If you saw your friend's boyfriend/girlfriend cheating would you tell her/him?

Portugal
December 21, 2017 3:48pm CST
Hi everyone If you saw your friend's boyfriend cheating would you tell your friend about it? I would tell her for sure but I would ask her to follow him and see it with her own eyes because she could feel divided between believing in me or him. What about you guys? Please share
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@sharon6345 (137993)
• United States
21 Dec
I would sure not tell her in person. I would write a letter and mail it. I would not want to see that pain.
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• Lucknow, India
22 Dec
Dont you think letter or mail will hurt more
• Portugal
23 Dec
I understand you wouldnt want to see her/his pain
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• Philippines
22 Dec
Merry Christmas @sweetloveforeve I'd probably secretly video record them and shared it with my friend and let her be the judge of it. Word of mouth, just don't work anymore. That camera spy glass would come in handy.
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• Portugal
23 Dec
Yes that would be a good idea to record it merry christmas
21 Dec
Good thing for camera phones!! I will DEFINITELY tell. Because if she/he ever finds out i knew. Goodbye to our friendship.
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• Lucknow, India
22 Dec
So damn true... Plus as a frnd u hv to protect her/him
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• Portugal
23 Dec
Yes the best is to tell our friend
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• Portugal
23 Dec
@Rationalwriter yes we always have to protect our friends
• Lucknow, India
22 Dec
Look... If you care about your friend, you will have to tell him or her because if you know that ur friend is headed for misery down the road, why not avoid it.. and yes your friend will believe you at first and u hv to let ur friend witness it.. painful ... But in the longer run it is what will benefit your friend
• Portugal
23 Dec
Yes i would definitely tell her/him the truth
• Okotoks, Alberta
21 Dec
HMmm. .. I'm on the fence with this question... I'm thinking no I wouldn't to not get involved. But at the same time it would be hard to mention something behind closed doors
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• Portugal
23 Dec
I understand you didnt want to get involved but poor your friend that she/he would be cheated probably her/his entire life and no one deserves that
@BraveFart (384)
• Zimbabwe
21 Dec
It’s better not to get involved.
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• Portugal
23 Dec
I respect your opinion even though i would tell definetely
@Shivram59 (5295)
• India
25 Dec
@sweetloveforeve Yes,I would ,because I don't want my friend to be cheated.
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• Portugal
26 Dec
Yes sure you would do the right thing
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@Shivram59 (5295)
• India
27 Dec
@sweetloveforeve Exactly.A true friend never likes their friend to be cheated.It's my duty to protect my friend from cheaters.
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• Portugal
27 Dec
@Shivram59 yes that is true
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@Shavkat (65270)
• Philippines
22 Dec
I will definitely confront my partner about it. It is not acceptable act for me.
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• Portugal
23 Dec
Yes sure it isnt
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@Shavkat (65270)
• Philippines
24 Dec
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• Portugal
24 Dec
@Shavkat merry christmas
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@Surock786 (165)
22 Dec
same things happen with guys also
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• Portugal
23 Dec
Yes sure and i would tell him if i saw his girlfriend cheating on him
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24 Dec
@sweetloveforeve let him do whatever thay want to do if our friends boyfriend /girlfriend. Cheating her / his than one time we can aware him. But forcefully we cannot say I m right you have to trust on me.
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• Portugal
24 Dec
@Surock786 yes i just think that as friends we should tell but sure the person decides if believes in it or not but at least we did the right thing
@db20747 (9375)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
22 Dec
Yeah, she deserves to know especially if she's been talking' about what a great guy he is.
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• Portugal
23 Dec
Yes thats exactly what i think i know a guy who flirted with me and for him we would get involved but because he had a girlfriend i never wanted to do that and i saw in comments that the sister of his girlfriend thinks he is a prince charming and is the right guy for her sister. Sadly she doesnt really know who he is in reality
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@db20747 (9375)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
23 Dec
@sweetloveforeve That's a shame. Someone needs to tell her. And soon!
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• Portugal
24 Dec
@db20747 yes sure i will tell her everything
@kepweng (18547)
• Waikoloa, Hawaii
22 Dec
NO beacuse its Personal?
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• Portugal
23 Dec
As a friend i wouldnt want my friend to be cheated on and if i found out that her/his partner was cheating i would tell the truth
@maezee (33288)
• United States
21 Dec
I think I would have to tell them.
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• Portugal
23 Dec
Yes for sure i am glad you also think that way that shows how a good friend you are