Someone Whose Posts You Regularly Visit And Respond To,But They Are Indifferent

@Shivram59 (31790)
India
January 7, 2018 2:04pm CST
I have a friend here whose posts I regularly visit and respond to them.I like the way they express themselves. But they never visit my posts. What about you? Is here someone whose posts you regularly visit and respond to,but who never visits and responds to your psets?
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@carebear29 (31961)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
8 Jan 18
Interaction is what counts
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• United States
8 Jan 18
I agree with you on this
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@Shivram59 (31790)
• India
8 Jan 18
I agree with you.
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@rebelann (111195)
• El Paso, Texas
7 Jan 18
I love conversations and it does not matter whose post it is on as long as my response is not ignored, if it is I will not respond to them anymore.
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@Shivram59 (31790)
• India
7 Jan 18
@rebelann I also do just that.I respond to the user's post and they comment back on my responses,but they never respond to my posts.
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@rebelann (111195)
• El Paso, Texas
8 Jan 18
I think that's what you wrote in your discussion @Shivram59 but just because you responded to someones post does not mean they should respond to yours, the objective here is to have conversations. If you write a discussion and no one responds at all then the effort was futile, but if you respond of comment on other members posts and they respond to you then you can start a conversation. Does that make sense?
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@Shivram59 (31790)
• India
8 Jan 18
@rebelann Yes,they may or may not visit my posts,it's only their choice.If they don't visit my posts,let them do so.I have no grudges.After all they comment back on my responses to their posts and I'm happy.I only intended to share my experience with you all.
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@much2say (53958)
• Los Angeles, California
7 Jan 18
There are folks like that - but I'm ok with it for the most part - as long as we are "talking" anyway. If there is absolutely no word coming from them (not even on their own post), then I assume they are not interested at all in what I have to say - and that's the end of that.
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@much2say (53958)
• Los Angeles, California
8 Jan 18
@Shivram59 I can think of a couple people like who don't come to my posts - but I'll keep going . . . and I'll still visit their posts.
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@Shivram59 (31790)
• India
7 Jan 18
@much2say In my case,the user comments back on my responses,but never visits my posts.Since they regularly comment back on my responses,I can't say they are not interested or are ignoring,but they never respond to my posts.
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@Shivram59 (31790)
• India
9 Jan 18
@much2say I'll also continue visiting their discussions.
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@tammys85 (29952)
• Baltimore, Maryland
13 Jan 18
I try to get to people, but I fall behind a lot because of things I do outside of MyLot, so I understand when people can't get to my posts.
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@tammys85 (29952)
• Baltimore, Maryland
16 Jan 18
@Shivram59 Yep. I try to be on here myself, but sometimes life happens. I do feel bad when I can't get to everyone's posts though.
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@Shivram59 (31790)
• India
16 Jan 18
@tammys85 And our work is our priority.
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@Shivram59 (31790)
• India
14 Jan 18
tummys85 I understand.People have to a lot of works and they sometimes don't have time to visit posts here.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Jan 18
If I'm interested in a discussion I will respond to it. If not I don't. I want to keep enjoying my time here =)
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• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Jan 18
@Shivram59 My happiness doesn't come from what others do.
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@Shivram59 (31790)
• India
8 Jan 18
@LovingMyBabies Same is the case with me.I visit and respond to their posts regularly and will continue to do so.
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@Shivram59 (31790)
• India
7 Jan 18
@LovingMyBabies That's exactly what I'll do.That's why I respond to posts by someone who cares two hoots to respond to mine.
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@gaianoor (1117)
• Tirana, Albania
7 Jan 18
What i like here is that i can express myself easily. After i post, i check my notifications and after that I go on recent so i can interact with people who are online and respond. Now that i think i never got to check directly on those who follow me. Going there now.
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@Shivram59 (31790)
• India
7 Jan 18
@gaianoor The user I have mentioned to in my post does not follow me,nor do I follow them,but I like their posts.That's why I respond to them.They express themselves very impressively and I like it.But they never visit my posts.
@Shivram59 (31790)
• India
8 Jan 18
@gaianoor I try to respond to their posts as impressively as possible,but in vain.Still I'm trying.
@gaianoor (1117)
• Tirana, Albania
8 Jan 18
@Shivram59 try to write something that he has to give you an answer. I tried with some people here and worked.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
8 Jan 18
I don't consider members I follow here as really my 'friend' unless we have a good interaction or we interact outside the mylot world. There are people here I always interact with in their own discussion but never see them in mine but that doesn't matter to me at all. I don't put up my own discussion on a regular basis anyway and it's their choice whether to interact with me or not. It's possible they couldn't relate to what I have written. So I understand.
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
8 Jan 18
There are people like that you mentioned , in my knowledge also. I usually stop responding on their posts. Hope they will understand why I stopped it.
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@Shivram59 (31790)
• India
8 Jan 18
@sjvg1976 I don't bother.I visit their posts and respond to them and they comment back on my responses.I visit their posts,because I love the way they express themselves.I would be happy if they respond to my posts,but if they never visit my posts,it's their choice.
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@Metsrock69 (3492)
• United States
8 Jan 18
I know what you are saying. I know I don't post alot on here so I am definitely guilty of not replying or posting on a lot of my followers posts. I am going to try and be more active as I enjoy posting and commenting .
@rina110383 (24495)
8 Jan 18
I don't post discussions here. I just respond to discussions when I have time. I don't mind if they don't comment back.
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@Shivram59 (31790)
• India
8 Jan 18
@rina110383 The user I have mentioned to in my post comments back on my responses to their posts,but when I start a discussion,they never visit it.
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