If I'm gone.
By Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
September 14, 2018 9:42pm CST
I know some people will say something nice and bad about me when I'm gone.
My Mother and some of my relatives are talking about one of our neighbor who died last month. They talk about how rude and arrogant this person was when she was still young. This makes me think that if I'm gone, some people say something nice and there will also be some bad things about me.
Even if you did nice to people, they will always have something to say to you.
So be kind anyway.
Anyway, I'm not feeling well today, maybe because I was too tired yesterday playing with the baby and dealing with my nephews. They are all here yesterday day too. And when they are together it's a riot. The house will be messy.
Any good quotes to share? 
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22 responses
@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
15 Sep 18
I know your feelings! I don't bother what people will say about me or my acts so long I feel that I am doing good and that is for the benefit of atleast some one! We can't stop the people from talking...they will always have something or other to talk about others, as that is the way of passing time for them!
I can understand that you must have had a hectic time yesterday with your nephews. You are looking tired, better take rest
This is a nice quote I liked and posting for you!
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@marguicha (215492)
• Chile
15 Sep 18
I have no quotes to share.
But I just want to say that should you go before I do, I´ll miss you. You are a lovely person.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Sep 18
@marguicha
I want to live more. That's for sure.
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@allknowing (130064)
• India
16 Sep 18
No one says anything to my face even now. So does it matter?
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@allknowing (130064)
• India
16 Sep 18
@JustBhem As you have rightly said in your post whatever one does there will always be people who praise and people who condemn. So just live your life and get satisfaction.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Sep 18
@allknowing
I will, thanks for this advice.
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@GardenGerty (157563)
• United States
16 Sep 18
Here is a quote by Eleanor Roosevelt "Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people." You are right, though, people will talk, and some of it may not be so good. Keep your chin up, and give them something good to talk about.
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
15 Sep 18
That's a nice picture! Is it a recent one? It is best to do what pleases God as what He will say about us is what really counts.
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
16 Sep 18
@JustBhem Life is not easy. I hope things work out for you.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Sep 18
@1hopefulman
Indeed. Thanks. And I will take my life easy on me.
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@Letranknight2015 (51532)
• Philippines
16 Sep 18
Who cares what they think. It's what GOD thinks that matters.
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@LeaPea2417 (36451)
• Toccoa, Georgia
16 Sep 18
I bet they will only say nice things about you. (and you look good in the photo).
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@Shiva49 (26204)
• Singapore
15 Sep 18
I always recall Shakespear's words: "The evil that men do lives after them; the good is oft interred with their bones".
For me, doing good is a reward in itself and matters more than what others say.
I am sure you have touched many lives positively - siva
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@arunima25 (85338)
• Bangalore, India
15 Sep 18
I am only answerable to my own conscience.
This is my mantra to live.
People will talk regardless of...
Have a good rest.
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@arunima25 (85338)
• Bangalore, India
16 Sep 18
@JustBhem 
That's the way to go.
You are precious and so take good care of yourself.
That's the way to go.
You are precious and so take good care of yourself.1 person likes this
@Mskayreads (86)
• Bloomfield, New Jersey
15 Sep 18
"Wake up and be awesome! EVERYDAY!"
It is in our nature to talk about others. From experience if you do good and is a overall nice person, then people will always remember that. This is what I experience with the grandmother and grandfather.
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@caopaopao (12395)
• China
15 Sep 18
If I leave the world, I don't care what people will say about me.
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