I am not leaving

@carebear29 (31961)
Wausau, Wisconsin
December 17, 2017 4:24pm CST
After talking to a friend on here I will not be leaving MyLot. I would be missed too much I guess lol. But I should watch what I post for now and go from there. 2018 when we move on the 1st of January will be a fresh start anyways. Lots of things will be changing and I will be doing so slowly. I just have a lot going on and need to focus on one thing at a time. My financial situation has gotten better and I have been saving money to keep on bills and credit cards just in case. I have a lot on my plate and keeping up in MyLot and sales has been a little difficult but I know I just have to balance my schedule better. Sorry for venting in my last post and being so "rude" as some of you call it but I am glad to put it in the past now. Thanks.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
17 Dec 17
I want you to know how I feel and why I think people say the things they do to you, I have been reading your discussions for a long time. 1. you and your husband do not seem as one, meaning when people get married they have each others back, no matter what. You often say " oh well, that is up to him to fix not me." making it seem you do not care about your husband. 2. The food pantry. in the past I have had to visit the food pantry, nothing wrong with that. But what people notice is when you show your new hat your bought for $15 at the gas station that is is a "want" and not a "need" like food. 3. The question often comes up, why don`t you have a job? I mean as a cashier at McDonald`s or even a waitress making tips daily? The thoughts come that you do get an SSI maybe. 4. Most people feel that having any type of a cell phone is a luxury, something you can live without. But having a place to live and food for you child is something you need and should come first. While you say its not anyone`s business, and that is true, you are telling everyone your business. So with all that said may I suggest something new? Tell us about the funny things your child does. What type of food do you cook? How is the weather where you live? Niki there is so much more to talk about in life than about finances. You are more than just money, you are a woman with a family.
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@carebear29 (31961)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
17 Dec 17
thank you. i am going to work on my posts better. new year coming anyways
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@carebear29 (31961)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
17 Dec 17
@yukimori youre welcome
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@yukimori (10144)
• United States
17 Dec 17
That's a really insightful post. Thanks for taking the time to share your thoughts here.
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@Courtlynn (66921)
• United States
17 Dec 17
Wish you luck here form here on out.
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@carebear29 (31961)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
17 Dec 17
thank you
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@Tina30219 (81538)
• Onaway, Michigan
18 Dec 17
Glad you are sticking around you would be missed.
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@Tina30219 (81538)
• Onaway, Michigan
19 Dec 17
@carebear29 That’s right
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@carebear29 (31961)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
18 Dec 17
thanks i know i would be missed
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@sishy7 (27169)
• Australia
18 Dec 17
Happy to hear this from you. Sounds to me you have the right attitude in going about this... Good luck to a fresh start!
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@carebear29 (31961)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
18 Dec 17
thanks i do try
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@Srbageldog (7716)
• United States
18 Dec 17
Glad you are staying. Don't let others silence you because they don't agree with your life choices!
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@carebear29 (31961)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
18 Dec 17
thanks.
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@rina110383 (24495)
18 Dec 17
I'm glad you'll be staying here Nikki.
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@carebear29 (31961)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
18 Dec 17
thank you
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@averygirl72 (37726)
• Philippines
17 Dec 17
I hope you can move on now and have a great start this 2018
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@carebear29 (31961)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
17 Dec 17
i will be able to.
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@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
20 Dec 17
I must of missed something
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@carebear29 (31961)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
20 Dec 17
read my post BOTHERED
@sallypup (57897)
• Centralia, Washington
20 Dec 17
What? Did I do it? Feel free to tell me to quit.
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@carebear29 (31961)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
20 Dec 17
no you didnt.
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@db20747 (43427)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
17 Dec 17
Welcome back. Glad your fiances are better.
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@carebear29 (31961)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
17 Dec 17
yes thanks
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@Hannihar (129482)
• Israel
2 Jan 18
nikki, you are sharing about your life and I do not mind. We have to get things off our chests. So, how did the move go nikki?
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@carebear29 (31961)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
3 Jan 18
still waiting on the keys
@carebear29 (31961)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
4 Jan 18
@Hannihar yeah and hopefully we get them soon
@Hannihar (129482)
• Israel
4 Jan 18
@carebear29 You mean the keys to the new place? That is not good.
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