Embarrassing Moments (3) --- Saved by a Busdriver

double parking in Italy
@MALUSE (69413)
Germany
December 15, 2017 11:26am CST
My husband, then boyfriend, studied in Florence, Italy. One year when I visited him, he told me that he had to take something to the office in the university. He tried to park the car near the entrance but couldn’t find space. So he did what Italians do in such a case, he double parked, i.e., in the second row like some other drivers had already done. He would only be away ‘for two minutes’, but just in case he left me the key. In case of what? Now you must know that I don’t drive and that we had a German number plate then. Two minutes? I don’t remember for how long I waited, but long enough for all cars which had also been standing in the second row to move away and also for the ones in the first line, meaning that our car was the only one standing all alone nearly in the middle of the street. And then a bus came and couldn’t pass! I was sitting helplessly in the passenger seat. The bus driver waved at me to drive away. I got out and told him that I would like to oblige but unfortunately couldn’t drive but I had the key. Of course, all passengers looked at me. Can you imagine how I felt? Gosh, I was embarrassed but I needn’t have been because this incident happened in Italy. The bus driver climbed out, got into our car, parked it perfectly at the side of the street, got back into his bus and drove off, waving a friendly good-bye and none of the passengers looked furious because of the delay! In Germany, there would have been shouting, calling of names, especially if a foreigner had committed the crime. The police would have come, the car towed away and we would have got a fine for obstructing the traffic. Praised be the Italian mentality! --- If you want to read about more embarrassing moments, click on the green line above the title of the post. --- Photo: flickr, Graeme Churchard
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23 responses
@topffer (42156)
• France
15 Dec 17
My guess is that the bus driver would have been less kind if you had not been a young blonde woman.
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@topffer (42156)
• France
15 Dec 17
@MALUSE I am sure that in many Latin countries, including mine, it makes a difference. The other option is to be a 1.85 m/120 kg professional rugby player. I tested it with my brother in a similar situation. When people started to honk behind the car, he got out of the car and said loudly "Something wrong ?" and the silence came back immediately.
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
15 Dec 17
@MALUSE I've just remembered something. Everybody knows that Italians love blowing the horn. Yet, once (also in Florence) I watched a bus moving slowly behind a young (!) woman walking in the middle of the street with swaying hips. She was oblivious to the traffic behind her or was she? The bus driver could have honked but watching her sashaying along was more to his liking. The passengers didn't complain.
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
15 Dec 17
That's an interesting theory. Pity that I don't travel to Italy anymore (my husband lives with me now). I could test it because I'm old now and my 'blondness' is more artificial than genuine.
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
16 Dec 17
That is my experience too with Italians , the last time we were in Rome , we lost our way and asked a shop keeper to guide us and he looked around ,found someone who could speak English and sent him with us all the way to the guest house where we were staying...I have very beautiful memories of our visit to Italy.
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
16 Dec 17
These are things one doesn't forget, aren't they?
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@shaggin (71666)
• United States
15 Dec 17
While this was embarassing for you it is a wonderful story! It shows us to not judge others and always be friendly and helpful when we can!
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
17 Dec 17
Funny, but that's exactly what I would have done. Maybe I have Italian blood in me?
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
17 Dec 17
@MALUSE Well...let's see now...both my parents were Italian...all my grandparents were Italian...we were all born in Italy...could I be Italian? It's possible.
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
17 Dec 17
@1hopefulman I remember, Signor Felice, that your family emigrated from Italy to Canada. :-) Can you still speak correct Italian?
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
17 Dec 17
Who knows? Maybe you should begin to study genealogy?
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@Madshadi (8849)
• Brussels, Belgium
15 Dec 17
People have short temper. It annoys me when they can’t excuse others in such moments. I’m glad that people in the bus were not mean to you. Were you mad at your husband for leaving you that long? My wife would kill me lol
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
15 Dec 17
Well, I wasn't any too pleased. :-)
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@marlina (154166)
• Canada
17 Dec 17
Certainly happy for you that things turned out good. What a nice bus driver.
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@OreoBrownie (3755)
• Commerce, Georgia
16 Dec 17
I think that is illegal here. Double parking blocks in the other driver when he or she tries to get in the car and drive away. It's also a very rude thing to do. I'd he was in your place he would have thought differently.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
18 Dec 17
lol I am suspecting that Topffer is correct that it was your blond goodlooks that saved you from abuse!!
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
18 Dec 17
I would only know if the same traffic situation happened to me now that I'm old ! :-)
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@sabtraversa (12941)
• Italy
15 Dec 17
Two minutes, yes, we happen to have a different perception of time. Thankfully your boyfriend at the time left you the key, otherwise there could have been a German-like situation. Streets tend to be narrow and cars like to be parked where they shouldn't be parked, so that's a common event and bus drivers probably learned that cussing doesn't solve anything.
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
15 Dec 17
You're the one member who can understand such a situation!
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@garymarsh6 (23393)
• United Kingdom
26 Dec 17
That is why I love Italy so much!
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
26 Dec 17
How would British bus drivers react?
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@garymarsh6 (23393)
• United Kingdom
26 Dec 17
@MALUSE They would probably shout and swear at you even though it was not your fault. It is certainly frowned upon to double park and with the ever increasing red lines painted on the road you would be fined and had your car towed away!
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@Fleura (29128)
• United Kingdom
8 Jan 18
That's certainly the most pragmatic response! I wonder what the driver would have done if all the other double-parked cars had still been there - would he just have waited for all those drivers to come back? Or did those drivers know the bus timetable and know they had to get out of the way in time?
@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
8 Jan 18
I think the bus would have been able to pass if it had used the pavement, too. But the bus driver saw our car as an obstruction and absurdity (standing alone in the middle of the street) and wanted it out of the way. At least that's what I think. Btw, thanks for making me stinking rich with your reads and comments. :-)
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@Fleura (29128)
• United Kingdom
8 Jan 18
@MALUSE You're welcome, as you can probably guess I should really be working!
@PainsOnSlate (21854)
• Canada
16 Dec 17
That gave me goosebumps, I can imagine your embarrassment, but what a nice bus driver to get you and the car out of the way...
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@Poppylicious (11133)
15 Dec 17
Ah, this explains the driving behaviour and attitude of my Beautiful Italian Friend!
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
15 Dec 17
Oh, I could tell you much more about driving in Italy! The incident happened in Florence, a civilised city in the North of Italy. Go to Naples and you'll be in a different world. Where is your friend from?
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@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
15 Dec 17
I presumed that gave you idea to learn driving. Do you know how to drive a car now?
@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
15 Dec 17
That makes sense. But no. I don't drive. I've never wanted to learn it.
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@cherriefic (10400)
• Philippines
16 Dec 17
Good thing they are not like in most countries.
@jstory07 (134465)
• Roseburg, Oregon
18 Dec 17
At least he moved the car and it all worked out.
@valmnz (17099)
• New Zealand
16 Dec 17
Wow, I think the response here in New Zealand would have been more like what you describe in Germany. You must have been relieved it worked out the way it did.
@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
15 Dec 17
What a great guy that bus driver was @MALUSE . I'm assuming that when the boyfriend came back out there was a discussion about "Two Minutes!!!!!!"
@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
16 Dec 17
Excellent country.
@Kandae11 (53679)
16 Dec 17
Wow! - good thing that did not happen in Germany. I know "two minutes" can sometimes mean 15 minutes at least.