Wealth hasn't brought happiness for James Packer

@JudyEv (326093)
Rockingham, Australia
March 21, 2018 4:53am CST
I just commented on a post by Sivaramakrishnan A (@Shiva49 ). I’ll put the link at the bottom. The post was about how to be happy and I was reminded of a news item which has just surfaced. James Packer is the son of media mogul Kerry Packer and is rated as around the 7th richest man in Australia with a net worth assessed as A$5.00 billion. However he has just resigned as a director of Crown Resorts, which owns, among other things, casinos in Melbourne and Perth. The reason for his resignation has been stated as being due to ‘mental health issues’. He has spoken of suffering from depression before. This is very sad and is another example of wealth not necessarily bringing happiness. Edit: having said all the above, it can be difficult to stay happy and focussed if you don't know where your next meal is coming from. I guess I'm just really surprised that this guy can be SO rich but still in a bad place mentally. The photo is of my mother and sister and could, I think, be entitled ‘happiness’.
Going by comments on social media posts I get a perception that people are frustrated but then I feel the happy ones are less vocal and combative. I am...
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@LadyDuck (458976)
• Switzerland
21 Mar 18
Money does not bring happiness, but also lack of money in my opinion can be pretty depressing.
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@LadyDuck (458976)
• Switzerland
21 Mar 18
@JudyEv Your photo is beautiful Judy. We can have happy moments without spending money, but money is needed for everyday life.
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@JudyEv (326093)
• Rockingham, Australia
22 Mar 18
@LadyDuck I love this photo too. It brings tears to my eyes.
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@JudyEv (326093)
• Rockingham, Australia
21 Mar 18
That's very true. Everyone needs a certain amount of money which is why I put the edit in my post.
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@Madshadi (8841)
• Brussels, Belgium
21 Mar 18
Money can’t buy friendship and love. Rich people, above everyone else, struggle with that.
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• Philippines
21 Mar 18
i guess it's the same with celebrities. they say they're not sure if people really like them, or just out to use them.
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@JudyEv (326093)
• Rockingham, Australia
21 Mar 18
I think that's true and, to some degree, they are never really sure about who is a true friend.
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@JudyEv (326093)
• Rockingham, Australia
21 Mar 18
@hereandthere Yes so they are always a bit suspicious about a person's motives in being nice to them.
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@moffittjc (118546)
• Gainesville, Florida
21 Mar 18
Some of the most miserable people on earth are also some of the wealthiest people on earth.
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@moffittjc (118546)
• Gainesville, Florida
22 Mar 18
@JudyEv I neve thought about it from that angle...when you're rich, you tend to have a lot of fake friends! That right there would make me miserable, sad and depressed.
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@JudyEv (326093)
• Rockingham, Australia
22 Mar 18
@moffittjc I went to a Bob Dylan concert and it was like he really didn't want to be there. I read somewhere that he has never had time to develop any hobbies or many friends and touring is pretty much all he knows. It doesn't really matter if he doesn't perform well as he has enough money for his needs but he gets bored at home so off he goes on tour. Pity for his audience when he's having a bad night though.
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@JudyEv (326093)
• Rockingham, Australia
22 Mar 18
That's very true. You wouldn't know who your friends were. I think that would be the hard part.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
21 Mar 18
No matter how much or less you have, happiness comes from within. Rich people often do not have friends because people tend to use them. Not many people are willing to pay for a rich mans dinner.
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@JudyEv (326093)
• Rockingham, Australia
21 Mar 18
I think that is the case. It must be hard for them to find true friends.
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@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
21 Mar 18
Better to be miserable rich than miserable poor.
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@JudyEv (326093)
• Rockingham, Australia
22 Mar 18
That's true too. You can be miserable in much more comfort if you are rich.
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@JudyEv (326093)
• Rockingham, Australia
22 Mar 18
@Shiva49 So he was going to try something different.
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@Shiva49 (26220)
• Singapore
21 Mar 18
That reminds me. One was given the option to choose one boon from the two offered: Immense wealth but a life of unhappiness or a life of contentment and happiness with no wealth. The man opted for the first reasoning I know what it is to be poor! siva
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@tony1r (303)
• Nairobi, Kenya
21 Mar 18
It true that having lots of money doesn't always bring with it the happiness we may seek.
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@JudyEv (326093)
• Rockingham, Australia
21 Mar 18
Of course, it can be difficult to stay positive if you're really poor.
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@shaggin (71663)
• United States
21 Mar 18
Money can buy a lot of things and I think I would feel a little happier if I never have to worry about money but I do suffer from depression which I take medication for and no amount of money is going to change that. The medicine only do so much.
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@shaggin (71663)
• United States
22 Mar 18
@JudyEv thank you I am very sorry to hear that about your son!
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@JudyEv (326093)
• Rockingham, Australia
22 Mar 18
We all need a certain amount of money but just because you have oodles doesn't mean your troubles are over. I'm sorry you have depression. My son has it too.
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@allknowing (130077)
• India
22 Mar 18
Wealth has nothing to do with happiness. I have said this before and that is it is not how much one has but what one makes of what one has is the route to happiness.
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@allknowing (130077)
• India
22 Mar 18
@JudyEv When wants become needs that is the time one should stay alert.
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@JudyEv (326093)
• Rockingham, Australia
22 Mar 18
Well spoken. I couldn't agree more.
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@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
22 Mar 18
lovely photo! .. I feel very sad for James Packer .. I feel that his depression really started from when he's very young.. All that privileges didn't bring him happiness and peace of mind ..Yes indeed, sometimes we wonder why so much comfort doesn't really bring comfort ..
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@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
22 Mar 18
@JudyEv thanks! .. I just got back from the Philippines .. we have a very poor internet connection in our little town over there..
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@JudyEv (326093)
• Rockingham, Australia
22 Mar 18
I love the photo too thanks. Yes, I think James had a pretty awful childhood. I never could stand his father. And it's great to see your name appearing again. Welcome back.
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@JudyEv (326093)
• Rockingham, Australia
22 Mar 18
@epiffanie Well, I'm glad that was the reason and not something 'bad'.
• Philippines
21 Mar 18
Wow even with that amount of money, he's still not HAPPY? wow I think that being contented about what we still have.
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@JudyEv (326093)
• Rockingham, Australia
22 Mar 18
I guess mental illness is not something you'd choose. I really don't understand depression very well.
@shshiju (10342)
• Cochin, India
23 Mar 18
Lol Money a Two edged sword.
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@JudyEv (326093)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Mar 18
It is indeed.
@teamfreak16 (43420)
• Denver, Colorado
1 May 18
Depression doesn't pick and choose. I am a Bipolar with severe depression. I totally understand. Too bad most people don't.
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@JudyEv (326093)
• Rockingham, Australia
1 May 18
I know you don't want pity but I'm sorry you're suffering from these conditions. Vin plays social golf with 7 guys, four of whom are Vietnam vets and all TPI (Totally and Permanently Incapacitated). It doesn't outwardly affect some of them but one is going through a really rough spot at the moment. There seems to be nothing any of us can do that helps. And of course we feel for his wife too who is a lovely supportive person and who has already cut him down from the rafters once.
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@teamfreak16 (43420)
• Denver, Colorado
1 May 18
@JudyEv - Playing golf regularly probably helps immensely. It's one reason I ride my bike so much. It gives me something positive on which to focus.
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@Starmaiden (9311)
• Canada
22 Mar 18
I am reminded of a quote by Jim Carrey who said; "I wish everyone could be rich and famous so that they will know it is not the answer." :-)
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@JudyEv (326093)
• Rockingham, Australia
22 Mar 18
That is a really wise observation with such a lot of truth in it.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
22 Mar 18
Living in a luxurious life is good but living in a simple , happy and contented life is much better.
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@JudyEv (326093)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Mar 18
Luxury isn't much help if you are depressed all the time.
@snowy22315 (170404)
• United States
21 Mar 18
I think being connected with others is one of the secrets of happiness, and also making up your mind that you will look for what is right and not what is wrong with your life.
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@JudyEv (326093)
• Rockingham, Australia
22 Mar 18
I agree. It's easy for me to say as I have quite an easy life now but I think happiness can be a decision you make. You can CHOOSE to be happy or you can choose the opposite.
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@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
21 Mar 18
i guess happiness, joy, contentment, and peace of mind are 4 different things.
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@JudyEv (326093)
• Rockingham, Australia
21 Mar 18
Yes and they don't always go hand in hand with massive wealth.
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@Shiva49 (26220)
• Singapore
21 Mar 18
Thank you Judy for linking to my post. I worked in the finance area all my life and had the opportunity to be close with some very wealthy. Their approach to life is different with less of humaneness and empathy. I know this is less so in countries like Australia where the class differences are less pronounced. For people like me, wealth cannot mean more of happiness although one needs basic comforts. James Packer might not have attuned himself to the high life or would have seen it as distanced from real life. It takes courage too to step away from what he is used to - the power and influence that comes with wealth and also to admit that he is human after all - siva
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@JudyEv (326093)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Mar 18
I think his father was very hard on him and I can't help but feel that this would have had an impact on his later life. I hope he is able to find contentment at some stage.
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