Back Together with my Ex Girlfriend
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@stringer321 (5643)
Kiryat Ata, Israel
August 18, 2018 11:53pm CST
Hey all, I had a girlfriend until 2 years ago, and now we are back together.
We had a couple of problems: I didn't love her so much, we had no money to afford getting married, my parents didn't want to help us, she had a crush over me, I felt being choked.
Now, 2 years later, I'm amazed she still keep in contact with me, she kept visiting my grandmother, that's good. I have a better job than I had in that time, I can earn enugh for renting an apartment. She loves me, and we have good time together.
There is a problem, she has no job now since she got fired. I hope she finds a job soon. Maybe she will start dancing with me at the beach. There is Israeli folk dancing there at saturdays.
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@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
19 Aug 18
maybe you can use this time to really make sure you really love her, that you can see yourself and your future with her and also to be financially ready and how you will manage expenses once you're married before even thinking about and planning any marriage
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@stringer321 (5643)
• Kiryat Ata, Israel
19 Aug 18
You are right, planning is very important here. We plan she finds a job first. We agree she will come with me to the family even in saturdays, I will use my spare time to see her, I know she loves me very much, I will love her as well.
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@stringer321 (5643)
• Kiryat Ata, Israel
22 Sep 18
Everything will be alright even if a 3rd world war get started, the question is - alright for who ?
I have faith in GOD because I know the human spirit can do good and not just selfish.
In the kabbalah that explains Dr Laitman, GOD is all about giving to the ones he created. Our problems start when we want to enjoy only for ourselves. There comes the golden rule that seems to work in every aspect of life. To love the others as we love ourselves. The more we follow this rule, we can get more solidarity with the creator, and good things start to happen, that's a long story. In short, I believe in GOD and that's why I'm sure everything will be alright because there is no other way, we must understand we are all connected as one, we will need to behave accordingly.
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@stringer321 (5643)
• Kiryat Ata, Israel
22 Sep 18
@Janet357 That's because of many don't follow the simple golden rule :-)
@Janet357 (75656)
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22 Sep 18
@stringer321 im glad with how you regard God’s importance to us. You just put Him in your relationship and everything will be ok. Life nowadays is getting really hard.
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@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
19 Aug 18
Be her business-partner! I know there have been television-shows that paint office-romance as 'a bad thing'; but if the both of you ARE the business-partners, you get more focus on the same goals, yes?
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@stringer321 (5643)
• Kiryat Ata, Israel
19 Aug 18
That's right, we have to become partners with the same goals (we have to want it too)
That's more or less the main thing to do to keep us with a good healthy relationship.
I can ask her, what makes her happy, what is important for her in this life ?
I can tell her my point of view, without any criticism, we will agree on the core things that are common to us (and to every other human being).
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@stringer321 (5643)
• Kiryat Ata, Israel
19 Aug 18
Happy indeed :-)
I'm being optimistic about it/
In the past, my work didn't bring me much income, I couldn't see how we can live together.
We won't need my parents help. They will help us with small things, my girlfriend likes taking care of children, she is loyal, she is a family person.
We have good time being together, even if we have nothing to talk about. I feel we found each other.
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That's good.
@stringer321 (5643)
• Kiryat Ata, Israel
22 Aug 18
I hope they are right, because, I have worked today from 6:00 to 14:00 got, home, was hungry and tired, I had no will to see her, just to sleep. Now I'm going to sleep again, it is already 21:53 and must to wake up at 4:30, get a shower, get ready to work...
I don't feel like seeing her so far. Even if I like cuddling with her.
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@Starmaiden (9311)
• Canada
19 Aug 18
Hopefully you can both work through the problems you had before and come to an understanding of why it didn't work before committing fully in a second reunion. Otherwise You'll just "pick up where you left off". 
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@stringer321 (5643)
• Kiryat Ata, Israel
28 Aug 18
We review the problems we had in the past. We thought about how easily we can solve them and prevent them. We keep in touch, I go to see her, she looks for a job, she tries not to ask for me too much. That's a lot.
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@GreatMartin (23676)
• Ft. Lauderdale, Florida
20 Aug 18
Good luck but be careful be sure the problems are not still there.
@stringer321 (5643)
• Kiryat Ata, Israel
20 Aug 18
We are working on it. She is looking for a job, so we have a better income.
We found how to enjoy each other, that's good :-)
What more ? I need to love her more, I still feel I just like her and not more than that :-)
@JudyEv (325815)
• Rockingham, Australia
26 Aug 18
My husband and I had a story a little like yours. We were good friends for several years then he went off to work elsewhere and didn't want to be such close friends but later he decided he had made a mistake and came looking for me again. And now we've been married almost 47 years.
@stringer321 (5643)
• Kiryat Ata, Israel
27 Aug 18
This is so nice to know about it. It gives me hope. She went to a job interview today, I hope she gets accepted to work in Castro cloth shop, it will be nice and close to home. We will have a better future.
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