Marrying for the wrong reasons
By filia faith
@Fliafaith (763)
Nairobi, Kenya
July 23, 2018 3:45am CST
My friend's ex really loved her, and the love between them was epic, everyone used to admire them and most wished that they could have a guy/lady like them. Something changed when my friend got a job in a far town and so the guy started cheating on her simply because he thought that she too was cheating, the girl that he cheated her with one day came and told the guy that she was pregnant, and she even gave him the test results, what the guy did was to marry her simply because he never wanted to be separated from his baby, when they got married he came to realize that the lady wasn't pregnant and he had left the girl that he loved, he became so bitter and hurt but there is nothing he could have done since he was already married
later this week he went to look for my friend after 2years to explain everything, now the problem is that they both love each other and they just can't keep their hands off each other despite the pain they feel on each other
how can I help they?
the reason the guy is still married to the other woman it's because of the son they now have.
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10 responses
@MALUSE (69390)
• Germany
23 Jul 18
@Fliafaith Nothing. If you advise something and things go wrong, they will blame you.
Have they asked you to advise them what to do? I don't think so. As I've already said, they have to sort this out themselves.
@Fliafaith (763)
• Nairobi, Kenya
23 Jul 18
yes thats what i would also tell them, since i don't see a reason for someone to stay with someone he/she does't enjoy being with
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@Shellyann36 (11385)
• United States
28 Jul 18
If he wants to get back with your friend he needs to divorce the woman he is with.
@Fliafaith (763)
• Nairobi, Kenya
28 Jul 18
Thats what I also told her, if he really wants to be with her then he should do that
@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
23 Jul 18
and what will happen if your friend gets pregnant by her still married ex-boyfriend?
@Fliafaith (763)
• Nairobi, Kenya
23 Jul 18
She told me that the guy said that he will take good care of her if she gets pregnant.
@Ladanger (14582)
• United States
23 Jul 18
Wow that's a tough story. I mean just because you have a child with someone doesn't mean you stay married unhappily
@Fliafaith (763)
• Nairobi, Kenya
23 Jul 18
@Ladanger Because the guy feels still in love with my friend and not the wife.
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@Letranknight2015 (51555)
• Philippines
23 Jul 18
The divorce the girl and be with this woman that he loves. what's wrong with that.
@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
23 Jul 18
Ohh that's very tough situation.. anyway I wish them all the best
@iniaku (2157)
• Indonesia
23 Jul 18
wow its hard to tell. in one side, i agree the guy get back to the girl he loves and they deserved happiness. the other side, i just dont agree about a divorce, if you already married (and mostly already have children) you should responsible with your family and be a good husband and a good father.
i'm sorry i cant give an advice with this. hope they can find a solution with this
