Okay, let's talk.....I mean, REALLY talk!
By Rachel
@crowbeak (10)
United States
October 23, 2017 5:15pm CST
When you're a young couple you look at other couples in restaurants who just sit there, not even talking to each other and you say to yourselves, 'Oh, that will never be me!'. And yet, here I am in this very situation, pretty much each and every time we (my husband and I) go out to eat. It's just the two of us, the kids are all grown, and so we do eat out a lot. What's the theory behind all this? I think it's HIM, because as an avid newshound, I always know what's going on in the world, and I'll fill your ear with my recap of events easily....
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@candycanedec (379)
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23 Oct 17
Maybe it's just he doesn't know where to start or he feels like there is just nothing to say. Let's face it men are never big talkers.
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@crowbeak (10)
• United States
23 Oct 17
I know there of only two topics that will start him off talking, both are his past life, and I find I can't listen patiently to the same old stuff any more; I fear I may roll my eyes or make a face of impatience....
@candycanedec (379)
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24 Oct 17
@crowbeak I can understand that. Perhaps you can detour the subject from there
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@parpande (1515)
• Bangalore, India
24 Oct 17
As the time passes this happens but can be overcame.I am also that victim while my wife does all the chatting and I feel bored.I found thebest way is asking questions on the conversations she holds, I need to throw a question n she does all the narrative aka explanation, so somehow I maintain myself to be in the conversations.
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@responsiveme (22926)
• India
24 Oct 17
He he join the crowd....It's a comfort zone thing too...We don't have to talk
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@Daljinder (23233)
• Bangalore, India
24 Oct 17
@responsiveme Yeah that's what I was gonna say. 
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@Friendlypink (3805)
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24 Oct 17
I am more of the quiet person. Or should i say boring to be with ha ha.
Cause sometimes there are alot of things going on mt mind that sometimes i just want to rest my brains. Lol
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@cahaya1983 (11120)
• Malaysia
1 Nov 17
Even more sad when couples aren't talking to each other but busy staring at their phones instead. 
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24 Oct 17
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@DesirousDreamer (34780)
• Peoria, Arizona
23 Oct 17
If you know the person isn't much of a person to start a conversation, then there isn't much to change about them. But a person can never blame the other fully. It takes 2 to tango, but only 1 to start a conversation.
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