Do you check on all your comments and the responses you get

@kiran8 (15241)
Mangalore, India
December 5, 2017 9:35pm CST
Earlier , I never used to bother with either my comments or the responses I got when I took part in other people's discussions . But now I am making it a point to check through them and after a week if there is no acknowledgement from the member I delete my comment ... There are of course some members who may simply like my comment but also respond to one of my discussions which is fine. But there are some who never respond to my comments on either their discussions nor participate in one of my discussions , I am talking about such members, both old and new ... From my side I have never ever let any comment directed at me go unanswered so feel it is only fair that others do the same , since that is the only way we earn here
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• Philippines
6 Dec
Unless it's a question though @kiran8 or sometimes I just don't know what to comment after wards. Specially if it's within deeper in the notifcation.
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@kiran8 (15241)
• Mangalore, India
6 Dec
Interaction goes beyond one discussion or one response ...it is more to do with members who never respond back ever.
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@dpk262006 (54764)
• Delhi, India
6 Dec
Many do not respond to my comments/responses, however, I do not delete my responses/comments. I leave it to them. I think it will be a bit cumbersome to delete my own responses and it will take some time to delete. That time could be utilized elsewhere.
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@kiran8 (15241)
• Mangalore, India
6 Dec
Yes I agree that many do not respond back even when you respond to many if their discussions..
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@dpk262006 (54764)
• Delhi, India
6 Dec
@kiran8 Therefore, now I try to be brief while responding.
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@kiran8 (15241)
• Mangalore, India
6 Dec
@dpk262006 You cannot always do that especially when you have something to add on the topic. But when you do that with enthusiasm and just get a like and no response , you begin to wonder..
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@prashu228 (22895)
• India
6 Dec
I mostly go through recent discussions . I respond to each and every which I can. But most of them doesn't come back to my discussions. And Frankly speaking i don't have time to see who responded to me and if i do that i can respond to only some five or seven or maximum ten people. As i get only that number responses. Sometimes I respond to more than fifty discussions but still i can't get those many responses to my discussion...so I left it..you scratch my back and i scratch yours works only to some extent..so i left it ... Now i am just responding....
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@kiran8 (15241)
• Mangalore, India
6 Dec
I know that you respond when I leave a comment , I may not be able to sustain this for long but wanted to get different view points ...you scratch I scratch does not really help a discussion because you may have nothing to add but do so simply to show that you have responded
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@josie_ (5115)
• Philippines
6 Dec
So far I'm good with the interaction I get from my comments. I can't recall not getting a response even if it was only a "like". It is also possible your comments didn't register in the person's notification.
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@kiran8 (15241)
• Mangalore, India
6 Dec
I seriously doubt that they did not receive the notifications every time ...
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@andriaperry (33186)
• Anniston, Alabama
6 Dec
I try my best
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@kiran8 (15241)
• Mangalore, India
6 Dec
I know you do
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@sishy7 (27324)
• Australia
6 Dec
Many of my responses and comments on discussions started by others seemingly go unnoticed but I never bother to delete them. Besides, even if I delete them, it won't effect whatever fraction of pennies already earned by the OP.
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@kiran8 (15241)
• Mangalore, India
6 Dec
I agree , it is just a wake up call to make them realise...which they may not even realise , I too respond much more than receive , so far made more than 9000 comments but received just 4000 odd responses.
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@sishy7 (27324)
• Australia
6 Dec
@kiran8 I wonder how many will notice that you delete them, especially if they did not even bother to notice them a week earlier when they were first posted...
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@kiran8 (15241)
• Mangalore, India
6 Dec
@sishy7 True , I agree ...
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6 Dec
I try my best to respond to comments/responses I receive as well as respond to other people's discussion too. I do look forward of course to receiving responses from my comments but I don't expect because if I do, I'll just get disappointed and there will always be those who don't reply, so I just let them be and do my own thing. There are still a lot of myLotters out there who are very interactive and responsive than those handfuls who are not.
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@kiran8 (15241)
• Mangalore, India
7 Dec
@pitsipeahie I agree that many of them are interactive and respond to your comments ...in a discussion site we have to respond and also add some views of our own to take discussion forward..
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@rina110383 (23062)
6 Dec
Just comments because I don't post discussions, which is time-saving for me since I find it easier to clear my notifications.
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@kiran8 (15241)
• Mangalore, India
6 Dec
Normally I too prefer commenting on other members discussions rather than start too many discussions of my own
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@LadyDuck (122031)
• Switzerland
6 Dec
I always check, interaction is the best of this site, so I want to be sure to reply to all those who comment on my discussions or reply to my comments.
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@kiran8 (15241)
• Mangalore, India
6 Dec
Absolutely , you always do , that I know and that's when discussions become meaningful and interesting. If there is no reciprocation you tend to avoid the member after a while..
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@LadyDuck (122031)
• Switzerland
6 Dec
@kiran8 I agree, there are some users who never reply back, I think it's also a lack of manners. Imagine talking to someone in real life and they turn the heads and go away. I am making a list of those who never reply, they are a waste of time.
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@kiran8 (15241)
• Mangalore, India
7 Dec
@LadyDuck Exactly my point ...there was a very active member who is not seen much now , who would occasionally like my comments but most of the time ignore them , whereas I could see that he was responding to others . I never bothered with the said member after it happened 3-4 times which cannot be a mistake.
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@RodrickH (1104)
• China
6 Dec
Yes
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@kiran8 (15241)
• Mangalore, India
6 Dec
Can you please elaborate on that ?
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@RodrickH (1104)
• China
6 Dec
@kiran8 I check my notifications and respond to all
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@kiran8 (15241)
• Mangalore, India
6 Dec
@RodrickH that's really nice , you will get more responses too ...
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• Philippines
8 Dec
Yes
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• Philippines
8 Dec
I comment as i can
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@kiran8 (15241)
• Mangalore, India
11 Dec
@Strawberry18 That's good
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@Shavkat (46947)
• Philippines
6 Dec
I do religiously do it, my friend. The notifications will be done early in the morning and respond to some discussions in the afternoon. Depending if the time permits, I can do both.
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@kiran8 (15241)
• Mangalore, India
7 Dec
@Shavkat Nice to hear that , it is such a pleasure to interact with some members
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@Shavkat (46947)
• Philippines
7 Dec
@kiran8 Indeed, my friend.
• United States
6 Dec
Maybe, because I'm new, I get overwhelmed with it all sometimes. I try to answer everyone, but sometimes I just am busy visiting their discussions, I can't do it.
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@kiran8 (15241)
• Mangalore, India
6 Dec
Understandable ...what I am saying is that there should be mutual interaction and reciprocation at some level. It is not fair yo expect members to respond all the time but it is also not right they never respond to any of your comments. I know of members who don't always respond to my comments but do from time to time participate in my discussion or respond to my comments on others discussion s. What I feel is that members should acknowledge when others make a valid comment.
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• United States
6 Dec
@kiran8 I agree with you.
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• Philippines
6 Dec
Yes, I always do. I'll see to it to make response as much as I can.
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@kiran8 (15241)
• Mangalore, India
6 Dec
That's nice because in a discussion site we need to respond and comment or else what's the point?
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• Philippines
6 Dec
@kiran8 that's right
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@Frenzys9 (115)
• United States
7 Dec
I try to. I think it’s so good to put yourself out there into the mylot community!!
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@kiran8 (15241)
• Mangalore, India
11 Dec
@Frenzys9 3Exactly , since this is a discussion site we need to interact ..
@sjvg1976 (14624)
• Delhi, India
7 Dec
I try to do but sometimes due to lack of time some of the responses on my posts go unacknowledged or get delayed to comment back on the responses.
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@kiran8 (15241)
• Mangalore, India
7 Dec
@sjvg2976 We all do that from time to time, that's why I normally go through all my activities during weekends when I have more time to do so ...
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@allknowing (55773)
• India
7 Dec
Yes. Every single one. That is what myLot is all about
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@kiran8 (15241)
• Mangalore, India
7 Dec
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@Kandae11 (27042)
6 Dec
I do, but I might miss a few.
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@kiran8 (15241)
• Mangalore, India
7 Dec
@Kandase That could always happen with any of us but as long as we are interactive it is fine
@sol_cee (13598)
• Japan
6 Dec
That’s too taxing for me to go through old comments. I’d do that to kill time but I’m hardly ever here.
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@kiran8 (15241)
• Mangalore, India
6 Dec
Not old comments , not possible to do that ... But when certain members keep on liking your comments without responding , I delete my response which I normally work on...
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@lady1993 (15637)
• Philippines
6 Dec
I check all of my notifications every day. When i can respond to a comment directed at me, or in my discussions, i reply.. but if i do not know what to say.. i just leave it be. I like some comments or discussions that are helpful
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@kiran8 (15241)
• Mangalore, India
6 Dec
Yes I too do that but there have been times when I have missed responding to a comment , so I go through my discussion s during the weekend to make sure ...
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