Are you boring?
By Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
March 23, 2018 1:44pm CST
I ask myself just a while ago this if I'm boring.
Because I bump to this member here who never expand his comment towards my discussion. And it makes me think that maybe because I'm boring for him. Whenever someone comments in my discussion I want to make sure that we can interact until we ran out of words to discuss. But apparently, this one is not making an effort at all. Like no matter how times I ask him and the answers are just brief and short. Definitely, he would like to end a discussion.
Do you happen to bump with someone who is like this too?
My thoughts really. 
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20 responses
@sabtraversa (12938)
• Italy
23 Mar 18
Yes.
Uhm, I guess I can't end it there. 
I usually don't mind, maybe they're busy or lazy or whatever.
I usually don't mind, maybe they're busy or lazy or whatever. 5 people like this
@sabtraversa (12938)
• Italy
24 Mar 18
@JustBhem Not their fault, I sometimes feel lazy too. 
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
24 Mar 18
@sabtraversa
But I know you like to have a conversation.
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
23 Mar 18
" are you boring? " nope, I don't think so, at least that's what I think about myself
I agree there are members who would just " like" or reply briefly on something I placed effort on to engage in an interaction, boring might not be the sole reason, they are most probably after money.
, at least that's what I think about myself
I agree there are members who would just " like" or reply briefly on something I placed effort on to engage in an interaction, boring might not be the sole reason, they are most probably after money.4 people like this
@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
23 Mar 18
@sabtraversa yes, haha but there is still an element of humbleness into it by saying " at least that's what I think about myself" and not outright " I'm not a boring person especially to beautiful ladies"
but there is still an element of humbleness into it by saying " at least that's what I think about myself" and not outright " I'm not a boring person especially to beautiful ladies"2 people like this
@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
23 Mar 18
Yes, there are people like that! You ask them, how was your day and their answer is, ok. Where do you go with that?
It might not be you, it might be them?
How are you feeling?
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@crossbones27 (48435)
• Mojave, California
23 Mar 18
I think some are here to to just get paid. You will really never get in a discussion with some on here unless you accidentally stumble onto what they really like. Even then many of those types will not elaborate much further.
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
25 Mar 18
I don't think it's you, some people just don't seem to have a lot to say. Most of us try to interact until there's nothing left to say.
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
26 Mar 18
@JustBhem Sometimes there's not a lot to say but if someone just gives a like every time without interaction I think it's mainly laziness . They expect others to interact so they can earn but don't want to put in any effort themselves.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
26 Mar 18
@sprite1950
Yes, because they are thinking of their own. This site needs more interaction and beside we can both earn from it.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
24 Mar 18
maybe that person is boring that is why he thinks everything others do is also boring. it is projecting his attitude to others.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
24 Mar 18
@JustBhem they want attention like they want to be the subject of discussion, like what you did now.
maybe this user is proud to himself saying,"at last, somebody took notice of my indifference".
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
24 Mar 18
@ridingbet
Well, if that's what they want then I can tell they are only here to be famous.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
24 Mar 18
No, you are not boring. I like your discussions, it gives me a glimpse of your life. But there are people who will just respond for the sake of just responding. I know a person who talks one liner and thats ME! But that is only applicable if the topic is nonsense and stupid.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
25 Mar 18
@mlgen1037
Than to have a heated argument with them.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
24 Mar 18
@JustBhem that is well deserved for people whose response are like those you mentioned.
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@mlgen1037 (29886)
• Manila, Philippines
25 Mar 18
@JustBhem thats better than nothing. Hehe
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@shaggin (71666)
• United States
23 Mar 18
If his comments are very generic like thank you for posting or have a good day then I'd say just ignore him and not bother trying to interact with him. Some people are here for the money only and not the interaction. Those usually leave soon after.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
25 Mar 18
Yes I have encountered someone like that as well, but to be honest I am also like that person , you know I'm not still good in English language, there are many things that I want to explain but I can't so I choose to respond briefly.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
25 Mar 18
@JustBhem me too. And myLot is a big help for me in improving my skills in English.
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