NO ESCAPE!

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@Kandae11 (28959)
January 13, 2018 10:15am CST
As we go through life we must be in touch with a variety of people and personalities - the good, the bad and the ugly. We meet them at work, play , business dealings, church, and even online - there is no escape. Our hope is that we cross paths more with the productive than the destructive. Online I am not part of any facebook group, I am not on twitter or other social sites - Mylot is my only site, the site where I come to relax, discuss have fun and earn - but even here there can be no total escape. Sometimes you see a post by a member and you can't help but wonder - what was he or she thinking? how can someone actually think like that? Most times I would ignore and move on , because we are free to voice our opinions - within the guidelines of course, but other times it is difficult to ignore. What do you do when you see a post or a comment that truly leaves you amazed - do you ignore it or attempt to sway that person's way of thinking ?
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@LadyDuck (125798)
• Switzerland
13 Jan
I read things that would require a "non politically correct response". I prefer not to comment and to on. How much would I like to type my honest opinion sometimes.
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@Kandae11 (28959)
13 Jan
I know what you mean. sometimes great restraint must be employed.
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@CoralLevang (16087)
• United States
13 Jan
Honest, ethical and moral opinions only serve to get you blocked! People cannot handle honesty, and most people do not know how to agree to disagree. Sometimes, this is even true with Highly Educated, so-called smart people.
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@LadyDuck (125798)
• Switzerland
13 Jan
@CoralLevang You are so right Coral. You cannot say the truth and be popular. The best we can do is to say nothing when we have nothing nice to say.
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@TRBRocks420 (64187)
• Banks, Oregon
13 Jan
I say what ever I think is right.
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@Kandae11 (28959)
13 Jan
Good for you.
@allknowing (56639)
• India
13 Jan
As you have rightly said we have the freedom to pick and choose and that is what I do.
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@Icydoll (1687)
• India
13 Jan
I just ignore it..never responded for such posts.one can't impress everyone with post .but some should be aware of what they are posting.i never look posts with politics and..some ...I don't wanna say that too.even though they put rules some crossing it
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@Kandae11 (28959)
13 Jan
I suppose that's best.
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@Icydoll (1687)
• India
13 Jan
@Kandae11 yeah ignore is best..have good time friend :)
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@Kandae11 (28959)
13 Jan
@Icydoll You too.
@Blondie2222 (19062)
• United States
13 Jan
Most times I read post here and think why ? or what are they thinking ? This is the only site i come too also besides facebook. Even on facebook the things my friends post i have the same questions to myself.
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@Kandae11 (28959)
13 Jan
I can imagine what Facebook is like.
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@Blondie2222 (19062)
• United States
13 Jan
@Kandae11 haha right. I only get on to see what my family is doing and that's it.
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@Corbin5 (84676)
• United States
13 Jan
I skip posts that look like they might give me a negative feeling. I have gotten really good at skipping those.
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@Kandae11 (28959)
13 Jan
Yes, indeed - I won't want to feel stressed at Mylot.
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• Jalandhar, India
13 Jan
I would love to post my opinion freely but i cannot
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@Kandae11 (28959)
13 Jan
There must be guidelines which we adhere to.
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@CoralLevang (16087)
• United States
13 Jan
@Kandae11 I'm sure that the guidelines in today's society are much different than the guidelines in the old philosopher's view of order. Most people that think they can have open and intellectual discussions are nothing more than bullies who only want to hear those who are in agreement or will follow like sheep.
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@Gillygirl (15678)
• Sutton, England
14 Jan
@CoralLevang I understand what you say Coral but like Lori I came across a jerk and sadly I couldn't help putting my point of view. However it was a waste of time really.
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@SAM774 (2397)
14 Jan
I ignore... That's the best way according to me
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@Kandae11 (28959)
14 Jan
I have ignored many and replied to a few.
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@SAM774 (2397)
14 Jan
@Kandae11 great....
@Meramar (2080)
14 Jan
Responding on those kind of posts only may worsen the situation. It's better to just turn away and go ahead with your own life.
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@Kandae11 (28959)
14 Jan
Most I ignore.
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@Meramar (2080)
14 Jan
@JudyEv (103368)
• Bunbury, Australia
13 Jan
Mostly I ignore it because I know they will never understand my point of view. It can be really hard to ignore some posts but rather than get into an argument that will go on and on, I move on. Sometimes I do a post with my point of view but without attempting to draw the other person into it or mentioning them. That way I feel better without hopefully getting into a heated debate.
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@Kandae11 (28959)
14 Jan
I do not like heated debates, I try to disagree as nicely as possible - and the mylot emoticons really help.
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@JudyEv (103368)
• Bunbury, Australia
14 Jan
@Kandae11 They do indeed. I am always adding a smile or laugh so people know I'm perhaps joking or at least not upset.
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@andriaperry (35592)
• Anniston, Alabama
13 Jan
I skip many. Especially the Trump bashing. I have nothing to say about it because if I do I am told I am stupid or wrong, so I skip A LOT.
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@Kandae11 (28959)
13 Jan
I am scared to touch political posts, though I have commented on a few.
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@andriaperry (35592)
• Anniston, Alabama
13 Jan
@Kandae11 same here.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
14 Jan
I pray for them, really I do. You can't change anyone's way of thinking but sometimes I will leave a positive response to help them see a different perspective.
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@Kandae11 (28959)
14 Jan
Sometimes people only believe what they want to believe - so trying to make them view things in a different way would be hard.
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• Austin, Texas
14 Jan
If I'm not moved to make a comment, I move on.
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@Kandae11 (28959)
14 Jan
Many times l am moved to make comments on posts that have been there for an hour or more with no responses.
@cttolledo (3004)
• Batangas, Philippines
14 Jan
I usually respond. Reading such kind of post makes me more curious to know that person better. I want to know more their life stories, I want to understand why they're like that. For me, they're the one that triggers most the interactions here because readers can't help it not to react.
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@Kandae11 (28959)
14 Jan
That is very true.
@peachpurple (11798)
• Malaysia
13 Jan
True we meet all kinds of people offline and 9nline
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@Kandae11 (28959)
13 Jan
Indeed we do.
@jstory07 (59609)
• Roseburg, Oregon
13 Jan
I just like and do not respond.
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@Kandae11 (28959)
13 Jan
That's the easy way out.
@Bluedoll (17183)
• Canada
13 Jan
It depends. I try to write my ideas if I am not sure with words like that, I'm not positive, not to be confused with not being positive. lol But some people have their mind set on something and that is okay I think? They are not asking for help but making a statement. The world is round, God is good, butter is better than marg and mylot is not my family it is a website on line that I like. However the internet works because aliens are in charge - now that might be debatable. you think?
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@Kandae11 (28959)
13 Jan
Haha, aliens? definitely food for thought.
@Madshadi (6963)
• Brussels, Belgium
13 Jan
I would ignore it, unless it's politics. And I don't like bigots and racists. I would shut them down
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@Kandae11 (28959)
13 Jan
I try to avoid political posts.
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@amadeo (50878)
• United States
13 Jan
no I just go on.Why bother.
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@Bluedoll (17183)
• Canada
13 Jan
go on to what?
@Gillygirl (15678)
• Sutton, England
14 Jan
Most of the time I would ignore a post I disapproved off but if it's beyond the pail I have to say something. Luckily it's not often.
@Kandae11 (28959)
14 Jan
Yes there were a few where l just had to say something.@Gillygirl.
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@Gillygirl (15678)
• Sutton, England
14 Jan
@Kandae11 Eek there is certainly a ladies man running round this site.