Living in the husband's family house after marriage
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@augusta123 (6649)
July 25, 2018 2:57am CST
I don't know about others but I believe after marriage there should be privacy for the newly wedded.living in the husband's family house will enable prying eyes especially from domineering in laws. I know it can save some housing cost but I.think one's privacy and sanity might be compromised. What's your opinion on this?
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
25 Jul 18
Every thing depends on the culture at your place and the need of the hour! In traditional Hindu families a girl lives in husband's place along with his parents. In joint families the family comprises of all the brothers of the family and their family all living under one roof.=, when newly wedded girl also lives. But today with changing times and needs many couples are leaving the homes to have their own settlement! Thanks!
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@augusta123 (6649)
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25 Jul 18
i think living alone is a lot better for privacy though
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
25 Jul 18
@augusta123 , yes, there are pros and cons in both the styles of living!
@db20747 (43427)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
29 Jul 18
Yes, i could only stay 4 a little while!!! My cousin did this 4 many many years!!! He is strong I would go crazy!!! I dont like people in and out!! U cannot enjoy time with your spouse without people joining in the conversation!! A real nuisance!!!!
But some are okay 
it really depends on each family
@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
25 Jul 18
I do agree with you on that but there are some cases when the couple is not yet ready to get a house of their own and they only have that kind of option.
@augusta123 (6649)
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25 Jul 18
yea,but I believe there should be planning for that before the marriage what do you think?
@acelawrites (19273)
• Philippines
25 Jul 18
When the parents are so accommodating and there are few people living there, it is good to stay there, but if the new couple could already afford to have their own house, they should do it for privacy.
@rsa101 (37966)
• Philippines
25 Jul 18
Ideally it is good that you live separate and build your own family together. But there are cases that may be practical especially when you just got married and are not yet fully ready to live separately. For me, for as long as it’s temporary arrangement and the inlaws are accommodating then that’s fine. But if the husband’s intention is to stay there for quite sometime then it would not be healthy anymore.
