Thoughts On Children Riding Public Transportation

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This morning I saw a very disturbing story on HLN, in which a family was kicked off of a flight, because their toddler was fussy, and someone nearby was bothered by it. At this time I'm unable to remember the airline, but at this point, does it really matter? Those who know me know that i have extremely sensitive hearing, perfect pitch, and really don't "like" children. I am not saying i hate them, I'm just saying that i really don't have the patience to be around them for that long, or to raise my own. I'd go to the ends of the earth for my little nephew, but I still love giving him back to his Mama at the end of the day. That being said, if i were on the afore mentioned flight, I would have stood up with the family of the child, and if they were kicked off the plane, I would have gotten off with them. You know why? Because that toddler was probably just being a toddler, and I bet that family was doing their best. What about my sensitive hearing, you may ask? Simple. Headphones! I never leave home without them. If my flight is somehow incompatible with my iPhone, there's probably something in the in-flight entertainment I can enjoy. In 2007, I flew United Airlines from Toronto Ontario to Phoenix Arizona. I found a great playlist of "The Great American Songbook," pop standards from the 40's and 50's. It was so good, I'd actually consider flying United again, just to hear it. On the way home I flew US Airways, and they had an ABBA album. Another favourite of mine. When I flew Air Canada back to Phoenix, they had something by Michael Buble. I liked it so much, when I landed, I made my husband stop at Borders books, so I could buy myself a copy. To this day, when I hear that album in Canada, I want to go back to Arizona. As I write this, I'm sitting in a Guelph Ontario Coffee Shop. I got here abord a bus with a newborn wailing to my left, and a ticked off toddler whining on my right. I think they were attempting some kind of kid harmony, or something. I solved that problem with my headphones, and a Weavers Album. All four voices from Lee's bass to Ronnie's alto soothed my head, and took away all psychotic thoughts. LOL Of course with perfect pitch I was still aware of the children, and the fact that they were not in the same key as my music, but whatever. If I blocked out all outside noise, I wouldn't be able to hear traffic, and that would be dangerous. The point is, I fixed it so that I could cope with the inevitable. I'll be honest. The ONE time when a child would probably annoy me to the point of saying something to someone would be if that child was running around, and possibly causing me to trip over them. In that case, I'd look for the kid's guardian, and let them know that I can't see that well, and that I'm probably about to fall. That can not be helped. Even in that case, I'd still find a way to calmly deal with the problem. What the heck is with these people who can't handle something as natural as a child being a child? What would you do if you were about to see a family kicked off of a plane because of a fussy kid?