Did You Ever Get Over Your First Crush?

@houda28 (371)
Tunisia
February 25, 2018 4:29am CST
My first love was the most wonderful guy ever. His name was **** and we were in 8th grade together. Although he moved five years ago, I still think about him up to this day. I only spoke to him six times in my entire life, and each time I try to hide my feelings as best as I could. I know this sounds crazy but I often fantasize about what it would be like to see him again. Has anyone else felt like this before? Is it true that you never forget your first love?
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
25 Feb 18
My first real love was a long time ago and I dated him for 2 years. He went off with someone else eventually and I thought I would never recover from the heartache and although it took a while I did. Yours sounds like a crush which can also create very powerful feelings but who knows you might bump into him one day and get to know him properly.
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@houda28 (371)
• Tunisia
25 Feb 18
That's my only hope
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
25 Feb 18
@houda28 well I've heard of people that have met up years later and started a proper relationship so you never know.
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@aureliah (24321)
• Kenya
25 Feb 18
Great that you recovered in good time
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@aureliah (24321)
• Kenya
25 Feb 18
Of course I did and I don’t know if I would take him now even if given for free
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
26 Feb 18
@houda28 he might not have been as nice as you imagined. Don't stop looking for the special one as he's out there somewhere.
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@aureliah (24321)
• Kenya
26 Feb 18
@houda28 That is worse. You should have had a chance at least
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@houda28 (371)
• Tunisia
25 Feb 18
Hahaha. Maybe the reason why I couldn't get over him is because we never dated or got to know each other better.
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• Philippines
25 Feb 18
hahahahahah! I think I am over it already,,, but if you keep thinking about him maybe you still have feelings for him, or maybe you'll see him again soon. God bless. Prepare yourself if you see him, hehehehe,,, you'll never know. But no false hope... just love and enjoy and let go if you must.
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@houda28 (371)
• Tunisia
25 Feb 18
Thanks. I'll take your advice in consideration
@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
26 Feb 18
You don't forget, because what you feel is the chemical reaction your body's systems instinctively put into play.
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@houda28 (371)
• Tunisia
26 Feb 18
So true !
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@marlina (154165)
• Canada
25 Feb 18
Once you met the "right one", it is very easy to forget all those crushes from before.
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
26 Feb 18
@marlina Indeed, when someone goes out of your life I always think there is someone better waiting round the corner
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@marlina (154165)
• Canada
27 Feb 18
@sprite1950 , And you are right!
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@houda28 (371)
• Tunisia
25 Feb 18
You're absolutely right.
@just4him (307405)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
25 Feb 18
I had a crush on an older classmate. He never knew it, being two years older than me. However, I did get over it.
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@houda28 (371)
• Tunisia
25 Feb 18
I hope the same thing happens to me. But that would only possible if I never met him again
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@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
31 Jul 18
Yes! I got over him the moment i went to college and found myself new people to adore. =) I was so nervous before when i see my crush. I would even stutter if he ever tries to speak to me too... but eventually you will forget all about it, think about it sometimes because it was fun, and you thought you'd never like anyone else. hehe :D
@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
26 Jul 18
Never. it is not those that I remember constantly everyday but when I am awake at the middle of the night, memories will flood back in.
@Shiva49 (26228)
• Singapore
1 Mar 18
It is natural during adolescent time to have a crush and also wait for the other party to take the first step! Like others I had also been attracted to few over a time but all were water under the bridge eventually! siva
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@tzwrites (4835)
• Romania
26 Feb 18
I often think about someone I used to like but my feelings are not deep or intense in any way.
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@mohit459 (12568)
• Haldwani, India
29 Mar 18
I don't have any crush yet
• Philippines
25 Feb 18
Yes and that was long time ago.
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