What advice would you give to a person dating your ex

@Berrygal (3686)
South Africa
April 3, 2018 10:50am CST
Yeah,sometimes we date some people and wish we never did,maybe he or she was such a terrible person but they would be dating another right?so if you are in the position to advice the new friend what will it? Lol
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@mlgen1037 (23490)
• Manila, Philippines
3 Apr
If my ex is a useless prick, then I will advice the girlfriend to just enjoy! Hahaha
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3 Apr
Hshaha useless prick,this got me rolling on the floor, the person should enjoy.
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@Berrygal (3686)
• South Africa
3 Apr
@augusta123 it got me laughing as well
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@mlgen1037 (23490)
• Manila, Philippines
4 Apr
@Berrygal @augusta123: yeah. He is useless for a reason. Hahaha
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• Pakistan
3 Apr
I think you should just let it be. If she is your friend you must share your experience subtly but don't tell them not to date outright. I believe people need to face the consequences of their bad decisions themselves.We can try to stop them but trust me they don't stop. So I have learned to just let it be.
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@Berrygal (3686)
• South Africa
3 Apr
Well written. Thank you
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@pgntwo (21631)
• Derry, Northern Ireland
3 Apr
A wise approach there!
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@Bhebelen14 (5204)
• Philippines
3 Apr
My advice is just to enjoy and be happy. He was my ex and I think it is not proper to give advice to someone he is presently dating.
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@Berrygal (3686)
• South Africa
3 Apr
Yes right
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@pgntwo (21631)
• Derry, Northern Ireland
3 Apr
Agreed - let them find out the same way you did.
@Tinissome (305)
• Indonesia
4 Apr
I don't have idea.just show it
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@Jessabuma (19751)
• Baguio, Philippines
3 Apr
I will just wish them to be happy.
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@just4him (112733)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
3 Apr
My late X is no longer among the living so there is nothing to warn anyone about.
@Berrygal (3686)
• South Africa
3 Apr
Sorry about that
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@just4him (112733)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
3 Apr
@Berrygal I'm not.
@Berrygal (3686)
• South Africa
3 Apr
@just4him why??
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• United States
5 Apr
I wouldn't give any advice if it is meant to be that is cool. I just hope that the both of them are happy and won't make the same mistakes that I did.
@Berrygal (3686)
• South Africa
6 Apr
Great one there
• United States
6 Apr
@Berrygal Thank you!!
@Hannihar (32643)
5 Apr
@Berrygal If someone wanted to date my ex I would warn them to run as far as they can. He is dangerous and very bad news.
@Berrygal (3686)
• South Africa
5 Apr
Haha,they should better heed to your advice
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@Hannihar (32643)
8 Apr
@Berrygal Thanks.
• Calgary, Alberta
3 Apr
self help books because he is dating a ticking time bomb. He will need self help books for his self esteem.
@Berrygal (3686)
• South Africa
5 Apr
Wow,that's a huge one
• Calgary, Alberta
5 Apr
@Berrygal I am pretty sure she will dump him for a man with fatter wallet.
@august18 (2164)
• Tunisia
3 Apr
Hahaha. One of the most interesting topics I ever came across on mylot.
@Berrygal (3686)
• South Africa
5 Apr
Yea,so what will you tell your ex date
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@august18 (2164)
• Tunisia
5 Apr
@Berrygal I don't have an ex.
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@1hopefulman (27224)
• Canada
3 Apr
Run for the hills!
@Berrygal (3686)
• South Africa
5 Apr
Hahaha rolling on the floor with laughter. You can't be serious?
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@1hopefulman (27224)
• Canada
5 Apr
@Berrygal Yes, I was joking. I would wish them a lot of luck. Just because I was not what she was looking for, doesn't mean that he can't be?
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@Mishra122 (160)
• Allahabad, India
3 Apr
I will suggest him that please be careful about him and you know the boy whom I like he always conscious that may be her mother her mom is going to catch him about us but still I love him a lot
@Berrygal (3686)
• South Africa
3 Apr
Haha, he was be a mama's boy then
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• Allahabad, India
4 Apr
@aureliah (14842)
4 Apr
Sometimes the advise maynot matter if they are head over heels in love with that person. You might become the bad one also
@Berrygal (3686)
• South Africa
5 Apr
Very true buddy
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• Philippines
4 Apr
i wouldnt advice anything, she might think i still like my ex, its for her to judge
@Berrygal (3686)
• South Africa
4 Apr
Great if you say so
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@KrauseHome (35026)
• United States
4 Apr
It depends on how well i know the person they have decided to start dating. Many times it is clnsidered interference and best unfortunately to wait and see it for themselves.
@Berrygal (3686)
• South Africa
4 Apr
Yea,they find out the good, bad and ugly themselves
@anikoonline (2957)
• Hungary
4 Apr
If it didn't work for me and him, it can work for him and another girl. I think I would give no advice because it is their private life.
@Berrygal (3686)
• South Africa
4 Apr
Alright dear friend
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@LeaPea2417 (19750)
• Toccoa, Georgia
3 Apr
There are 3 guys I dated in College that I really should not have dated. I would warn the women dating them that they may suffer by dating them.
@Berrygal (3686)
• South Africa
3 Apr
Yea, it could help them who knows
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@augusta123 (5334)
3 Apr
i will say remember he is a mummy's boy,very childish person
@Berrygal (3686)
• South Africa
3 Apr
Yea,some can be very childish
@deba12 (1204)
• India
3 Apr
I would like to tell all the positive and negative qualities of my ex so that the person stay informed.
@Berrygal (3686)
• South Africa
3 Apr
That's if they will listen
@pgntwo (21631)
• Derry, Northern Ireland
3 Apr
Nothing at all.
@Berrygal (3686)
• South Africa
3 Apr
Okay
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