Always last

@JudyEv (325815)
Rockingham, Australia
August 14, 2018 6:48pm CST
We’ve just sent a birthday card to our son in Ireland. He turns 44 in a week or two. That makes me … oh, never mind. (sad face) We have two sons and the family birthdays are in February, April, July and August. When Damian was small, he would get upset from time to time about his birthday being in August. ‘Why am I always last’ he would ask and it seemed impossible to explain it to him. The photo is of him as a little tacker (child). Is ‘tacker’ a word you know or another of those funny Strine (Australian) words?
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@moffittjc (118459)
• Gainesville, Florida
15 Aug 18
Tacker is not a word I've heard before, but one I can now add to my vocabulary. And when he asked you why he was always last, you were supposed to tell him that you always save the best for last!
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@JudyEv (325815)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Aug 18
I'm not sure that would have cut it!
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@DianneN (246905)
• United States
15 Aug 18
He was certainly an adorable little tacker! That's a new work for me.
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@DianneN (246905)
• United States
15 Aug 18
@JudyEv At least I'll know it when and if we visit Australia!
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@JudyEv (325815)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Aug 18
It must be an Aussie word. No-one seems to know it.
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@topffer (42156)
• France
15 Aug 18
I never heard the word, but I am not a reference when it comes to English.
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@JudyEv (325815)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Aug 18
I wouldn't bother trying to remember it as you might be the only one in your circle who knows what it means.
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@Juliaacv (48448)
• Canada
15 Aug 18
Happy birthday to him! I know what you mean about feeling nostalgic and a bit sad on our children's birthdays-I go thru the same thing it seems. That's an adorable picture of him. I don't think that I've ever heard of the term tacker, but its cute-just like him!
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@Juliaacv (48448)
• Canada
15 Aug 18
@JudyEv He IS far away!
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@JudyEv (325815)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Aug 18
Thanks. The older we get (his parents) the further away he seems to be so it gets a bit sad sometimes.
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@just4him (306381)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Aug 18
Australian. I never heard it before. I didn't like where mine was placed in the year because I couldn't bring treats to school. It's summer here and no school in July. Nice picture of your son.
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@just4him (306381)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
18 Aug 18
@JudyEv My brother-in-law, my late husband's brother, has his birthday in December. He celebrates it in the middle of summer or did when he was growing up so it wouldn't be confused with Christmas.
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@JudyEv (325815)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Aug 18
@just4him That's a good idea. That way he wouldn't miss out on presents either.
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@JudyEv (325815)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Aug 18
It seems perhaps the most unpopular time for birthdays is around Christmas. I have a friend whose birthday is the 23rd and she hates it being at that time. A cousin has hers on Christmas Day itself which is just as bad.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
15 Aug 18
Awww! Like @moffittjc I would have told him the best is always saved for last.
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@JudyEv (325815)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Aug 18
I don't know why I didn't think of that.
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@marguicha (215480)
• Chile
15 Aug 18
Your son was beautiful. I can understand that you are sad that he is so far away. My eldest daughter turned 54 this year. She is growing old
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@JudyEv (325815)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Aug 18
I'm not sure where all the years in between disappeared to.
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@marguicha (215480)
• Chile
15 Aug 18
@JudyEv Years are running lately
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
15 Aug 18
SO you also still have a picture of him when he was just a kid. He is so cute! Indeed as our children grows older, we become much more older too and that saddens me so much also.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
17 Aug 18
@JudyEv When the children have their own lives, we will be again with just our husbands only.
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@JudyEv (325815)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Aug 18
We have lots of photos of both of them. Because he is so far away it will become more and more difficult to visit him. And yes, that makes us sad.
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@JudyEv (325815)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Aug 18
@SIMPLYD Yes, so you need to have chosen a nice one!
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@caopaopao (12395)
• China
14 Aug 18
Your son is very handsome. There will always be inexplicable troubles for children.
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@JudyEv (325815)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Aug 18
You are right of course. Kids say some funny things don't they?
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@caopaopao (12395)
• China
15 Aug 18
@JudyEv Yes, I like the funny things the children say.
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@LadyDuck (458230)
• Switzerland
15 Aug 18
Tacker is a word that I never heard. Difficult to explain to a child why his birthday is on a certain date. I was the first in family, in February.
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@LadyDuck (458230)
• Switzerland
15 Aug 18
@JudyEv I am sure that now he does not care at all.
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@JudyEv (325815)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Aug 18
Luckily he soon grew out of worrying about it.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
15 Aug 18
I have never heard of a child being called a tacker, 3 of my kids and 3 of my grand kids were born in August, it must have been a really cold winter in those years!!!
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
15 Aug 18
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@JudyEv (325815)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Aug 18
Haha - yes, something auspicious must have happened!
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@Deepizzaguy (94581)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
15 Aug 18
A term that I know of when you are the youngest child is "babe".
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@JudyEv (325815)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Aug 18
Yes, that's a more common one.
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@Deepizzaguy (94581)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
23 Aug 18
@JudyEv That is true since the late Jerome "Curly" Howard of the Three Stooges fame was the youngest member of the Howard family.
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@Kandae11 (53679)
15 Aug 18
So cute! - and they grow up so fast.
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@JudyEv (325815)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Aug 18
They do don't they? I can't believe he's 44 and our other son turned 46 in February. I won't say what I was a week or two ago!
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@JudyEv (325815)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Aug 18
@Kandae11 Sometimes it's aches and pains too.
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@Kandae11 (53679)
15 Aug 18
@JudyEv Age is just a number.
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@arunima25 (85328)
• Bangalore, India
15 Aug 18
He looks adorable in his childhood photo. Happy birthday to him. God bless him. My little one had the same complaint till last year...Why am I the last? Her birthday comes in October. Others in family celebrate in March and May.
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@JudyEv (325815)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Aug 18
It's funny isn't it? And hard to explain.
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@JudyEv (325815)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Aug 18
@arunima25 Haha - yes, such things can be difficult to explain.
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@arunima25 (85328)
• Bangalore, India
15 Aug 18
@JudyEv My elder one keeps complaining that we do not understand the plight of the elder ones in family as she is the odd one out in family. Both me and my husband and my younger one are youngest in our family. Well! things are really hard to explain at times.
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@snowy22315 (170018)
• United States
15 Aug 18
Cute pic..no we don't use that word here. Happy bday to your son.
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@JudyEv (325815)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Aug 18
Thanks. We seemed to have missed a decade or so somewhere in the middle.
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@allknowing (130064)
• India
15 Aug 18
Good looking guy that one. I only know tacking - which again I have never done. Stitching and I were enemies.
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@JudyEv (325815)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Aug 18
I couldn't sew for nuts which is a great shame. I could be making little T-shirts instead of crocheting beanies.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
16 Aug 18
He looks very angelic in the picture - did he play that violin? I've not heard that word.
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@xFiacre (12597)
• Ireland
15 Aug 18
@judyev Perhaps you ought to have been more thoughtful in your family planning! In our household we are 2 January’s, 2 February’s, 1 March, 1 May and the lady celebrates in splendid isolation in September. The there are the grandkids.
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@JudyEv (325815)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Aug 18
When our children were conceived our thoughts weren't really fixed on when they'd be born.
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
15 Aug 18
I've never heard or read the word 'tacker'. I won't include it in my vocabulary, though. I'd rather stick with standard British English. I hope you can live with this and won't be insulted. :-)
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@JudyEv (325815)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Aug 18
As I said to @topffer best to forget it as you'd be the only one who knew what you were talking about. Although perhaps they'd think you were very knowledgeable.
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@redurnet (1799)
• United Kingdom
15 Aug 18
I have never heard of the word 'tacker'. I have learned a lot of Australian words from watching soaps like 'Neighbours' or 'Home and Away'.
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