I am dealing with an absolute Nosy Commenter..!!
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@anya12adwi (6037)
India
September 2, 2018 8:21am CST
Well, first greeting you all.. How's the day going and speaking of myself, I am unwell..
So a user had posted about women.. I am declaring that I am not a FEMINAZI..!! I support men as well as women with integrity,, morales and values.. I commented something in the post without any intention of demeaning males..
And here comes the days of.. UGHHHH.. I don't get words..!! A nosy user jumped into my comment thread and targeted me by putting all facts and figures that women are competing with men in terms of crimes..!!
I am not interested in stretching the issue, so I tried to remain neutral..!! But that user!! I did not know if his male chauvinist ego got hurt or what..!! He kept posting the links and all stuffs where women were criminals..!!
Seriously?? Like I mean Seriously?? Who does that here?? Just to prove a point..!! I today checked his comments on the post where he also argued with a respected user of Germany.. Like REALLY??? And that too onto a baseless point???
It is evident that all greatest leaders of the world have been around women with high integrity, be it their wife or mother or sister.. It is said that a mother is the first teacher of her kid.. Only it is her who can change the world.. And by this I am not demeaning males..!!
It was a vent-out post.. And how do you deal with such nosy commenter???
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15 responses
@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
2 Sep 18
This is the only sensible way. I don't know why you dealt with this member for such a long time.
I seem to be the only "respected user of Germany". So you must mean me. I think I've found the comment thread you are referring to here. When his arguments became too silly and insulting, I simply stopped.
I've learnt this attitude from a former teacher of mine: "What does the oak tree care if a sow rubs her back at its trunk or not." I'm the oak tree. :-)
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@anya12adwi (6037)
• India
2 Sep 18
He has not used words that are vulgar or anything but it disturbs the mind.. So, I cannot report him..
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@marguicha (215492)
• Chile
2 Sep 18
I delete his answer, report him and block him (go to him name and there´s a possibility of blocking people). I am not interested in those sorts of human beings.
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@anya12adwi (6037)
• India
2 Sep 18
Next time, he comments and lingers the topic, I will surely do that..
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@akalinus (40440)
• United States
3 Sep 18
@anya12adwi I think you can delete them. JJ just said so on a post about a different subject.
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@anya12adwi (6037)
• India
3 Sep 18
It is very hard to ignore his comments as I am very compulsive person..
@anya12adwi (6037)
• India
2 Sep 18
Like how and what obsession?? I clearly said him I agree with him and I kept my point too.. But some people cannot accept others' points..
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@Kandae11 (53679)
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2 Sep 18
@anya12adwi Because he is obsessed with his own beliefs - therefore he won't accept the point of view of others.
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@anya12adwi (6037)
• India
2 Sep 18
I cannot stop myself from venting out my frustation.. lIke how a person can be blind???
@anya12adwi (6037)
• India
12 Sep 18
Yes, I dealt with such two mad men.. One stopped but the other one did not stopped, so I blocked him
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@anya12adwi (6037)
• India
7 Oct 18
@Janet357 I did not know that but he has not commented on any of my posts after that
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@Janet357 (75656)
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12 Sep 18
@anya12adwi the problem is even if you block someone here he can still see your post, he cannot just message you but he can still comment on your discussions.
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@anya12adwi (6037)
• India
3 Sep 18
Yes, now whatever he replies, I would ignore that user..!! I will embrace peace as I gave him his piece of mind.. So yeah..
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@CinnamonGrl (7083)
• Santa Fe, New Mexico
2 Sep 18
I'd do one of two things: ignore them, so the situation doesn't escalate. Or block them if you just can't make yourself ignore them.
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@CinnamonGrl (7083)
• Santa Fe, New Mexico
2 Sep 18
@anya12adwi I got curious and went and peeked. I saw right away who you'e talking about. He looks like a person who just is rude and wants to pick a fight. I'd block him. It's way too irritating, life's too short to put up with it.n Hopefully you'll never hear from him again.
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@anya12adwi (6037)
• India
3 Sep 18
@CinnamonGrl You did?? I could not know what wreck I had caused if I said with women taking the lead, there can be curbing on corruptions!! 
I thought him to be of a college kid because of his attitude..
I thought him to be of a college kid because of his attitude..@anya12adwi (6037)
• India
2 Sep 18
His nuisances cannot be ignored and I will definitely block him if he goes on commenting like that..
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@pgntwo (22408)
• Derry, Northern Ireland
7 Oct 18
@anya12adwi T'is the only way to retain your sanity.
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@anya12adwi (6037)
• India
8 Oct 18
@pgntwo True.. Life is what we make it out of it.. It will be simple or complicated and that depends upon us
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@JamesHxstatic (29242)
• Eugene, Oregon
17 Sep 18
Sounds as if this guy has problems. I am hoping I live to see a woman President of the US.
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@JamesHxstatic (29242)
• Eugene, Oregon
30 Sep 18
@anya12adwi I doubt that very much, for 2020 at least.
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@anya12adwi (6037)
• India
30 Sep 18
Oh wow sir.. I was hearing news that Michelle Obama might contest.. Is it true?
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@anya12adwi (6037)
• India
7 Oct 18
@JamesHxstatic Hope, she enters into politics.. I seriously do pray.. We need good people as our leaders
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@anya12adwi (6037)
• India
5 Sep 18
I think it is in my destiny to deal with such people from time to time.. and on that too on mylot.. But thankgod, that had stopped hopefully..
@anya12adwi (6037)
• India
5 Sep 18
I just could not stop myself seeing his meanness and shrewdness to other users too
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@birjudanak (14319)
• India
6 Sep 18
A long time ago i also met a person who was so negative here on mylot. He wanted to prove himself right even he wrong so he always gave useless comments so first i replied so he keep talking nonsense things. He was not offensive but his comment is uselss so i stop to reply him. I was so angry because he keep commenting but its disturbing intreaction with others friends. That person not want to accept truth so i stop to reply him and after not reply to his nonsense comemts he left. We know what is right and wrong but sometimes we can't do anything in social sites of work. We can flag it or we can report but not else so batter to avoid them. Have a good day friend.
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@anya12adwi (6037)
• India
9 Sep 18
Yes i would prefer to ignore after just giving my turn of stubbornness..
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@Hannihar (129481)
• Israel
2 Sep 18
@anya12adwi
I hope you blocked that person or reported him.
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@anya12adwi (6037)
• India
2 Sep 18
I cannot report but I am gonna block him if he continues with his nuisances!
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@anya12adwi (6037)
• India
3 Sep 18
@Hannihar NO. It is better for him, otherwise, Am gonna give him his piece of mind
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@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
2 Sep 18
The truth stays true.
It reminds me of a video about defense-against-bullying I saw on Facebook.
I don't know if I can find it, but it was basically a demonstration: it started out with this one person insulting the other, and the other trying to win against the insulter ("No I'm not stupid! etc.") and the insulter just doubling-down on the insults; then the person insulted the other, and the other just 'took it' ("Yeah, I'm stupid sometimes ... you need any help?")
That speaker might've taken the 'respond in love'-approach a little too far. but--If 'what they say about you' really bugs you--you might try finding out "what makes them say that." (E.g. When I try to get them to stop insulting Trump-supporters--calling all Trump-supporters "Four-toothed, mother-loving, numb-skull nitwits"--I might respond with, 'Yeah, being unable to do anything to stop our leaders makes us all feel a little useless; but what's "whining about it" going to do?')
@anya12adwi (6037)
• India
3 Sep 18
But he went on and on with my harmless comment that was directed to the post and the user.. I have got some mates of mine who go on kind of bullying if I don't agree with them but I do give him their own medicines.. The cause?? He is 18 years older to me.. May be he had break up.. Or I donot know.. Bad marriage..
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