For The Love Of Pete

Otis Orchards, Washington
October 17, 2017 9:36pm CST
Growing up I had heard the expression or saying or whatever you want to call it, “For the love of Pete.” The problem is, I have no idea who Pete is or was. There was no one in the family named, Pete. Ok, ok. I know it was just a saying, but why Pete? Why not George or Fred? Or someone else. Why not a woman like Mary or Jane? Or why not a generic like Grandpa. “For the love of Grandpa.” Yeah, that would work. I suppose Pete came from the saying, “For Pete’s sake.” But again, why Pete? So I did a bit of research and found the name “Pete” most likely came from Saint Peter. It was considered less blasphemous than saying, “For the love of God,” or “For God’s sake” (although I heard those as well when I was growing up). These things were said when something out of the ordinary happened or when one of us did something that we were not supposed to do. “For the love of Pete, why did you do that?” Or if the cows got out and behaved badly when trying to get them back in the corral. That might bring about a “For the love of Pete” or “For Pete’s sake.” But what did Pete have to do with it? It was the cows behaving badly, not Pete. I guess it was just something to say to keep from swearing.
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@cindiowens (5120)
• North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
18 Oct 17
I heard this a lot as well, along with others such as "Fiddle sticks!" and "Dag Nabbit!" lol
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• Otis Orchards, Washington
18 Oct 17
"Dag Nabbit" was the favorite of Hoss on Bananza. Fiddle stick I heard a lot of to.
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@much2say (53944)
• Los Angeles, California
18 Oct 17
Hmmm, I haven't heard this expression in years! For some reason I've always associated "Pete" with the dog on Little Rascals (the dog with the ring around one eye) . . . and often the kids would say "For Pete's sake . . ." about something - not necessarily about Petey though. You're probably right it has something to do with saying a phrase less blasphemous!
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@much2say (53944)
• Los Angeles, California
18 Oct 17
@RichardMeister How come there are no women's names in such phrases? Edit: Oh wait, there's "Heavens to Betsy" - or something like that.
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• Otis Orchards, Washington
19 Oct 17
@much2say Yes there is.
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• Otis Orchards, Washington
18 Oct 17
That's basically what the research says, for Pete's sake!
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@Lizirazo (2390)
• United States
18 Oct 17
I must say I wasn't familiar with that saying.
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• Otis Orchards, Washington
18 Oct 17
It may have been before your time.
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@Lizirazo (2390)
• United States
18 Oct 17
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