All that glitters isn't gold

@snowy22315 (170885)
United States
January 19, 2018 6:08pm CST
I think we all know this, but I must admit I was jealous of my jet setting cousin who even managed to get her millionaire hubby to settle down in our hometown. She seemed to have everything trips, expensive toys, a child, a great marriage great career even though she didn't have to work,and friends the whole nine yards. Well I just found out thru the grapevine she and hubby have split. I don't know if it is permanent or not, but it sure might be she has basically excised him off her FB page..even though I know for a fact they were together at the holidays..Well splits often happen in stages anyway. I guess it goes to show you no matter how good things might look on the outside,,appearnces are deceiving.
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@kobesbuddy (74942)
• East Tawas, Michigan
20 Jan 18
It's nice to have things and money, but it can't be a measuring stick for a good marriage. I hope things work out for them!:(
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@snowy22315 (170885)
• United States
20 Jan 18
Yes, i think maybe too mhch of their focus was on superficial things but jusvspecuatibg it could be anything including possible infidelity
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@kobesbuddy (74942)
• East Tawas, Michigan
20 Jan 18
@snowy22315 See, that's what I was thinking. Infidelity can ruin any relationship, no matter how much money they brings in.
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@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
20 Jan 18
Whenever I go on facebook, it seems like everyone has a life and I don't. Which doesn't help with my emotional well-being. I'm glad to reunite with myLot at least for until I'm interested cause it drags me out of facebook.
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@snowy22315 (170885)
• United States
20 Jan 18
Yeah, when you look at Facebook it does look like everyone is having fun but you...well not always the case!
@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
20 Jan 18
@snowy22315 that's true. Other people probably feel the same way seeing my posts. I hope they realize I have really crappy down days I don't ever show on Facebook.
@shaggin (71676)
• United States
20 Jan 18
That is very true! The grass is not alway greener on the other side as they say too. I had couples that always seemed so perfect and happy and I was shocked when they split up.
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@shaggin (71676)
• United States
20 Jan 18
@snowy22315 I hope they do get back together. I hate hearing couples break up.
@snowy22315 (170885)
• United States
20 Jan 18
Yes, very surprised..well maybe they will work it out..who knows? I do feel for my cuz though. It's never easy.
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@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
20 Jan 18
i hope the split is amicable, especially since they have a child. it's good that she has her own career.
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@snowy22315 (170885)
• United States
20 Jan 18
I think they will remain friendly for their daughter's sake but I bet my cousin is heartbroken. Yes, she is a highly paid medical professional. She will be fine economically, emotionally..it will take some time.
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@JudyEv (326545)
• Rockingham, Australia
20 Jan 18
That's very sad. It's hard not be jealous sometimes but we often don't know the whole story.
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@snowy22315 (170885)
• United States
20 Jan 18
Obviously not no clue here!
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
20 Jan 18
Appearances are deceiving. Never know what kind of hell is going on inside a house.
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@snowy22315 (170885)
• United States
20 Jan 18
I dontbthink it was Hell but I do think one of them maybhave wanted something different.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
20 Jan 18
@snowy22315 Yes, I was just using that as an example.
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@AmbiePam (85822)
• United States
20 Jan 18
That would be pretty devastating no matter what your income. Hopefully, they can work it out, but it sounds bad.
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@snowy22315 (170885)
• United States
20 Jan 18
Yeah i am pretty surprised actually..now her nutty sisters relationship's crashing and burning would. Not have surprised me as much
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@PatZAnthony (14752)
• Charlotte, North Carolina
20 Jan 18
Hopefully they will be able to work things out. It is terrible to hear of couples with children splitting.
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@snowy22315 (170885)
• United States
20 Jan 18
Yeah, I admit I was kind of wondering why dad was there in Calif on a trip with his daughter instead of his wife. Well she has gone back to work...but yeah, the split is the reason.
@Morleyhunt (21746)
• Canada
20 Jan 18
You never know what is going on in someone else's life. What looks perfect on the outside might just be a clever disguise.
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@snowy22315 (170885)
• United States
20 Jan 18
You never know.
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@Courtlynn (66918)
• United States
20 Jan 18
I always find that the happiest and "perfect" couples on social media and in person, are actually the most sad, and relationship ending couples. Its sad. But life.
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@snowy22315 (170885)
• United States
20 Jan 18
Amsonetines
@Deepizzaguy (95136)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
20 Jan 18
That is one mystery I am trying to solve why rich people are not happy since the stories of having "Fake family members: begging them for money or having to deal with shady characters who would dig dirt on them so that they can bought off with cash not to squeal their dirty secrets.
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@Spontaneo (14703)
• United States
20 Jan 18
I wish I had a man to take care of whether poor or wealthy. I cannot even remember my last date. Atleast she had love for a while. If she is strong and independent, she will get through.
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@snowy22315 (170885)
• United States
20 Jan 18
I am sure she will be fine..whatever happens..but it is not desirable..obviously.
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• United States
20 Jan 18
Maybe, the money overwhelmed the unhappiness for awhile, but it can't cover up it up forever.
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@snowy22315 (170885)
• United States
20 Jan 18
Yeah not sure if someone would havecasked me i would havebsaud they were solod..but then who knows?
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