Dealing with People who do not like you
By Curlann
@annierose (19289)
Philippines
July 22, 2018 10:42pm CST
They say that we cannot please everyone and that is true. If some people do not like me, then I will no insist myself anymore. I will also not have ill feelings toward that person. I do not care if he or she does not like me. Even if a person does not like me, I know that my family like me, God likes me, my friends like me and I like me.
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18 responses
@Freelanzer (10744)
• Canada
23 Jul 18
I agree. I always say if someone doesn't like me it is their loss not mine.
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@annierose (19289)
• Philippines
23 Jul 18
True! What matters is we know we are not stepping on anyone.
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@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
23 Jul 18
It is good decision not to let your self be troubled with thinking about my people do not like you and do some silly things just for them to like you. To each his own. I have a few people I am not comfortable to be around with myself so it is not that I do not like them it is just that I am not the type to approach people first so I keep distance at first. Maybe it is the same case for others and do not think immediately they are against you. =)
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@annierose (19289)
• Philippines
23 Jul 18
Exactly! I have also learned that we should not jump immediately into conclusions as that will do us harm not only to ourselves but also to other people.
@May2k8 (18100)
• Indonesia
23 Jul 18
Sometimes, you can only accept the fact that not everyone can like you. There will be people around us who do not like us. Do not let the negative energy of those people influence your mind. The only way to get rid of such people is to ignore them. By not thinking much about what people say, guaranteed you will be happier!
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@annierose (19289)
• Philippines
23 Jul 18
@May2k8 I agree with you. Those are good point of view.
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@annierose (19289)
• Philippines
23 Jul 18
Thanks for that May! It is such a great advice and that is what we need to hear everything we are being pulled down by those negative people.
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@May2k8 (18100)
• Indonesia
23 Jul 18
@annierose Rather than busy serving people who hate you, better try to be the best for the people who care and care for you.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
13 Aug 18
Its much better to leave those kind of people alone and for you not to suffer although they can hurt you a lot that is true.
Just detach yourself from their company and be happy all you can.
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@annierose (19289)
• Philippines
14 Aug 18
i agreee. actually I also cleaned my Facebook account removing those mind of people.
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@annierose (19289)
• Philippines
18 Aug 18
@lovinangelsinstead21 I think I will be doing the same thing . I won't let them in again maybe unless they already changed..I am still not sure.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
15 Aug 18
@annierose
There is one in particular that I don´t want on my wall and they have requested me twice now but they have caused me a lot of pain so the trust it not there and no one understands it like I do although I have forgiven and forgotten that person I won´t let them invade my space well done for not letting them either.
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@Shavkat (137238)
• Philippines
23 Jul 18
@annierose I have so many friends who had betrayed me. They left me when bad times came into my life. They are just there only in good times. That would be unfair. It is better to stay away from them than being used by them.
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@annierose (19289)
• Philippines
23 Jul 18
We both have the same fighting spirits. 
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@annierose (19289)
• Philippines
13 Aug 18
Speak to that person as calmly as possible, no matter how hard it is.
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@annierose (19289)
• Philippines
28 Jul 18
When I was younger, I took it to heart but now that I am more mature. I just laugh when I hear someone does not like me.
@Letranknight2015 (51537)
• Philippines
23 Jul 18
You should not focus yourself on them, waste of time.
@Courtlynn (66918)
• United States
23 Jul 18
Definitely can't please everyone.
I don't "deal" with those who don't like me, I just ignore them and move on, unless they start things.
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@annierose (19289)
• Philippines
23 Jul 18
It is the most practical and reasonable thing to do I think.
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@Starmaiden (9311)
• Canada
23 Jul 18
That's the spirit! Normally when someone doesn't like us, the issue is with them and not us. 
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@annierose (19289)
• Philippines
23 Jul 18
I agree with you Lucinda! I have read such reaction to other person and I reflect on it and realize that it is a good way of thinking.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
23 Jul 18
Yes, I agree with you on that.. I don't care when someone doesn't like me . I am not born to please everyone
@acelawrites (19273)
• Philippines
23 Jul 18
It's true; there are people who do not regard you as "their cup of tea!" Just like you, I will not waste my time and effort trying to win them.
@sw8sincere (5204)
• Philippines
23 Jul 18
Same here. If i feel that a certain person doesn't like me then I won't bother to get close with him/her. I will just ignore and move on.
@arunima25 (85690)
• Bangalore, India
23 Jul 18
It is not possible for anyone to be liked by all. So move ahead!! You have enough loving people around you for whom you matter. That is a blessing!!
