. My husband is my knight forever.
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@DianneN (246905)
• United States
19 Oct 17
@Kandae11 He even opens the car door for me at home! Lol! Who am I to argue?
@Kandae11 (53679)
19 Oct 17
I can tell that he is - and its great that both sons follow suit.
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@just4him (306381)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Oct 17
Do they exist? I haven't seen one in a very long time.
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@just4him (306381)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
18 Oct 17
@Kandae11 I know they are too. They're married. So off limits. It would be nice to find one that was single. I know, wishful thinking.
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@Kandae11 (53679)
18 Oct 17
@just4him You are so right - the good ones are already taken.
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@Kandae11 (53679)
17 Oct 17
Neither have I - but I know some are still around.
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@Tampa_girl7 (49009)
• United States
22 Oct 17
I married one
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@Kandae11 (53679)
23 Oct 17
Beautiful.
@bluesa (15023)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
18 Oct 17
No, I haven't, sadly, most modern men wouldn't know chivalry if it hit them over the head.
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@bluesa (15023)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
18 Oct 17
@Kandae11 (53679)
18 Oct 17
Sad indeed.
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
17 Oct 17
Nope; if anything, I've been the one to hold the door open @Kandae11 .
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
18 Oct 17
@Kandae11 I guess I missed my calling in wearing the outfit of the Knight in Shining Armour.
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@Kandae11 (53679)
17 Oct 17
Really!
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@HazySue (39264)
• Gouverneur, New York
17 Oct 17
I have a one of a kind husband. He opens the door pulls out my chair and so forth. Every now and then I spot a man being gentlemanly.
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@Kandae11 (53679)
17 Oct 17
Yes, we still have quite a few of them around.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
17 Oct 17
some men here are still knights; others too mind their own businesses.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
18 Oct 17
@Kandae11 some women still want to be respected by men. a seat in a transportation is a good example of chivalry.
@Kandae11 (53679)
17 Oct 17
Indeed - there will be those who act differently.
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@acelawrites (19273)
• Philippines
17 Oct 17
It would be nice to meet someone and it will make your day happy!
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@Kandae11 (53679)
17 Oct 17
Yes indeed - a nice gesture could help make one's day.
@magallon (19280)
• Philippines
17 Oct 17
Seeing a gentleman these days is very rare. That opening the door and offering of seats for women are slowly disappearing. Maybe because of this "Equality between Men and Women" which is becoming known to everybody or could also be because of the modern living that influences our people today.
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@magallon (19280)
• Philippines
23 Oct 17
@Kandae11 (53679)
17 Oct 17
It is slowly disappearing yes. - because of many influences - including those two you mentioned.
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• United States
19 Oct 17
My husband is the sweetest guy and most guys I know are the same. I think the whole 'womens lib' thing really did 0 favors for women and after awhile men got tired of the cold shoulder and the accusations that they are weak just because a man is simply being nice! Men back in the day were raised to be gentlemen. Women were raised to be ladies. Women's lib did give women some rights they didn't have back in the day but they pushed and pushed and pushed that men now? Well, they'll let her fall on her face because they are tired of being pushed around by women. Yep.. women.
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@Kandae11 (53679)
19 Oct 17
I couldn't have said it better - that is exactly the way it is.
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• Preston, England
17 Oct 17
I like to conider myelf Chivalrous though I wouldn't have a clue on changing a tyre - I do the other things
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@Kandae11 (53679)
17 Oct 17
As long as there is the willing spirit - you do what you can do.
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• United States
17 Oct 17
Actually a very nice gentleman held the door open for me recently.
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@Kandae11 (53679)
17 Oct 17
Yes, they are there still.
@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
17 Oct 17
It all starts at home I guess. ;)
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@Kandae11 (53679)
17 Oct 17
You are so right.
@JESSY3236 (18923)
• United States
17 Oct 17
I think Chris would calls out someone if they are rude to me, but he doesn't open the door, or pulls a seat out for me.
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@Kandae11 (53679)
17 Oct 17
It is good that he is protective of you. Believe it or not - some would look the other way.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
17 Oct 17
Yes a man stopped and asked if I need help fixing a flat, but I was done. Tony will not allow anyone to be rude or disrespect to me or my sister.
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@Kandae11 (53679)
17 Oct 17
I get a warm feeling when I encounter nice respectful people.
@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
17 Oct 17
Chivalry is now one of the endangered species of our planet. You are very lucky when one day you meet him in the train, in the car park, in the bus, and comes to help you change the tire. Very few now.
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@Kandae11 (53679)
17 Oct 17
It is very endangered and becoming moreso with every passing year.