I've Been Missing You! This Month I Am...
By Catherine
@bluesa (15023)
Johannesburg, South Africa
November 3, 2017 5:52am CST
I have, I have been missing some of you. I hope some of you have been missing me too? 
Because my time is so limited lately, I first catch up with those who have stopped by me. That is only fair. I want to stop by other discussions but I run out of time. I am not purposefully ignoring any one. Or keeping tabs, I am just short of time. 
and it worries me.
But, this month, I have decided, I am going to focus on those who focus on me. I am going to forget those who have forgotten me. I am going to stop making an extra effort to contact those, who don't make an extra effort to contact me.
I am going to try to laugh more and stress less. It is the second last month of the year and I need to accept that some things will not get done and I am only human and I have to take care of me too.
What will you be doing this month? I hope it will be a kind month for you all.
Photo is mine.
Because my time is so limited lately, I first catch up with those who have stopped by me. That is only fair. I want to stop by other discussions but I run out of time. I am not purposefully ignoring any one. Or keeping tabs, I am just short of time. and it worries me.
But, this month, I have decided, I am going to focus on those who focus on me. I am going to forget those who have forgotten me. I am going to stop making an extra effort to contact those, who don't make an extra effort to contact me.
I am going to try to laugh more and stress less. It is the second last month of the year and I need to accept that some things will not get done and I am only human and I have to take care of me too.
What will you be doing this month? I hope it will be a kind month for you all.
Photo is mine.15 people like this
13 responses
@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
3 Nov 17
This month I will be on another business trip again. Don't usually have mylot goals except for being here at least every single day but I can't really keep that promise because of my hectic schedule. But I do try my best.
Let me add you a a friend so I won't ever forget you at all, but don't feel bad when you don't see me often as I can really be busy but rest assure, I never forget my friends at all.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
4 Nov 17
@bluesa It will be on the 17th of the month. And it's just going to be for three days. So I'll try to be around every single day when I can before that.
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@bluesa (15023)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
4 Nov 17
@toniganzon that's awesome 
. I am also going to try to be around more this month, but without stressing about it. :)
. I am also going to try to be around more this month, but without stressing about it. :)1 person likes this
@JESSY3236 (18923)
• United States
3 Nov 17
@LadyDuck I agree. I think when get older in age, time seems go back more quickly. I know when I was a kid, years would take forever.
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@bluesa (15023)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
3 Nov 17
Yes, like I missed you those few days you were so busy. Luckily we all are here for each other when we have time. I also though was talking about my daily life and that I have to change some things.
I don't know how this year sped by so.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
3 Nov 17
i so like your bouquet of flowers. i like its color arrangements. surely you planted those in your garden, right? i cannot grow a plant or even hold a rose- it immediately withers. 
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
4 Nov 17
@bluesa really? hahaha! oh so, we are similar in that aspect.
when the father of my son courted me in Kuwait, he often gave me flowers like a bouquet of roses. when i put the flowers in a vase, on the next day, the flowers already wither. indeed, i cannot tend or grow a plant.
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@m_audrey6788 (58485)
• Germany
3 Nov 17
Oh yes I miss you and I hope you`ll be missing me too next year 
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@bluesa (15023)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
3 Nov 17
@m_audrey6788 oh, that is good, I hope you will enjoy your studies. And you will be missed
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@bluesa (15023)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
3 Nov 17
Thank you @m_audrey6788 . Where will you be next year?
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
3 Nov 17
Pretty photo! Yes, sometime we haver to reevaluate how we use our time and how we will use what time we have. Have fun!
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@cahaya1983 (11121)
• Malaysia
4 Nov 17
Welcome back. Hope November will be a prosperous month for you too. I hope I'll be more productive this month.
Hope November will be a prosperous month for you too. I hope I'll be more productive this month.1 person likes this
@moffittjc (118442)
• Gainesville, Florida
5 Nov 17
You know what I will be doing this month? I will be trying to find more time to be on myLot so that I can spend more time keeping in touch with you! And if not here, then I'll also try to reach out to you more on Facebook (although I am hardly ever on Facebook)!
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@bluesa (15023)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
6 Nov 17
Lol! Hi there you! You will? Hmmm...a hi on messenger now and then from you would be nice...I don't really stop by Facebook itself at all anymore...I just send a quick hi to people on messenger, I don't even have to login to Facebook, and then move on with my day! I hope everything is going well with you!
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@bluesa (15023)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
7 Nov 17
@moffittjc that would be so awesome, really it would!
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@moffittjc (118442)
• Gainesville, Florida
7 Nov 17
@bluesa Maybe I'll surprise you with a quick hello on Messenger one of these days when you least expect it!
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@dgobucks226 (34369)
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10 Nov 17
Only so many hours in a day! An a wise old saying goes like this "if you can't please everyone, you've got to please yourself." Part of a song by Ricky Nelson called Garden Party. So true
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