Why I don’t always eat birthday cake

@JudyEv (326100)
Rockingham, Australia
February 10, 2018 8:54am CST
Have you ever watched kids blowing out the candles on their cakes? Those watching can’t help going through the motions. We used to light the candles several times so all the children could participate in blowing out the candles. I’m not sure if the candles were extinguished by the force of air or perhaps by spit! Whatever it was, I wasn’t too keen on sharing the cake afterwards. I think the birthday in the photo must have been our younger son’s (on the right) but the older one is obviously going for the big blow too. I’m in the background wearing a hand-crocheted top. What a long time ago this seems.
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@much2say (53945)
• Los Angeles, California
10 Feb 18
I've often thought about that - but gosh darnit I always end up eating a piece anyway! I don't care for frosting anymore . . . I figure if I fork off the icing and just eat the cake, then maybe I'm spit free .
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@JudyEv (326100)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Feb 18
Good idea to leave the icing behind and just eat the cake.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
10 Feb 18
That is why we keep the candle outside the cake and blow! I am going to post a picture soon depicting this soon dear @JudyEv ! Thanks !
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
11 Feb 18
I am going to post it soon dear @JudyEv ! Thanks!
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@JudyEv (326100)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Feb 18
That's a good idea. I'll look forward to your discussion.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
10 Feb 18
that is neat there Judy.A rare photo.Loved it
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@JudyEv (326100)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Feb 18
I probably have my mouth open too!
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@DianneN (247103)
• United States
10 Feb 18
Adorable photo! I'd eat any birthday cake my grandkids blew on, spit or not. They are the only ones allowed to blow out their candles for good luck.
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@DianneN (247103)
• United States
10 Feb 18
@JudyEv I love birthday cake, but rarely eat any sweets anymore.
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@JudyEv (326100)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Feb 18
It's a nice tradition isn't it? Maybe I should have two cakes although we rarely have a cake at all any more.
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@JudyEv (326100)
• Rockingham, Australia
11 Feb 18
@DianneN I like most desserts - the lighter ones anyway but I don't eat lollies, just chocolate if it's available.
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@Traceyjayne (1763)
• United Kingdom
10 Feb 18
Fortunately I am of an age where I don't usually have a Birthday cake ....except those 'special' Birthday that come around every ten years ! However when I do have one I don't have candles so this is never a problem for me . I do agree though that I was never very keen on eating cake that had candles on and blown out ....by children or adults .....all I could think of was all those germs !!!
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@JudyEv (326100)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Feb 18
The problem doesn't arise for us nowadays either but it was very real when the children were small.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
10 Feb 18
Same thoughts. Do not eat birthday cake that people have to blow on.
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@JudyEv (326100)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Feb 18
And I like icing too!
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@allknowing (130063)
• India
11 Feb 18
That is not what we do here. Only the one whose birthday it is blows the cake and the fan above helps the candles to blow away (lol) So I eat the cake.
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@allknowing (130063)
• India
11 Feb 18
@JudyEv What about where an adult blows the candles? Will you still not eat it? Normally there is just one candle with the age number embossed on it.
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@JudyEv (326100)
• Rockingham, Australia
11 Feb 18
@allknowing I'd eat an adult birthday cake. We always had 7 candles for a 7-year-old, 8 for an 8-year-old etc and to get them all blown out in one big breath often meant a bit of spit floating around. With adults we might have candles like you describe or we might have one for every decade. It depends on the person and what they want to do.
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@JudyEv (326100)
• Rockingham, Australia
11 Feb 18
Fair enough. I don't think it is common here either but I always felt sorry for those who didn't get to blow out the candles so I'd light them a couple of times so all the kids could have a go. Hence no cake for me!
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
11 Feb 18
lol Adorable picture and honestly with all the fluids my kids shared with me all the time, a little spit was the last thing on my mind lol
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@JudyEv (326100)
• Rockingham, Australia
11 Feb 18
Yes but there are sometimes other kids 'helping' too.
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
11 Feb 18
YUCK! That is the reason I always got a cake for the kids and a much smaller cake for me to eat! (Usually two or three cupcakes that were iced just like the birthday cake. ) When we go to someone's birthday party, I always refused birthday cake!
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
12 Feb 18
@JudyEv Well, at 22, drooling may come sooner than you think, Judy! (grinning and teasing you!)
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@JudyEv (326100)
• Rockingham, Australia
12 Feb 18
@DaddyEvil You'd be nearer the mark at 72 so the day could be very close.
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@JudyEv (326100)
• Rockingham, Australia
11 Feb 18
A cupcake to hold the candles is a good idea. Pity I'll never need it - not unless I start to drool soon.
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• United States
10 Feb 18
Gee I guess I really didn't give that much thought as I always eat a piece of the cake. Now I just might have to reconsider
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@JudyEv (326100)
• Rockingham, Australia
11 Feb 18
I think there are a few who hadn't thought about it. I hope I haven't spoilt birthday cake for too many.
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@moffittjc (118521)
• Gainesville, Florida
10 Feb 18
Judy, you don't look old enough in the photo to have had kids already! When I first saw the photo--and before reading your post--I thought maybe that was you and your brothers in the photo!
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@moffittjc (118521)
• Gainesville, Florida
11 Feb 18
@JudyEv If you don't mind me asking, how old were you when you had your first child?
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@JudyEv (326100)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Feb 18
Thank you for the kind words - and I wasn't even a child bride!
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@JudyEv (326100)
• Rockingham, Australia
11 Feb 18
@moffittjc I was 26 when I had the first boy and 28 when I had the second. For that era, it was probably about average.
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• Eugene, Oregon
10 Feb 18
Great photo! I am not too keen on spitty cake either. Yuck!
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• Eugene, Oregon
11 Feb 18
@JudyEv I prefer cake with no icing, like a good apple Bundt cake with raisins and stuff.
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@JudyEv (326100)
• Rockingham, Australia
10 Feb 18
Off-putting isn't it? And I love cake with icing.
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@JudyEv (326100)
• Rockingham, Australia
11 Feb 18
@JamesHxstatic That sounds good too. I'm afraid I have a real sweet tooth.
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@teamfreak16 (43421)
• Denver, Colorado
12 Feb 18
Yeah, as a germaphobe, I literally have to force myself to eat birthday cake.
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@JudyEv (326100)
• Rockingham, Australia
12 Feb 18
It's only cakes connected with little kids that freak me out a bit.
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@teamfreak16 (43421)
• Denver, Colorado
12 Feb 18
@JudyEv - That is the hardest. I don't want to offend anyone, but yuck!
@Hannihar (129510)
• Israel
11 Feb 18
Now, I understand why you do not want to eat the cake afterwards.
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@JudyEv (326100)
• Rockingham, Australia
11 Feb 18
@Hannihar No, I've with you there.
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@JudyEv (326100)
• Rockingham, Australia
11 Feb 18
It was only with the little kids that it was a problem.
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@Hannihar (129510)
• Israel
11 Feb 18
@JudyEv Judy, I still would not want to eat a piece of cake after someone spit on it.
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@galileo2008 (1141)
• Philippines
16 Feb 18
I love birthday cakes! My favorite flavors are chocolate and mocha. Nowadays, it's common to see personalized design of cakes for any occasion - mostly are in fondant icing and they look so pretty to look at that I don't want to eat it! :-)
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@JudyEv (326100)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Feb 18
I always have trouble cutting into a lovely birthday cake too.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
12 Feb 18
Oh, you make me realize that the birthday cake can indeed be with some spits because it was blown and when one blows it can't be helped by children to have some spit with the blow. Yuck!
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
13 Feb 18
@JudyEv Yes, that's why other children would blow with the birthday celebrator.
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@JudyEv (326100)
• Rockingham, Australia
12 Feb 18
Haha. Little children in particular get very excited about blowing out candles, don't they?
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
11 Feb 18
I never thought about that, but I sure wouldn't eat it now during flu season. Of course, I don't go to birthday parties anymore, either.
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@bagarad (14283)
• Paso Robles, California
11 Feb 18
@JudyEv I hope not!
@JudyEv (326100)
• Rockingham, Australia
11 Feb 18
We do but now they are for 70+ year olds. Come to think of it, maybe some of them will start dribbling soon too!
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• Preston, England
11 Feb 18
yes some cake will be quite revolting by the time it is blown out, saliva, dirty fingers and dripped candle wax mixed with the icing, mmm, yummy lol
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• Preston, England
13 Feb 18
@JudyEv exactly
@JudyEv (326100)
• Rockingham, Australia
11 Feb 18
Yummy NOT!!
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
12 Feb 18
What fun, I love all the hand made hats their wearing.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
12 Feb 18
Funny how we forget so much of the fun times we had when we were younger huh.
@JudyEv (326100)
• Rockingham, Australia
12 Feb 18
I have no recollection at all of those hats.
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@aureliah (24321)
• Kenya
11 Feb 18
Hahahah I imagine it is the spit that extinguished the candles.
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@JudyEv (326100)
• Rockingham, Australia
11 Feb 18
Exactly so I didn't want to eat the cake!
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@aureliah (24321)
• Kenya
14 Feb 18
@JudyEv hehehehehehe