Secret Admirer

I have been waiting 30 years for Michelle Pfeiffer to be my secret admirer lol!

Yes, I had secret admirers and I have admired someone. I think it's normal.

What is your definition of a secret admirer? Is it someone that you have a crush or just someone you admire for one reason or another?

I admire people often. I am easily attracted to those who are attracted to me. lol A very simple way of saying it. It's sad to keep secrets. I tend to confess to people often, but that's why my emotional heart is a pile of mush.

I have a secret admirer that seems to be turning into a bonafide stalker. It's getting very annoying. She doesn't seem to understand that I have a girlfriend. Or maybe she doesn't care. I don't know, but she's need to get a life and move on.

I have but I know that its all about how the person is online, sometimes they look nice and they say nice things but in real life they are not who you thought they were. Well, its always been how nicely Brad Pitts has taken care of his body

None in myLot but yes in real life in my younger days it has happened.There used to be a guy in the office - tall, dark and handsome (lol) I have also received calls from secret admirers.

I admire a few people, but I don't think I'm too secretive about it. I leave traces of my admiration, one can easily find out, especially when they care. I hope I have admirers too, not stalkers, as the line dividing the two can be pretty thin. I think there's always a reason for attraction: those who are interesting, entertaining and unconventional catch my attention and are more likely to be "admired".

I think those things happen in virtual life a lot these days

I always liked guys that were cute. I had lots of crushes on guys.

Their personality would be what would attract me. I don't have any secret admirers.

I have been attracted at different stages in life to some. It is their confidence mostly for me and how they conduct themselves - siva

Admired someone secretly and ended up with him a few months later! Turned out he felt the same but neither of us admitted it due to other relationships at the time we met!

Oh you admire someone here? Do tell!! lol No I had never had one nor am I one.

Brains. I can never be attracted to someone by their physical appearance. It's always brains for me. So even if I haven't actually seen a person in real life, but I've been impressed by his intellectual prowess through writings or interactions, that an be a good reason for me to be attracted. But I don't admire anybody secretly at the moment. These days when I admire someone, I tell that to their face. I had secret admirers in the past. I don't know now.

Yes, I had some admirers when I was still young and single. Some openly told me about it, but some didn't tell me, just would send me flowers with a card and a greeting of admiration but would say from Mr. Anonymous. I throw them in the trash bin. I don't like someone giving me flowers yet not telling me who he is. Hmm, I wonder who is that man you admire here.

There is someone I do admire, it is someone with a very literary mind. I am friends with the person.

Kandase i have told you many times we cannot continue meeting like this, i am just to old for you----------------lol

In my younger days, I have been drawn to people who did not respond to me at all. For me, it is a sort of inner feeling and then it just grows.

I have some favorite people, here on My Lot. But, I don't actually consider myself a secret admirer. Nope, I'm not admired by someone, secretly